Premature Confession: It's All Beer's Fault XP

Ok, first of all, hey, thanks for the advice! Especially coming from the opposite sex can always make things balanced. Second of all, DEFINITELY NOT puppy love, but yeah, "state of limerence" (have to look that one up) DEFINITELY for sure.

It's been so long since I last dated with anyone, I almost thought about running for the President of the Nerds'Pecific Island Nation, and become the best looking of their president EVER. NO, I want to start a relationship, but I don't want to "poop where I eat" Cuz if I screw up, she'll still be my classmate for the next 11 months, and it's a small class...and we have ALL the same classes, so yeah...

Ok, be friends with her, got it, I'll tell her that. Today.

Infatuation and limerence is also two different things. Haha, do your homework!

Oh? Pics! lol

Well, if she has a special place in your heart, then take a chance to become close friends! You never know what happens next. Do tell what happens.

Good luck!

Ok, so I didn't tell her that I only want to be friends with her (thank God!)

Cuz the more I look at her the more I realize I was wrong about her.
I can see her in my future relationship!!!
Don't think I'm going to give up without a try.
We're not officially dating yet, but I want to keep showing her signs that I like her and want to be her boyfriend.

And this time, it's NOT about the sex.
Wish me luck!

Hey, guys.

It's been exactly one week and three days since I "prematurely" confess to the girl I like. And before I say anything else, I just want to say

"Thank you SO MUCH for all the support you give me, really, even when I was a stranger to you guys, you guys AT LEAST care enough to reply my topic or cheer for me or gave me suggestion. Thank you as words are simply NOT enough. So anyway, thanks anyhow."

So, let's let the story began, shall we?

So by chance, I began to slowly approach, starting to show affection toward this girl I've "prematurely" confessed to. This weekend by chance, we even went on a road trip with some other friends together. Everyone, of course, knew that I like her, and so does she. So naturally, my friends want to give us opportunity to be together, for instance let us sit next to each other.

And tonight I've finally decided to confess to her, after rethinking about the possibility of being with her, and liking her. My answer is yes. So she came over to friends' place to have dinner, and I planned to walk her back to her place alone after we're done. Just when I think it's about to to go grab my coat next door to walk back with her, when I came back, she was standing downstairs leaning against the wall waiting for someone.

She was extraordinary pretty that day. She's becoming more prettier and putting on makeup ever since I confessed to her. So when I walked down the stair, another friend of mine was there too. They were chatting about something, so I abruptly told her that I'm ready to walk her home. Just before we did that, that guy quickly handed her a polar bear toy from the coke cola factory and said this is for you. Then I quickly realized, this guy is actually into her as well!? Even after knowing that I confessed to her and was going to pursuit her. I was a bit shocking and pissed. So I pretend nothing happen and started to walk her back to her place. Then I started to complain about how stupidly dangerous the toy bear could be and that she should just throw it away. And she laughed. And of course, for the shortest 5 min I probably tried my best to make her as happy as possible with this bit of joke and that.

So when finally on the doorstep of her place, I said goodnight and "would you go out with me?"


She replied "what for? We're only going to be here for 1 year anyway, don't be silly, just go to bed." I was shock, cuz I thought from my friend's info that she might actually like me as well. So I thought she was being "hard to catch" and I asked her again, and sure enough she said, "good night, (my name)." So I put on my smiling as if nothing had happened face and said "ok, then good night, I'll see you tomorrow, right?" And started to walk back.

I then phoned my friend that I want to drink at their place right now. And they said sure. So I told them about my rejection. And my friend's answer was....


"Wow, dude, I can't believe you freakin' intercepted them when they were going to walk back?!" "what?" I said. "oh, poor (my name), she actually been texting that guy and like him even before you confessed when you were drunk!!! But we didn't want to destroy your hope and dream so we couldn't tell you."

So, I started to questioned my friend the things I did not know, and suppose to keep me untold. They told me everything, and she actually is seeing the other guy that's been nice to me on purpose and pretend to be my friend to just to check on my progress with her. And all along, I was fighting this losing battle, cuz she had liked him even before I confessed to her twice before.

The story of my life. My friends are bad at opening their secret to others, and I ended up playing a role of a jester. The thing is, I'm even better, and much better in terms of everything than that other guy. But like my friends told me "love isn't science, or equation. It's just like lottery ticket. You get it and you don't!"

And this time, I didn't get it. Simple as that.


Thank you for readying my story, I'm completely wasted by now.

your friends are jerks

Yeah, they normally are cool with me, but for some reason we had a misunderstanding here. So I think they're jerks as well.

They should have just told me about the truth, the texting between her and the other guy.

Gah! They even provoked me to go after her, so I thought she MUST HAVE like me as well!!!!

Dick friends you got, buddy. I would have told you the truth and put you down gently, instead of letting you go out there knowing you'd crash and burn. :/

Hey, I'm curious, what happened to that girl that was egging you on to have sex? The other thread you made?

Ok, the other girl, I barely have the time to talk to her now.
And also I told her that I was going for another girl, so she's not that into me anymore.

and actually, my friends the reason they told me that they didn't want to tell me about the secret was because it was her secret as well. So they want to be in the middle. Another thing is, they actually hope that I can fight and win this battle, cheering for me to beat the other guy and change her mind about him. But, shiit, she's messaging him on facebook right now as I typed. I think this is a load of bs.

Though, I did hear from my friends that she still want to be "friends" with me, so I pm her that "I am sorry, I didn't know that there was another guy, and you didn't really like me, it's all my stupid friends' set up. And I'm willing to just be friends with you again."

Gah! I wanna shoot that guy so bad. He even pretended to be my friend and check up on me. What a wuss. Btw, they haven't officially started to go out yet, but she seems to like him better than me. Also which I don't get, cuz I'm better looking than him, and funnier, better shape, clothing...

oh yeah, well, he is rich... Fucking bitch!!!

Yeah, I can't imagine why she might like him better.

Wow.. that sucks man. I feel for you, I hope things go better for you in the next few weeks or so. Keep your chin up, and more will come :D

Thanks, I'll try.

Bottom line is, she's still want me as a "friend" so now I guess I'm officially her rebound guy.

No, you know what, on second thought, fuck it! She's not even trying to "hook" me and now I'm all hooked up because of her.

I am through with HER!

Yeah, take THAT!

quoting you doesn't give me notifications.. I felt unimportant for a minute :( sucks having no notifications :/

But yeah, stand up for yourself, they led you on, make them regret it >:D

But seriously, no aggression or angryness.. keep it cool. ;D

Yea like everyone said you should give it a go, I mean you wouldnt know if she's not the one until you've tried her (Im not talking about sex when I said that). Also the world is full of 'what if's' so I say give it a go and if you two dont click then you can end it when you go work a year from now.

Never thought I would have to revive this topic again.
But yeah I want to, so to give it a nice closure :D


Ok. So long story short, we live in a cruel cruel world, kids.

Turned out that, the girl I like and rejected me, well, her close friend today had just told me that it's a "good thing" that she likes someone else. Cuz she's actually cheating on that guy right now.
Supposedly she's already engage, and after a year of studying she will go back to her country and get marry. Also, she can't let her parents find out about her dating anyone right now.

Boy, DO I FEEL GOOD after hearing that.

So, moral of the story, just believe in fate, kid, and eventually we will all meet the destine one.

Well, maybe!

I'd feel almost inclined to tell the fiance tbh..

I think you know what you need to do.