One Night Stands
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HardContact wrote...
WALL OF TEXTListen to this man! Sex is no big deal. Anybody who goes out and flirts knows the possibilities. We are all adults so you should be able to handle yourself like one and know what you are looking for. Likewise, your partner should know what they are looking for too, and tell you otherwise if they are not up to a one night stand.
A lot of people here seem to think that sexual attraction + sex = love, but it really doesn't. I mean, I can see if you don't like one night stands for personal reasons but don't fool yourself into thinking anyone is a victim or that you are leading a person on when a one night stand occurs between two consenting parties.
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ahh....one night stands have usually brought me trouble so I think they are just a really bad idea. Either the guy gets too emotionally involved or I do and either way that's just bad. Actually, the first time I had sex with a guy was through a one night stand while I was studying abroad. We did it on the living room floor of a friend I had just made and he turned out to be a neo-nazi as I later found out... ugh...that's the worst...
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HardContact wrote...
Well I the way I think about this is completely different. /WALL OF TEXT
You! Yes you... HardContact. Thank you.
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HardContact wrote...
/WALL OF TEXTThis is a very mature way to see it, I quite understand your point. This does not apply to me, though.
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Ummm..one night stands. Arent they done when your really drunk, drugged or mutually retarded? o-o Just some idiots either trying to be cool or stupidity I cannot comprehend~ Unless there looking for a quick way to lose there virginty (aww...more retardation) then I dont see why 2 people would just wanna have sex then leave? Your gonna be alone the next night anyway~
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Guilty Fucking Guardian reporting in. I don't know how I missed this thread.
I have no respect for the decision that they make. Regardless of their personal preferences or life choices.
I do not actually.
Not a god damn thing.
Kalistean wrote...
So what is your view on One Night Stands?I have no respect for the decision that they make. Regardless of their personal preferences or life choices.
Kalistean wrote...
Do you think that it's fine as long as you both know what you're getting into?I do not actually.
Kalistean wrote...
do you feel that sex really isn't anything without the romance there?Not a god damn thing.
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@GuGu, I want your babies!
Seriously, I am not 'that guy' or at least I don't think I am. I suppose I'd need to be put in the situation first.
Seriously, I am not 'that guy' or at least I don't think I am. I suppose I'd need to be put in the situation first.
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Genshie wrote...
Well considering that I pretty much lost my virginity due to frustration and me being impatient, I honestly see nothing wrong with it. Pretty much as long as both parties understand what they are doing and are taking the proper measures to prevent hurting one another then there shouldn't be anything wrong. People hold sex too highly and make it way more of a big deal than it actually is. In short, for me I enjoyed it and so did she. I took it as both a learning experience and a chance to get off while have fun with my partner. (Got the girl's number and I know one of her besties and her ex, who I am planning to please in more ways than one tomorrow) Then again if you really want to be pickey if we are all in contact with eachother and are all pretty mutal with eachother then it wouldn't be considered a one-night stand would it?
My boyfriend also lost his virginity to frustration and impatience. In fact he had two one night stands before dating me - which I have no problem with. But for myself, I don't think I could ever have a one night stand. I get too emotionally attached :(
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Only had one. An to be honest and respectful, I plan on never doing it again. I repeat I plan. Dont know if I will break from sexual frustration in the future but meh. I become attached on a friendly basis.
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sex and love are two different things completely in my mind. if you have sex with someone it does not mean you love them, however if you make love, you do. its just the way it is
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
...ya...after the amount of trouble one night stands brought me in highschool no thanks..i'll take a relationship over that train wreck waiting to happen anyday