Premature Confession: It's All Beer's Fault XP

So...I blurted out to a girl that "I love her" after I got VERY, VERY, VERY WASTED
Not once but several times, (basically I started to confess how much I like her while my friends were draging me back to my room). So now the truth unfolds, yeah, all my friends including her now knows. I've yet only met her for a month and now I just had my first "premature confession" experience because of some freakin beer and jag bombs. And I can't avoid seeing her like at least 4 times a week. What should I do?

The thing is:

1) She likes me (from friend's info)
2) But we will be separated because of work a year from now
3) I like her, but I don't really "love her," hey I was drunk XP
4) I'm TOTALLY ok being her boyfriend the moment, but I don't think she's the one, in other words, I will have to break up with her eventually.
5) But to tell you the truth, I kinda want to get laid though. So yeah, she's cute.

So What should I do now?


p.s. if you recognize me from another topic, just to be clear, this isn't the same girl I was talking about before.

do it.. else, ask her if she wants to mess around for a year till she goes, eg friends with sex.. 'n' stuff

Unless you have a better lead elsewhere, you might as well try out a relationship with her. Expectations can be different from reality after all. You might really like being with her.

3-5 tell her this along with some other nice words about how pretty she is, and after that if she is still down then go for it.

Just do it. As Avatar said. You might really like being with her.

You get drunk and say you love a girl and it turns out that she likes you? that is probably the best scenario you could as for. You are lucky and should go for it.

Trust me I confessed I liked a girl many times and every time it was a disaster.

Dude, sorry to hear that. Don't give up XD

Go with this. Even if she doesn't seem like the one now, you never know until you try.

Take the chance. You're actually in a good situation if she does like you back. Try out a relationship with her for a while, then see what happens. Trust me, holding it in and not saying anything is something you'll regret more in the long run.

Ok, I'll give it a shot. Might as well, otherwise, when I get drunk again the same stuff might happen all over again :3

Thanks guys/gals!

It worked once with my now ex girlfriend but that was after I asked her on 3 different occasions: once on valentines day, then some months later, then finally months after that.

Gosh, I thought time was supposed to ease pain but everything feels like it is getting worse and worse for me.

Well... do keep us updated! :P

Got it! Friends are planning a trip this coming week to go camping in the mountain.
Any idea on how to score my first kiss with her :3
Greatly appreciated >_

p.s. haha, btw, it's been 4 years since I dated anyone...

Some advice.

Going out with her is alright. But unless you realize you are serious about her and can genuinely see yourself with her (not just pretending to) do not sleep with her.

Also, if you do go out with her for a while and still cannot see yourself ending up with her, then you need to end things as dragging it on that point is just going to make things worse.

But, I think I'm in love with her :3 emotionally, of course!

Today, we took a stroll on campus with other friends, and even though we didn't bring up the subject about what happened last week, we are still smiling :)
She did ask me "if I'll only be staying here for a year?" and I answered yes...but if I applied for a higher degree I might be able to stay a bit longer.

But, yeah, bottom line is, she's cute, I like her, ready to start a relationship, and I wanna get laid... XP

Willing to wait though! If that's what she wants.

Having interest in here and seeing yourself being with her are different things.

If you can't do the latter then you'll make things complicated continuing a fruitless relationship.

So just be careful about going into things so you don't lie to yourself about things.

Ok, this sucks, cuz I really think there won't be any way for me to be with her any longer than a year...

Also, frankly, she's cute, my type, BUT not my favorite type.

I just want to have sex with her.

God, I'm aweful...

Everything is going too fast, I should really just make a point to her that I just want to be friend for now. Since we will be like skipping the friend phase if we both like each other and starting to date right now.

uh....now I need to think about doing something "unattractive" in front of her so it would be easy for her to "unlike" me.

Any tip on that? Should I try picking my nose in front of her? That'd turn girls off , right? lol

nah...think I'll just tell her that due to work reason, I won't commit this kind of relationship...and that's all.

Guess I'll continue to be cherry for awhile =_=

Is she a romantic? Does she fall for cheesy sweet moments?

'Cause if she does... plan something "romantic" like watching the sunset with her... ALONE.

Or, if you really just want to have sex with her, come clean and tell her you just want to be friends... with benefits.

Oh, sorry pal, read the latest update.
I want to take it slow, so I'm not doing this.
It just ain't right.

p.s. thanks for the advice though, I'll keep that in mind about the sunset. It's BEEN awhile since I'm close to a beach enjoying a sunset, so yeah that's a good one.

I see. Taking it slow is not bad either. That just shows you can control yourself.

Though, here's a bit of advice from the opposite gender. Don't get her hopes up if you're not ready to commit. There isn't anything wrong with befriending and getting close to her, as long as you make "the line" clear. Don't take advantage of her. It might get messy. Also... wait. What was I going to say... oh. Puppy love and limerence are two different things. Even if you are in a state of limerence, it doesn't actually mean love. Sex can't make up for the lack of appreciation.

...Did that make sense? lol