Is this strange?

Holy Shit.

I'm like this too.

In my personal opinion, it could be due to some sort of estrogen related thing, that is becoming more common in a lot of people within our age-group (well, that is to say if you were born within the last 20-25 years).

I'm not a scientist, but what I DO know is that some hormones are behaving differently than what one would presume. Let's say, you WERE a girl, and you were a lesbian. You might have this similar mindset. Of course, this may not be true, because I have never talked to a lesbian about their sexual experiences (hell, I've never met someone and knew they were a lesbian).

So, bottom line is: it could be "un-natural" but could be caused by natural occurrences. These hormone changes are considered to be caused by chemicals in the air.

*IS NOT AN EXPERT*

EDIT: This could ALSO be in relation to Hentai (which is something we both read/watch, because we're both here :P). Now, this sort of thing seems kind of like something in a hentai, possibly. I can remember some instances of it, where the things you mentioned were performed VIA Foreplay, however, there is usually sex afterwards.

You (and myself) may have a "Foreplay Fetish", or more specifically, a "Sexual Pleasure Giving Fetish". Of course, I just made those terms up, but you can have sexual interests in certain things. It may be even too extreme to refer to it as a "Fetish".

tl;dr

It's not strange.

There are no studies I am aware of, I merely heard it from someone who had been living here a long time (a science teacher I was talking to a while ago). He mentioned how in his High School class, there were more than twice as many girls than guys, in a thirty student class. (About 6 guys he said).

I also edited my first post to include a second theory.

EDIT: Another thing in regards to the chemical atmosphere, is that I live near a heavily chemical based place. This could be the result.

Essentially, the Estrogen level is going up, and more XX chromosomes are being formed (more women), but some Estrogen from Women, could easily have ended up inside some males, thus changes their sexual desires, as it is hormones that do this, as well as personal experience, and your own brain.

One could also argue that homosexuals have high levels of the opposite sex's hormones, but there is NO evidence to support this.

Don't worry, it's normal.
I love having sexual pleasure, but making her cum is always more important.

my favorite part of sex is seeing the girl's enjoyment. it is a nice ego boost to know i can make her get off. i don't realy care about being dominant(i prefer a team effort) or a provider, i'd much rather be the one at home taking care of kids and housework.

Not strange I get where your cumming from. COuld be that your a giver and you want to make the girl feel good. A guy who only thinks of himself during sex dont seem too popular, if you know what I mean.

No, I know what you mean. Most guys want to be able to satisfy women because it means they're at least decent at sex. Also, the whole provider thing.



I totally get this, too. However, I still would like reciprocation.

A lot of guys want this. Hell, it's awesome.

But you gotta remember that sometimes the girl might wanna return the favor: we like to play fair too! :)
Plus it's also a turn on to do things for your partner, boy OR girl, so if she wants, let her help out.

Seems perfectly normal to me. Who doesn't want there girl to be happy?

I think it's fine, you are putting your emotion in it, which is good, it would be worst if you'd only cared about your own pleasure regardless of how the opposite feels.

I didn't expect so many people to agree with you. I don't think it's a bad thing, I guess, but I didn't think it was a typical thing.
Maybe I'm just a less than considerate person, but in most sexual situations I find myself in, I don't see any need to be overly concerned with how the other person is feeling about it. If she generally seems to be into it, it's all good, and my focus is really on my own enjoyment.

It's not strange...that's a good feature I guess...
but yeah...actually it's better if both of you are satisfied...rather than only one of you

What they all said. It's as natural as pubes.

Some men are refered as gigolos. Women love these men. Women want to be pleased equally as men want to be please.

It's called love, son.
Or maybe a big affection.

Similar to how parents are happy when their children are happy.
You're very lucky.