Is it bad to have no sense of humor?

born 1994 I'm 19 dude, just pointing out only real talking iv had experience with is talking to gang members, drug dealers, thugs, cops, brawlers(the guys that are into fights but not killing) some teachers, some schoolmates and several others id rather not mention.

also take into account the fact that I'm not the most trusting dude I'm loyal to my friends but me putting my trust into others not that big on that I was taught to trust no one, to belive that the moment you let your guard down your gonna die that the person who you trust or love the most is going to be the one who kills you.
(considering my own father tried to kill me and my mother, then later on my own mother tried to kill me I'd figure most would consider "trust no one" the best fking advice anyone gave them)

and as for calling me immature I'd actually figure you just don't understand when others maybe alittle more colder then you people often say I'm wiser then my years but too serious or too tightly knotted and that was true throughout my youth and still now.

as for now I'm away from the gangs and trying to readjust to normal society, and my question to you is, is that really so hard to believe that I had a fucked up past? heard of google, yahoo, or bing maybe? type "California gangs" and see what you find.
I did and that's how I coped with what I was dealing with first off, it started as a "looking for others in similar situations" then I found out I wasn't alone and that people can actually survive and move on in life

Then I looked further and found stuff even worse then what I seen, done or experienced and I figured I didn't have it as bad as I thought granted yes its made me less sympathetic to people that have smaller problems(by that I mean problems that are not life threatening or money related) however it gave me the ability to in the moment that I start to get depressed or down I don't start begging for attention (or help with something I can deal with on my own) instead I just think "eh could be worse" then I keep the fk moving and get over it.

I'm the person who tries to keep everyone in a room laughing and having a good time, but if I'm in a serious job interview, there isn't much room for humor.
Even people who are strictly about business have a sense of humor, they just want to focus on their business while they have time to be productive.

There is a time and place for everything. Telling a poop joke at somebody's funeral isn't really... You know.

I guess you can classify me as "strictly business" with too much strictness. While I want to be more openly social at events or partys I'm invited to considering most the time I'm thought to be "extra security"

I really just read the opening question, but going by that, it might pose a problem if you're out dating. I noticed people really enjoy a sense of humour, whatever colour.

Its only bad in some situations. I mean you don't have to be a comedian, but knowing how to take a joke and have fun is always a plus.

Not laughing or smiling once in a while is a pretty depressing life.

Good luck adjusting to society. Consider a religion maybe? Makes life lighter and trust easier. Maybe then you'll get yourself a sense of humor.

that's pretty much one of the reasons I joined fakku and several other online communitys
being involved with the gangs for pretty much most my life since childhood I grew up tough with a hardcore heavily beat in(and I mean that literally) kill or be killed mindstate but as I left the gang I just sorta jumped into a whole different type of society not really by choice, but I had to and I scared the crap outta everyone people started spreading a rumor that I was some "serial killer" over time I got slightly better but by then a lot of people hated me or didn't even want to go near me let alone talk to me I had a few friends but even they were scared shitless of me

with the help of a highly educated school nurse in a different school that I moved to later on he helped me figure out that due to my violent upbringing and overall experience throughout my youth I've adjusted and became accustomed to gang cultures and lifestyles something that is not needed in normal non-violent society

So, learned something new here?

on fakku or online in general?

eh ill just say both

on fakku: its a friendly community here I like the sexual openness the fact that you can ask things about subjects that stray from the norm or "socially acceptable" barriors though since this is a fapping site (mostly anyway) that's to be expected
the initial joking in the manga comments section is what got my attention[zerorequiemGX, assasinZassasin and Tyranosaurs_secks the main 3 users that have posted funny stuff I seen) that's what first got me thinking about joining SD and random is the final bit that got me to join I like that fact that people can be serious without being too stuck up so to speak being an overly serious person I'm hoping I'll eventually learn how to joke properly I can take a joke pretty well but not much of a jokester myself unfortunately which is why I don't think I have a good sense of humor cus I don't know how to tell a joke (atleast not properly sometimes I try and fail badly)

general online communitys: well there are some people that are just overall pieces of shit but atleast there is some intelligence(and kindness) out there if you take enough time to find it.
one of the main things I learned is how not to joke online as several people have told me "it is really fucking hard to see sarcasm through text!"
for some reason I just burst out laughing the moment I saw that not sure why.

Well, for moments like that just go to incoherent babbling. It's filled with sarcasm and bad humor.

You need therapy.

I fail pretty hard in most situations to "get" jokes. I can only really laugh at anime-related jokes, generally the more obscure (and I actually get) the better. Sort of makes it hard to get along with people who are not fairly otaku.

Personally, yes. I think it is bad. I would find someone with no sense of humor whatsoever to be completely boring to be around. I absolutely LOVE cracking jokes and laughing whether it is with friends or a significant other, and that sort of jovial, happy atmosphere is hard to establish with someone who doesn't have a mindset suitable for it.

Since that is the number one characteristic that attracts me to a person, I'd find it impossible to have a real connection with someone who was completely lacking in humor.

Yeah I think its bad.
I love people with a sense f humor, as some of the others have said, my life would be no where near as interesting or fun without my sense of humor and laughter.

It's not bad in the moral sense. It is bad for mingling with others. If you want to go anywhere in management it seems to me that you need to mingle with a variety of personalities; where very few are stoic and most are social climbers with good social skills.

already done recently found out I have several symptoms of PTSD
that can make me very aggressive at times and I mean physically aggressive mainly cus I'm so used to people trying to fight or kill me over simple (and honestly stupid now that I think about it) disagreements in some sense I guess you could say ganglife is like children playing soldier with live ammo and lethal results
(there are more reasons then that like money and protection or revenge but in a large portion of cases its been so derailed that its become a twisted "fad" or whatever you call it atleast to most younger generations)

I'm not that stupid however and logically I can see the flaws instinctively however I'm still in a "kill or be killed" mindstate something I don't think will ever leave me but can still be used to benefit and help others on the larger scale of society if controlled and used correctly

so as previously stated I try to readjust to society (normal society) to be able to and safest way to do so is get human interaction online where I have no physical contact with the other person not saying I would attack unprovoked however if attacked, well... I was never trained to stop fighting atleast until my opponent was running away or stopped moving
(trying to knock the other person unconscious but with possibility of internal bleeding or other injurys you can never be sure till after hospitalization)

100% truth

There are instances when you would need it. Humor helps to liven up things when it is actually needed which then might possibly add up to your social skills. I believe it is not a requisite to have a sense of humor, since you cannot really help it if you don't know how to do it. Take note that humors are not intended for all people, it is rather selective if you would ask me.

Anyone of us can make a joke. Seriously. You just need to make an effort for it to work, especially if you are trying to say it to a target audience. To begin with, start by knowing their preferences. After that, you would need to observe 'their sense of humor' and do some research about it. Though, that is only in the case where you are surely desperate to make people laugh for some reason. Heck, it is like forcing yourself to be a clown.

Again, each kind of jokes have selected audiences. It is not intended for all people. To answer your question on whether it is bad or not, my answer is no. It adds color to our life, but it is a not a necessity. Realistically speaking, however, I believe all people have a sense of humor. You just need to work around with it.