Need some help please...
0
artcellrox wrote...
Reizuru wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
Hope you treat her soon. This sounds serious. Get her help fast.And while you're at it, if it really is as serious as you say, get a few friends together, go to her house, and knock some sense into her parents! Why aren't they doing anything?!
Because...she doesn't want to mature, she is childish, nice, cares about others, she has really fragile emotions, and she is also a dreamer (but that doesn't means she's ignorant, she is pretty smart) and "she" (referring to her other self) is really mature...also a emotionless girl, cold and cruel, with logical thoughts, that enjoys to make people suffer emotionally and physically.
But the point is, their parents won't do anything because no matter how many times she is telling them, they only say "it doesn't matter, it will be better if you mature and stop being such a stupid girl" her parents are way too close minded and don't care about her, they only want her to be "someone" in life...they don't care about her problems or how she feels
Why do you think I said "knock some sense"?! >:-(
If necessary, some drastic measures might need to be taken for her to remove her "inner Hollow". If need be, do so, if it means it will cure her. You want to prove yourself as a friend to her? Do what it takes to help and comfort her, be there for her.
But most importantly, never let her go.
Yes I know and I never will let her go, and about her parents...they still ignore everything, so I think we need to keep trying
0
If she ever presents a threat to herself or others, please be sure to contact the proper authorities for civil commitment. I know that sounds drastic, but it is better than getting her tangled up with the criminal justice system or committing suicide. They will intervene at no loss to her in the long run. Does she have paranoia or does she hear voices?
Loving this girl sounds like you are putting yourself in possible harms way and setting up for a life long struggle to keep her on a good path. Don't forget that most psychosis are highly hereditary, so her parents may have it and there is a high probabilty any children she has will have it as well. This seems like a very difficult life you are taking on...
Loving this girl sounds like you are putting yourself in possible harms way and setting up for a life long struggle to keep her on a good path. Don't forget that most psychosis are highly hereditary, so her parents may have it and there is a high probabilty any children she has will have it as well. This seems like a very difficult life you are taking on...
0
YAY my Psychology 1 class comes in handy. At least this has immediate practical application.
Anyways to the matter at hand. A lot of DID cases actually have people unaware of separate personalities. The fact that she can interact with the second one actually means that there is some progress going in the right direction. Her parents are right in the sense that the second personality will actually create characteristics that the original lacks in some areas but unless it is actually combined into one identity you are most often than not in trouble. I'm sorry to say but only help with a clinical psychologist can help you at this point because it seems to be the type of DID that might need physical restraining. Psychiatrists and counseling psycholigists usually work with less severe disorders so look for a clinical psychologist. I'm just going to say at this point drug therapy is definitely not advised and if you are given some MAKE SURE that your friend cannot access them. If the other "her" is as dangerous as you have described you cannot let any chance of accidents happening. I hope you get this all worked out.
EDIT: annnnnnd I should have read more carefully. Well if things are progressing smoothly then all's well and good. Good luck to you.
Anyways to the matter at hand. A lot of DID cases actually have people unaware of separate personalities. The fact that she can interact with the second one actually means that there is some progress going in the right direction. Her parents are right in the sense that the second personality will actually create characteristics that the original lacks in some areas but unless it is actually combined into one identity you are most often than not in trouble. I'm sorry to say but only help with a clinical psychologist can help you at this point because it seems to be the type of DID that might need physical restraining. Psychiatrists and counseling psycholigists usually work with less severe disorders so look for a clinical psychologist. I'm just going to say at this point drug therapy is definitely not advised and if you are given some MAKE SURE that your friend cannot access them. If the other "her" is as dangerous as you have described you cannot let any chance of accidents happening. I hope you get this all worked out.
EDIT: annnnnnd I should have read more carefully. Well if things are progressing smoothly then all's well and good. Good luck to you.
0
storm102 wrote...
YAY my Psychology 1 class comes in handy. At least this has immediate practical application.Anyways to the matter at hand. A lot of DID cases actually have people unaware of separate personalities. The fact that she can interact with the second one actually means that there is some progress going in the right direction. Her parents are right in the sense that the second personality will actually create characteristics that the original lacks in some areas but unless it is actually combined into one identity you are most often than not in trouble. I'm sorry to say but only help with a clinical psychologist can help you at this point because it seems to be the type of DID that might need physical restraining. Psychiatrists and counseling psycholigists usually work with less severe disorders so look for a clinical psychologist. I'm just going to say at this point drug therapy is definitely not advised and if you are given some MAKE SURE that your friend cannot access them. If the other "her" is as dangerous as you have described you cannot let any chance of accidents happening. I hope you get this all worked out.
EDIT: annnnnnd I should have read more carefully. Well if things are progressing smoothly then all's well and good. Good luck to you.
Hehe, thanks again for all the help, recently things have calmed down a bit...I'm still alert and it seems for now that her personality change has become a bit less frecuent, I talked about it with her and she agreed, so things for now are going a bit well n.n
