Netrorare? Isn't that like cheating?

Hey guys Dollci back with a new (but old) topic called cheating a.k.a Netorare.

So right now I wanna discuss to EVERYBODY about a deep topic that NOBODY really wants to talk about since it brings some people "BAD" memories ( and I feel sorry for them)

It's about cheating and I wanted to ask and also discuss about your experiences from being cheated on or you cheating on your partner OR, being with someone that THEY cheated on by being with you (regardless of knowing it or not)....

But the main question IS... how did you experience cheat?
Was it a sexually type cheat or a kissing type cheat?

I would really love it if BOTH MALES and FEMALES participate.

we were close, she cheated, I found out about it and moved on.

i dont know what they were doing sexually and i dont really care to know.

I feel you on that one...... I dont wanna know myself but I see it clearer than a anything else.... it hurts for my case but I can't kill her.

Been there done that.

One of my exes cheated on my with one of my best friends, that was pretty fucked up. But hey, what can you do? It's all chill now and we all hang out as friends, if rarely.

I have also cheated on one of my girlfriends, even if that never went beyond cuddling and kissing.

And lastly, yes, I've hooked up with girls, knowing they have boyfriends.

And there we have it.

As to NTR vs cheating topic name: NTR includes cheating. It's sort of a subset of it, almost, or a possible consequence.

For NTR, the abandoned partner has to see the cheating partner caught/engaging in the act with the other party.

Just fyi~

One of my girlfriends cheated on me with her ex, it was rather unpleasant but I quickly got over it. Its not anything that special Im certain most of you have gone through that experience, if not you were extremely lucky!

Yeah I agree...
yeah it may be a bother at first but when you think about it....
the two never had a special connection in the first place.....
but if it was someone you truly loved and cherished then... all hell break loose!

OK THEN, let's recap!

one of my girlfriends who i really liked (but i was young, and didn't know much to do with relationships, so i was frigid) went to festivale and got drunk, and made out with another guy, i felt betrayed, and didn't know what to do, as much as i liked her, we broke up.

Another one, who went to the same school as me in year 11, she was weird and quite demanding/ needed to see me every few minutes ><
Basically, we went to a friends party, i was leaving early, due to parents having another party on, and it was with closer friends/ had food... anyway, when i was with my girlfriend, i told her that i had signed up for the army out of impulse (but specified i was going to take the test, then wait till after school to see if i wanted to go still) she wasn't impressed, but seemed to deal. when i left, she made out with three guys in the space of an hour, just to spite me.

Third instance, i went out with a girl from work, she was nice enough, i went over to her house for tea, watched a movie in her room, and nothing happened (frigid, yo. I was worried if i made a move, the girl would freak out and i'd get in trouble)
The next week, she told me she ran out of credit, so i would text her every few days to see if she got it back. a week later, she replied and i asked her something (can't remember) and she said that we weren't going out anymore, since we hadn't seen each other in that long. I'm under the impression she found somebody else and slept with them, since she was trying to get in my pants at some stage.... she has also been in a relationship with like 60% of the guys from public schools in the area... that's a lot of guys....

That's all.. kinda sucks...

Wow you pointed out strong events there.....
It really does suck if she isn't patient with herself in a relationship with you...
but partners these ( regardless of male or female) always want to go TOO fast and doesn't consider feelings of those who are patient with themselves in a relationship.....

I had bad experiences myself too but I guess it happens to people who take relationships lightly.

yeah true... It doesn't help when you don't know what you're doing xD All i needed was a bit of a push, and off we go. lol

Yeah I dont understand why nobody helps each other out in a relationship anymore.

Well to make a long story short, I had a fiance who cheated on me a few times with a friend while I was away.
I don't talk to her anymore because she ended up being a total bitch.

I have hooked up with woman who had someone but I never did too much with them as I felt kinda guilty.
But thats just me.

wow... nv knew so many ppl got such a bad experience... well wat can we do... I also hav my share but not as terrible as u guys...

Mines not so bad either....
its how the people describe their experiences that makes it look like it's bad...

I've been extremely lucky never to experience it myself (or anything, for that matter), but I have watched the fallout as a third party. It's never been pretty. From flirting to outright fucking, any type of "cheating" usually ends up with somebody depressed, bitter, angry and/or heart-broken. Most common I've noted, at least in my generation, is alcohol is somehow always involved. Whether or not it's used as an excuse to get out of it tends to vary.

Example: My best friend recently lost her girlfriend over cheating. She went to a party, got plastered, screwed another girl... And two weeks later, cheater and cheatee are all over each other at school once the break-up was finalized.

Mind you, and this is only from what I've seen from my area, most teenagers aren't exactly pro at keeping a steady relationship going without something going wrong somewhere. Especially in highschool. Doesn't make it any less wrong, or painful, but it does seem to be happening with alarming frequency nowadays. Due to that, I'm not dating till I'm thirty. >.>

my last 4 exes cheated on me. i did keep going back to one of my exes and she cheated on me over and over again, but i was to blind to see it. it sucks and it hurts like hell but somehow i got over it, i still kinda miss here but my rage keeps me from going back to her ( i know thats not the best wall to put up ). i have shitty luck with girls lol

I would say that's a better than going back and getting cheated on over and over.. also, be glad you didn't beat her up and go to jail.. that's the bad side to it :/

i didn't mean for that to sound like i would beat her up for cheating on me, i'm just mad at my-self for going back to her so many times.

Nonsense. It sounds like nothing a good couple of bitch-slaps won't cure.

exactly... here is a rep+ for you