I realized I have a weird girlfriend... but it can be funny.

Care to elaborate on why this makes OP a tool?

Because he's in a completely one-sided and frankly, abusive relationship.

His significant other has claimed "ownership" over him. He's just letting her -very literally- do whatever she wants to with and to him and doesn't stand up to her for reasons unknown.

And even if he had reasons, they'd be null and void because a relationship is about mutualism, not this... psycho bitch exercising dictatorship over his dick and eyeballs.

I still don't get why dating her since school makes him a tool since your reasoning is "Because he's in a completely one-sided and frankly, abusive relationship." which is completely irrelevant. In fact, to call it abusive is going a little over the top.

And you do realise that he mentioned that he got laid as a result of his ban? So it would be quite safe to assume that he agreed to it. The only time he mentioned her was when she thought he was watching porn during his ban, so getting the idea that she's a psycho bitch based on that flimsy evidence is, quite frankly, assuming a lot from very little. He's also mentioned that he's been with her for 6 years, that means he knows her a little better than you do. All other information he's given on the subject quite frankly is too vague to come to a real conclusion.

It's possible that he made this thread not to ask for help but to just tell other people about his relationship experiences, but people have misunderstood that because of the poorly-structured Opening Post. If he wanted help or advice he'd most likely specifically ask for it.

Honestly. I don't quite understand why he's a tool. I'm also female and some women are under the assumption that if her other half gets sex he shouldn't need to fap. Not always the way though as I know for a fact, my better half has a high sex drive so idc if he faps, and not watching porn? Maybe the both of you could watch it together :)

this whole no fap thing is a total red flag

Telling your partner in a relationship that they're "not allowed" to do anything is manipulative, selfish, and yes potentially abusive.

Outside the confines of the law, nobody should be able to tell you there's anything you're not allowed to do, especially when it pertains to your own body.

There is no justification for this, especially when you can use your relationship as a form of blackmail to change or control a person to your preference.

If it's part of a control game to do with building back-up or asserting mutually agree dominance, that's something different entirely and, in that case, go crazy and have fun. ^3^

Otherwise, nobody should ever be allowed to tell you what to do with your body, or how to act in your life.

Learn to read.

Firstly my post was a general statement about unhealthy control in relationships. I am trying to make clear the distinction between consensual denial play and emotional blackmail for the sake of control. I specifically mentioned that if it's a mutually consensual game then it's ok!

Secondly, getting laid after agreeing not to fap doesn't make telling you you're not allowed to fap ok. In this scenario obviously Fate-Sama doesn't mind, and is happy with his situation, or else he wouldn't be engaged to his fiancée. However, stringing somebody along with rewards doesn't justify what in certain circumstances could be construed as control by emotional blackmail. Bullying someone every day isn't justified by you occasionally giving them a cookie, for example.

What it comes down to is that I'm just trying to promote a healthy awareness of mutual respect and self-worth within relationships. I'm not passing any judgement on anybody, ok? ^_^"

lol dude a fap ban? my gf is annoying sometimes but she never told me I couldn't fap

I'm with everyone else here... unless she's placed a fap-ban on you because she's wanting sex every day (or multiple times a day) and you can easily get your release, she's just an insecure twat who's trying to needlessly control you. I'd give you 3 choices in this case:

fuck her lots
fap and fuck her when you can
or just fuck her (not literally, the break-up kind) and go fap-only.

I'd suggest either #1 or, better, #2.
Ninja skills, man. Practice them good ;D

Believe me, she is indeed a bit of a nymphomaniac... 3 rounds daily on weekdays and fuck it I lost count on how many times on weekends...

As long as you two are happy and agree on things, that's all that matters.

Oh and stay hydrated if you two are going like rabbits as you say ;D

Ironically I spend more money on condoms and drinks than I do on food and furniture...

Sounds pretty fucking good, tbh. Although, you'd be pretty fucked by the end of it -hah-

Lol its a better investment then medical bills for dehydration and unplanned pregnancy.

Sometimes though furniture may be added to the bill if your things aren't sturdy (-_-')

As long as you have more than sex as the main component of your relationship you should be fine.

Otherwise, if you lack camaraderie with her then you're going to be in for a rough time down the line.

I still say imposing a fap ban on you (if it was out of spite and to control your actions that is) was a bitch move, and you were a tool for just taking it like that.

You never know: one day, your faps. Next day, YOUR LIFE!

Also, what the fuck, Canadian Otaku? Dat necro...

I see we agree on the first bit, but I'm confused about what I did this time :P

Look at how old this thread is, or even when the last post before yours was. Do you honestly think a topic like this is still relevant to OP's interests (he's probably gone past it now and embraced his controlled lifestyle).

Believe me, you don't want to look like this dumbass.