Is there anybody in this situation?

define like you, in what way, the not having a girlfriend and being 18, or the fear of rejection to that extent?

Being terrified of rejection is worse than not experiencing the whole new world of love and affection.
Go out there and listen to what your heart is saying and not your dick.
Dicks work only with relationships with sluts.

Dude, it's not that uncommon. I don't think it's even strange.

Call me oldfashioned, but I find it a bit strange if someone is fifteen years old and has had tons of girlfriends/boyfriends. Relationships are for adults, why hurry?

...Hopefully I didn't insult anyone with that. That is not my intention. *apologizes in advance*

Just hit 19, never even had a thought about entering a relationship.

Single for life, happy for life!

Being single might be comfortable, but you won't get a chance to experience the feeling you get when your girlfriend/boyfriend or someone you like smiles and you just fall for them.

Oh darn, I will be sure to reflect on that feeling while descending a hill on a mountain bike at over 25mph.

You don't have an AvPD, do you?



Same here, I intend to do that too or should I say I had already planned it in my life.

dont really worry about that

i actually left mine cause i had issues with my life :/

it was kinda harsh but i had to take care of things

just consider someone like that when you begin to get deep into the relationship

23, never even came close to having one.

Yeah, I have a fear of rejection as well, plus I rarely get to know new people anyway. Deadly combination?

uh.. I'm 12 when i had my 1st girlfriend. Til now.. they just keep on coming. And i let them come to me instead of me going for them. Atleast.. i will know whose interested. I'm afraid to be rejected.

I'm 19 this month...never had a girlfriend...rejection is fine...I'm afraid on being cheated...

hell im 21 and still have not had one yet, ive been very close at an anime con i go to every yeah but may this year who knows! we shall see.

Well, I have had a girlfriend but I'm going to give my 2 cents on this.

When I was 12, I got rejected pretty bad by this girl I liked. She ended up dating this guy that seemed to point out that I got rejected every time I saw them and that got me depressed for awhile to the point where I was afraid of being rejected. That rejection hurt more than any physical pain I felt in life to the point I cried when I thought about it (yes I was a wussy when I was a kid). Fucked up my childhood and maybe that's why I'm the guy I am now. But I was pretty much alone with low self-confidence and was scared to be rejected up until I was about 16-17.

Thankfully, I had some good friends and teammates (basketball + wrestling) that really helped boost my self esteem and confidence and I started talking to girls again eventually meeting my ex-girlfriend (last year when I was 17). Our relationship lasted 6-8 months and the break up was pretty bad but I didn't feel as in pain as the first rejection.

So, what I'm trying to say is, even though your 18 and you've never had a girlfriend, once you get things back into shape with the psychologist, begin making friends with people who aren't assholes and get your life back into shape. Even though your starting late doesn't mean you'll never have a girlfriend, it'll come with time and you have to believe in yourself. Don't put yourself down because everyone out there will probably do it for you.

26 and not even close. I don't know why, perhaps I creep people out or come across with an "unapproachable" aura. Women look at me like I'm the dog shitting in the neighbor's yard, amusing for a moment, then just background scenery. It's not like I'm trying to be anti-social here either... I left that crap behind in my mid teenage years.

i dont have an 'actual' girlfriend but i know lots of girls who i treat like 'girlfriends' before..... so no... i dont have one

Well I am 20 and have not had a girlfriend, It is mostly due to my deep hatred toward
the shithole of a town called Penticton which caused me to not want to get into dating so I would not have to stay in that town, I moved back to my hometown in late 2009 and am still getting my life on track first before I put myself on the market.

Win

My first girlfriend when i was 18, didn't end well...
not thinking of having one yet...