i like you, i love you! (but i can't say so)

menolly-hime · 2010-12-28T20:21:08-01:00

i was just wondering what everyone else thinks. ever have feelings for someone but you never told them? i'm sure we've all been there, at least once. i was curious about the different reasoning anyone had for had for it, if it's the same or differs from my own, or stories you may have. telling that special someone that you feel something a little more than friendly for them is a scary ordeal, one that can make you feel isolated and like you're going to be alone forever. so let's talk about this, people~! we can call it the shy/insecure/paranoid support group. for me, i usually keep quiet because... 1.) i don't feel worthy/feel inadequate/think that they deserve someone better. 2.) i think it's not even possible, so why try? 3.) they like/love someone else, or i suspect that they do. 4.) i feel i'm not even in their league, or their type. a story of mine; i liked a guy for ... let's just say, a long time. and he liked me, too, because he told me every single day for awhile. that turned to being in love. but, still, i rejected him time and time again. because i felt someone else could make him much happier. i tried everything to make him hate me. the end result of this? we were together for almost five years. yeah, it didn't end happily, quite the opposite, actually... but i'm glad i at least told him how i felt. score one for menolly. (i still have trouble telling people if i like them, though, but that's one point for me! right?)

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Iam1vs100xp

14 years ago

I'm too.... eccentric.

grimy

14 years ago

Iam1vs100xp wrote...

I'm too.... eccentric.

Since when is being eccentric bad??
Then again I'm probably thinking of the wrong eccentric... nevermind.

AliceSinWonderland Bunny

14 years ago

Yep and I still won't admit it to a certain guy that I liked him because it's pointless. It's all in the past

Lughost the Lugoat

14 years ago

Matters of the heart are pretty much the only things that I'm shy about, and it really comes back to bite me.
On at least half a dozen occasions I didn't tell various girls how I felt about them or didn't ask them out and wound up passing my chances by. On two of those occasions the girls wound up dating my best friends. Shit really sucks.

Sutsefreh

14 years ago

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I'm tsundere. Trust me. The dere side must come out haha.

I'm in the same position too. But of course there's always the future to look out for.
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Moki

14 years ago

To answer your question, yes I have held my feelings for this guy in middle school. I was in sixth grade and he was in eighth. We always use to communicate and hug and in a fight with a male he comforted me. I held my feelings and when he graduated I wanted to tell him but I couldn't find him in the crowd. So,tahdah.

menolly-hime

14 years ago

C:
it's nice to hear from so many people~
and i don't know if i'm tsundere, but i get called one all the time.
i don't know - i have a hard time expressing how i feel, and i just... just.. get so angry! and scared! so i act like i don't care! and i just want to hit someone... it's frustrating, i hate it.
... the person i like is an idiot. a hugehugehuge idiot.

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