Meeting girls
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Not sure this is relevant as I have only been in a few relationships in my life (one lasted 30 years the current one is coming on 9 years)
But I ran into something quite a while back that may help
Wasn't me but some other guy
On the metro which was headed to Gare du Nord
Guy in his mid 20s I would guess approaches this girl
"Excuse me" he says "but is this the right train to ? (someplace obviously wrong Dont remember) I am new here and the metro confuses me"
Girl smiles and says he is on wrong train. They get off and she shows him the map to where he wants to go
He says something
They get on the correct metro together
Not sure how it turned out
But seems like a cool way to break the ice and meet someone
Would work on a bus
Or on the street I would think
But I ran into something quite a while back that may help
Wasn't me but some other guy
On the metro which was headed to Gare du Nord
Guy in his mid 20s I would guess approaches this girl
"Excuse me" he says "but is this the right train to ? (someplace obviously wrong Dont remember) I am new here and the metro confuses me"
Girl smiles and says he is on wrong train. They get off and she shows him the map to where he wants to go
He says something
They get on the correct metro together
Not sure how it turned out
But seems like a cool way to break the ice and meet someone
Would work on a bus
Or on the street I would think
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Did you ever consider an online relationship? Since from the way you describe it, it seems like the place where you live lacks places to socialize :/ You could start something online and develop it that way that u met her/him in real life :3 You might even find someone here on fakku xD If your handsome haburi-chan(not sure if thats the name) might take interest in you xD
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try somewhere were the mood is relaxed
a comedy club, somewhere with music
both you and her will be relaxed, so it should make it easier
oh, or try meeting her on the other side of wobbly bridge, she will walk across, get scared, see you, then mistake the feelings of fear for love. either of these methods work
good luck
a comedy club, somewhere with music
both you and her will be relaxed, so it should make it easier
oh, or try meeting her on the other side of wobbly bridge, she will walk across, get scared, see you, then mistake the feelings of fear for love. either of these methods work
good luck
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My advice is wait awhile, talk to and get to know those around you more, coworkers, classmates, etc. Talk to the people who you never really talked to before, they might turn out to be something you didn't expect. Also, it DOES sound like you are looking for someone to meet on the rebound, which I agree is not something that will end well, imho.
Also, if you are interested in looking online, okcupid is not a bad website to try, and its free. I use it myself, and have met a few people from there, although nothing seemed to work out for me, but I blame that on myself more than anything else, since I'm not the most normal person out there... lol
Also, try going to events about things that you have never done before. Like if you're in school and there's an underwater basket weaving club, and you have never done that before, go a few times and try it out, you may just like it, and you may meet someone else there and hit things off well with them, and if you don't like it and don't meet anyone new, then what have you lost? If you ask me, nothing.
Talk to your female and even your close male friends about this, if they're really your friends they should be willing to help you out, and if they do make fun of you or something, then they're either a) not really serious and just joking, or b) not really your friend at all.
These things take time, so don't expect to find somebody immediately, as well.
The other thing is, keep trying, eventually you will find someone. If you keep trying and going out and meeting new people, then you have a chance at finding someone, even if it is a small chance. But if you give up and stay inside all day, then your chances are 0%. Of course this is just me rambling, and considering my history with relationships, or rather the considerable lack of meaningful, long-lasting ones, my advice may not be the best to take.
Also, if you are interested in looking online, okcupid is not a bad website to try, and its free. I use it myself, and have met a few people from there, although nothing seemed to work out for me, but I blame that on myself more than anything else, since I'm not the most normal person out there... lol
Also, try going to events about things that you have never done before. Like if you're in school and there's an underwater basket weaving club, and you have never done that before, go a few times and try it out, you may just like it, and you may meet someone else there and hit things off well with them, and if you don't like it and don't meet anyone new, then what have you lost? If you ask me, nothing.
Talk to your female and even your close male friends about this, if they're really your friends they should be willing to help you out, and if they do make fun of you or something, then they're either a) not really serious and just joking, or b) not really your friend at all.
These things take time, so don't expect to find somebody immediately, as well.
The other thing is, keep trying, eventually you will find someone. If you keep trying and going out and meeting new people, then you have a chance at finding someone, even if it is a small chance. But if you give up and stay inside all day, then your chances are 0%. Of course this is just me rambling, and considering my history with relationships, or rather the considerable lack of meaningful, long-lasting ones, my advice may not be the best to take.
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There is a lot of pressure to do something when you meet a girl for the first time. It pretty much breaks it down into saying something funny, saying something unique or just slightly off beat that they want to know more, or something suave that flatters them. If you can do any of these three easily its a lot easier to talk to them. I personally do something corny or off the wall. Maybe make a comment about how someone out there is making a fool of themselves or when you talk about yourself make it seem like your bragging but something just so bat shit crazy that it can't be true.
If you do go to any social place since your new at this don't go after the hot chick that's up on stage that every girl goes after. Personally I like my girls shy and its easy to pick the wallflower in the group. A lot of times there is a girl that basically gets dragged out by her friends to a social party and they are not used to it all and they don't know what to do. You can tell the type by just seeing how they are positioned in the group. She follows from the back of the group and looks lost when she's not around her friends. Just go up and say hi with a smile. If you got a good smile girls trust you a lot more. It's a charm thing I guess. Just approach her dancing or with a drink make a joke and if you strike out it happens. Point is to not give up. Ask her about herself and give feedback. Don't just ask question after question after question. Give some replies back, say "I like that too!" with energy or if you disagree say why but don't be a asshole about it. Just state your opinion and move on.
Just don't be discourage if you strike out. It happens not every girl is after you and sometimes they're not in the mood to be hit on or whatever. Point is if you fail don't get discourage try again.
If you do go to any social place since your new at this don't go after the hot chick that's up on stage that every girl goes after. Personally I like my girls shy and its easy to pick the wallflower in the group. A lot of times there is a girl that basically gets dragged out by her friends to a social party and they are not used to it all and they don't know what to do. You can tell the type by just seeing how they are positioned in the group. She follows from the back of the group and looks lost when she's not around her friends. Just go up and say hi with a smile. If you got a good smile girls trust you a lot more. It's a charm thing I guess. Just approach her dancing or with a drink make a joke and if you strike out it happens. Point is to not give up. Ask her about herself and give feedback. Don't just ask question after question after question. Give some replies back, say "I like that too!" with energy or if you disagree say why but don't be a asshole about it. Just state your opinion and move on.
Just don't be discourage if you strike out. It happens not every girl is after you and sometimes they're not in the mood to be hit on or whatever. Point is if you fail don't get discourage try again.
