Is there anybody in this situation?
Which catagory do you fall into?
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I've had 2 and i just turned 19
I was home schooled till i was out of high school and i never got to meet any girls till i got a job and started getting out more, but my first girlfriend at 17 was more like a buddy to me then anything else so i didn't really count that one, and at 18 my only other girlfriend was kind of forced on me by her, and she was kind of the "man" in the relationship... but we broke up after 2 months and now she works with me =/
But like some of the other people on here, i get really nervous, but only when I've been talking them for a while. its weired.
I was home schooled till i was out of high school and i never got to meet any girls till i got a job and started getting out more, but my first girlfriend at 17 was more like a buddy to me then anything else so i didn't really count that one, and at 18 my only other girlfriend was kind of forced on me by her, and she was kind of the "man" in the relationship... but we broke up after 2 months and now she works with me =/
But like some of the other people on here, i get really nervous, but only when I've been talking them for a while. its weired.
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25 years old and 0 girlfriends ........worst thing is that some of my friends and people that know me says that i had some really clear opportunities with some girls but i was not aware of those girls and her feelings for me.... sucks right? :(
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Man im already 22 and no luck with girls. However my fear of rejection stopped me from ever properly asking them out so now im sick of my shit and im doing soemthing about it. So i dont even know if she likes me cause 1. im pretty dense, and 2 shes really shy.
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I'm not exactly un-confident or anything... but after my first gf broke up with me... i just don't feel the "magic" around other girls... It's like... life sucks everyday now...
But many thanks to Fakku for making my day every time i feel down~
But many thanks to Fakku for making my day every time i feel down~
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yeah, 21 still single
its not like dont try its more like i have no clue what im doing. im a nerves wreck when it comes to girls (people in general)
im not in the mood for having girlfriend right now. trying to set my life in motion,
21, jobless, not in college, still living with my parents.
the way i see it until my happy with me, no one is happy with me (did that sound right?)
its not like dont try its more like i have no clue what im doing. im a nerves wreck when it comes to girls (people in general)
im not in the mood for having girlfriend right now. trying to set my life in motion,
21, jobless, not in college, still living with my parents.
the way i see it until my happy with me, no one is happy with me (did that sound right?)
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Don't get too down on yourself! Everyone finds someone sometime. :3 It might take a while but it WILL happen... even to the most resilient. XD
Hell, I never had a boyfriend until college, or even kissed a guy!
Then again, this could be attributed to my entire young life at an all-female school...
Got to college, low and behold, wow: found a guy.
Hell, I never had a boyfriend until college, or even kissed a guy!
Then again, this could be attributed to my entire young life at an all-female school...
Got to college, low and behold, wow: found a guy.
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Cada12 wrote...
Looking4Moar wrote...
define like you, in what way, the not having a girlfriend and being 18, or the fear of rejection to that extent?
Sorry should of been more clear.
that sure cleared it up for me. /sarcasm
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hi good day... don't make it a big problem that your already 18 years old and yet you don't have a girlfriend... all you have to do is make a good character that will make you more popular so that one day there is someone who will love you...
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The quickest way to learning the wrong thing to do in a relationship is to listen to what your friends tell you to do. Almost all guys that are starting out do this.
It seems to me that some of the people here are having trouble reading the signs of attraction. If you think you're one of them then you should probably do a little research into the mindset of women. Hit the book store. Go read a girls magazine. Maybe pic up a romance novel. You'll see quickly that the majority of them are just like men. And that means hungry for sex. But women still like to be discrete about it. Its supposed to be common knowledge that guys think about sex all the time but the fact is that women talk about sex twice as much. Regrettably they're just as shallow as we are. But a woman will settle for a guy that is not physically attractive if he makes up for that by exuding certain qualities. The first being confidence. The second is charm (which consequently cannot be achieved without the first).
If you want tricks and tips on how to boost either of these, a simple google search will land you in one of the million pick-up artist forums on the web.
It seems to me that some of the people here are having trouble reading the signs of attraction. If you think you're one of them then you should probably do a little research into the mindset of women. Hit the book store. Go read a girls magazine. Maybe pic up a romance novel. You'll see quickly that the majority of them are just like men. And that means hungry for sex. But women still like to be discrete about it. Its supposed to be common knowledge that guys think about sex all the time but the fact is that women talk about sex twice as much. Regrettably they're just as shallow as we are. But a woman will settle for a guy that is not physically attractive if he makes up for that by exuding certain qualities. The first being confidence. The second is charm (which consequently cannot be achieved without the first).
If you want tricks and tips on how to boost either of these, a simple google search will land you in one of the million pick-up artist forums on the web.
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iast wrote...
Well, I have had a girlfriend but I'm going to give my 2 cents on this.When I was 12, I got rejected pretty bad by this girl I liked. She ended up dating this guy that seemed to point out that I got rejected every time I saw them and that got me depressed for awhile to the point where I was afraid of being rejected. That rejection hurt more than any physical pain I felt in life to the point I cried when I thought about it (yes I was a wussy when I was a kid). Fucked up my childhood and maybe that's why I'm the guy I am now. But I was pretty much alone with low self-confidence and was scared to be rejected up until I was about 16-17.
Thankfully, I had some good friends and teammates (basketball + wrestling) that really helped boost my self esteem and confidence and I started talking to girls again eventually meeting my ex-girlfriend (last year when I was 17). Our relationship lasted 6-8 months and the break up was pretty bad but I didn't feel as in pain as the first rejection.
So, what I'm trying to say is, even though your 18 and you've never had a girlfriend, once you get things back into shape with the psychologist, begin making friends with people who aren't assholes and get your life back into shape. Even though your starting late doesn't mean you'll never have a girlfriend, it'll come with time and you have to believe in yourself. Don't put yourself down because everyone out there will probably do it for you.
That was beautiful man...