Need help with a girl.... should I or shouldn't I?
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loosehead99 wrote...
Have you held hands when you walk side by side? If so, are you fingers entwined while holding hands?not yet, no... I have held her hand but it wasn't much to think of (helping her hold something for example). Of course, I just started to flirt with her too. I was going to try and do it today but my gut told me it would be a bad idea with her friend with us.
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Good luck! It sounds like its going kinda well. 30 mi. BTW is not far.
I have heard, though I've never done it personally, we girls sometimes will bring along our good girl friends to evaluate the guy. I'm not sure if it completely applied to your situation, but tis possible ya know? ^-^
Anyways, I personally think you should go for it....I'm pretty sure she gets the message that you like her unless she happens to be as dense as me... I mean you did give her a thoughtful Valentine Day gift and Birthday gift. She hasn't been avoiding you, which is a good sign. If a girl thinks a guys a creep and has interest in her she will try to avoid them at all costs.
Take it slow perhaps but i say she certainly has interest :D
I have heard, though I've never done it personally, we girls sometimes will bring along our good girl friends to evaluate the guy. I'm not sure if it completely applied to your situation, but tis possible ya know? ^-^
Anyways, I personally think you should go for it....I'm pretty sure she gets the message that you like her unless she happens to be as dense as me... I mean you did give her a thoughtful Valentine Day gift and Birthday gift. She hasn't been avoiding you, which is a good sign. If a girl thinks a guys a creep and has interest in her she will try to avoid them at all costs.
Take it slow perhaps but i say she certainly has interest :D
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I thought maybe that I'd give another update to what has been going on with the girl. I asked her to go to the Cherry Blossom Festival on Friday and we went together. For the first time since January it was just her and me together, I commented on her dress that she made and wore just for the event (she sew's very well, somewhat like a lolita outfit she wore) and she liked the comment plus she also said I looked good too, which I just wore a new dress shirt, my Toradora t-shirt and jeans which was the only thing I had clean to be honest as the washer broke the night before (didn't tell her that of course). Everything to me seemed to go very well, I would say with the flirting about 90% of what I did came back good. Told her she looked good, touched her a few times on the shoulders, held onto her shoulders a few times, we shared a bottle of water (it was pretty warn and both of us wore black), and cleaned out the cherry blossoms from her hair, smiled all the time and looking at her face most of the time for example is what I did. However, I am naive when it comes to flirting so a lot of what I did is what I read online. I even got a cute picture of us together under a Cherry Blossom tree with me kind of backwords hugging her from the neck (I'm about 6'2" she's 5'1"), well, she has the picture and I haven't gotten it yet as of today. Hell, I even was able to buy her ice creme without her paying for it for the first time. So to me, I was very happy.
The only thing I wasn't able to do was hold her hand, for one I'm too scared to try right up and hold it but there was one time I tired to do it, we were going out of the Jefferson Memorial though the back (bad idea). In case you don't know about the Jefferson Memorial, the front has steps but all around has rings that keep going down, about 2' tall. So it looks like steps but they aren't. So we kept climbing/jumpping down from the "steps" and due to me being so tall it was easy but it wasn't as easy for her. I tired to help her out a few times by holding out my hand a bit and asking her if she wanted help, but she refused, saying she was ok but thanks. Of course, as we talked for a bit when I got the ice creme, I found out and have noticed too she is somewhat Independent. As she said to me she doesn't like the idea of a girl relaying on a guy a lot due to a friend has done it.
I told her right out that I wanted to spend a lot more time with her and she agreed we should, while both of our schedules are pretty booked for the month of APril we did set up how we are going to see each other for the concert plus what surpised the hell out of me was she asked me to go to Six Flags with her in May together. She has never been the one to ask as I always ask her to hang out (she's not that type of person to ask people out, she waits for someone to ask her out as I've noticed from her blogs) She also remembered my birthday is in May too so we might go to Six Flags as a "birthday gift" to me but we haven't decided yet.
The only thing I wasn't able to do was hold her hand, for one I'm too scared to try right up and hold it but there was one time I tired to do it, we were going out of the Jefferson Memorial though the back (bad idea). In case you don't know about the Jefferson Memorial, the front has steps but all around has rings that keep going down, about 2' tall. So it looks like steps but they aren't. So we kept climbing/jumpping down from the "steps" and due to me being so tall it was easy but it wasn't as easy for her. I tired to help her out a few times by holding out my hand a bit and asking her if she wanted help, but she refused, saying she was ok but thanks. Of course, as we talked for a bit when I got the ice creme, I found out and have noticed too she is somewhat Independent. As she said to me she doesn't like the idea of a girl relaying on a guy a lot due to a friend has done it.
I told her right out that I wanted to spend a lot more time with her and she agreed we should, while both of our schedules are pretty booked for the month of APril we did set up how we are going to see each other for the concert plus what surpised the hell out of me was she asked me to go to Six Flags with her in May together. She has never been the one to ask as I always ask her to hang out (she's not that type of person to ask people out, she waits for someone to ask her out as I've noticed from her blogs) She also remembered my birthday is in May too so we might go to Six Flags as a "birthday gift" to me but we haven't decided yet.
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You've distracted me from doing my midterm assignments.
I have a few questions to ask:
1. What kind of features is she looking for when she goes on dates. For example: Cute, Cuddly, Tough, Manly, more manly, even more manly, etc etc.
2. Did she ever look into your eyes and smile?
3. How many gifts did you give her? What were the time periods between the days you gave the gifts?
4. Do you think that you can: hold her when she falls apart, warm her up when she is cold, dry her eyes, bring smile to her face, etc etc?
5. Do you think about her before you go to sleep?
Now, I think these 5 questions above are all answered correctly and accurately, I can give you a straight answer. For further questions, please do not hesitate to PM me. I enjoy giving people help and advice when it is needed.
I have a few questions to ask:
1. What kind of features is she looking for when she goes on dates. For example: Cute, Cuddly, Tough, Manly, more manly, even more manly, etc etc.
2. Did she ever look into your eyes and smile?
3. How many gifts did you give her? What were the time periods between the days you gave the gifts?
4. Do you think that you can: hold her when she falls apart, warm her up when she is cold, dry her eyes, bring smile to her face, etc etc?
5. Do you think about her before you go to sleep?
Now, I think these 5 questions above are all answered correctly and accurately, I can give you a straight answer. For further questions, please do not hesitate to PM me. I enjoy giving people help and advice when it is needed.