No drugs, no smoke, no booze, no casual sex=No girlfriend?
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I don't smoke, and I love it :D
Saves me money which I barely have..
But since my parents used to smoke, I can stand hanging around smokers.. I even have a smokers nose kinda thing.. Can tell which cigs smell good and which ones don't.
Anywho, stay the way you are. don't be changing for bitches. Bitches will come to you when they realise you are a good guy, and jerks aren't.
Also, try changing your focus... instead of slutty chicks who smoke and all that, go after quieter ones who have similar morals to you.
also, again:
QFMFT.
Saves me money which I barely have..
But since my parents used to smoke, I can stand hanging around smokers.. I even have a smokers nose kinda thing.. Can tell which cigs smell good and which ones don't.
Anywho, stay the way you are. don't be changing for bitches. Bitches will come to you when they realise you are a good guy, and jerks aren't.
Also, try changing your focus... instead of slutty chicks who smoke and all that, go after quieter ones who have similar morals to you.
also, again:
Lollikittie wrote...
Sprite wrote...
Proper girls don't like STDs.QFMFT.
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If anything, you offer a BETTER deal by refraining (well, a bit of booze is okay if you drink wisely) from all that. You offer something lots of people *don't* have by refusing to cave to bullshit culture that tries overly hard to prove a warped idea of gender identity.
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Chef Sanji wrote...
Well, I have a few thoughts on this, so here goes1. In high school, kids are in relationships simply for the sake of being in one. The novelty of it is what is appealing, "Oh look at us acting all grown up." But the problem is that those relationships are built on diddly-squat, so almost all of them fail.
2. In college, kids want to have fun right? So the straight laced thing won't be very appealing to them. It will seem stuffy and boring to them, but don't the mistake of getting so immersed in having fun that you become a fool. That won't help either, you'll just be laughed at.
3. When you all get older, you will want something fun and meaningful, and that is where the "good-guy" thing comes in handy. A husband and family man HAS to be straight laced and squeaky clean, otherwise there will be some obstacles that you just can't overcome, no matter how hard you try.
Lastly, just give it time if you are afraid to try changing. Eventually you will be exactly what some girl is looking for in a guy, and if you are lucky, she will be the same for you. Hope this helped ^_^
I couldn't have said it better myself. I'm a "good guy" too, so I know how you feel OP. You just need to either find someone who has already matured out of the Party Hard phase of college or wait. Good things will come. Nobody wants that douchebag drug dealer when they're out of college and looking for someone to spend their life with.
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Dude, don't change what you are just to impress a girl. The "whole strait (sic) laced thing" will pay off later in life.
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AvatarEnd wrote...
penelopesays wrote...
GIRLS LOVE SLUTSOH MAN. DO YOU LOVE ME?
No she likes guys that posted their ass for the entire internet to masturbate over.
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TehMikuruSlave wrote...
AvatarEnd wrote...
penelopesays wrote...
GIRLS LOVE SLUTSOH MAN. DO YOU LOVE ME?
No she likes guys that posted their ass for the entire internet to masturbate over.
Whore. I thought you were only going to share that with me.
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I don't do drugs or smoke. I only drink in social settings. And I have a girlfriend.
You just need to look in the right places. I'm sure the right girl will come for you =]
You just need to look in the right places. I'm sure the right girl will come for you =]
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Phil Brooks, also known as 'CM Punk' has done none of those things and look at the type of women he got.
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Loner
the People's Senpai
So if you chose not to do those things because you don't want to, why would choose a girl that did. You'd find yourself with a girl that's into things that your not and you wouldn't be being yourself either. Find out what you like/want in life and then find a girl that like/wants the same or similar things.
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Damoz
~Not A User~
You are you, never forget that. You shouldn't try to be anything else because what would that accomplish, you will just end up looking like a faker. The right girl for you will turn up and believe me taking up "bad" things doesn't solve anything, it just make things harder for you later in life.
That said, most people will just brand you for trying to hard if you go hardcore to be something your not. Simple social thinking is simple, just relax and be yourself. Don't expect them to go leaping for you, you obviously need to make **some** effort.
All in all i think your looking at if from the wrong perspective, or at least looking in the wrong places.
That said, most people will just brand you for trying to hard if you go hardcore to be something your not. Simple social thinking is simple, just relax and be yourself. Don't expect them to go leaping for you, you obviously need to make **some** effort.
All in all i think your looking at if from the wrong perspective, or at least looking in the wrong places.