Lemons and Cybering

I'm not entirely sure where to put this. It's somewhat about relationships, but more generic than that. I want the topic to be semi-serious despite it's nature so I'm not sure it fits in Incoherent Babbling either. Oh well, I trust Waar to know where it belongs, and if it should be moved to IB either now, or as a result of the posts following.
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Anyway, I'm working on a lemon (nickname for smut fanfics, particularly anime, for those of you who don't know the term) and realized that all of my friends who are lemon writers and myself all either have before, or still engage, in cybersex or explicit RPs with other people.

I mean it kind of makes sense that people who are good lemon writers might have engaged in cybering before as an explanation as to why their so good at writing intimate scenes between characters, but it never really occurred to be before.

Now I'm kind of wondering if that is some sort of universal truth amongst all, or at least most, of the lemon writing community out there. Anyone else happen to notice this as either a lemon writer or fan of lemon writings?

I did a lot of Cybering in my earlier years, and it actually inspired me to write erotica. I don't write fanfics, but I do write illicit stories, and have won several awards doing so.

I do think it played a big part in being turned on by words, and wanting to share that.

It would seem to follow, the more you're exposed you are to it the better/more experienced you are at it.

practice makes perfect it better?

Those who have engaged in cyber before would probably have a better imagination than those who havn't. I guess it's a fair statement to say that their superior imagination gives them such talent for their writing.

I recall cybering when I was 9

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Our hero.



Anyway, I have indeed written lemons before.

But I've never cybered. Ever. Don't really intend to either.

So I couldn't tell you if there was a correlation.

Need a Lemon story done? Ask Joe-kun, the Lemon Master. He's found in the Writing Section.

Also, if you ever get the story done, post it on that section. I'm willing to read yours, since this is an indirect advertising of the writing section :3

Yeah I'm aware of him. Joe is one of the friends I speak of.

My stories are definitely not on par with his though. Depending on how it turns out, I might post it.

yes i agree too, but his only weakness is continuing his stories >.<
other than that, yup, joe-kun is a lemon master

Of course people who have experienced something will be far better at writing about it than someone who hasn't. If you want to try it you could use chatroulette or irc; would be pretty easy.

Ive done it before, It makes writing a lemon a lot easier

*slowly unzips his pants and begins to read the topic

I should of known it'd be that jerk, Jacob who would derail my topic. <.<

Wow. Thanks guys.

Now I feel bad :( Everyone else stay on topic.

Uh-oh. I'm going to regret that I have a feeling.

Not to say that this topic is going anywhere now. Its already been proven not to be a universal truth, so meh. I'm still inclined to think it holds true for the majority.

Batshit crazy depression brought out my creative stuff, so I was writing a lot of lemons back then. When I became happier in life, I stopped. I simply don't have the motivation nor the creativity to write anymore.

That was years ago. Months ago, I was cybering a bit. I didn't text cyber so much as moaned on the mic while talking dirty. :\ But I wasn't writing lemons.

I've lost interest in both now.