Sluty Girl? Yes, No?
Would you go out with a sluty girl?
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We've not been using a condom in years, because she's on the pill anyways, and neither of us likes condoms. I don't feel bad for that.
Well when i say safe sex i just mean contraceptives. But as long as some sort of contraception is used i don't have a problem with. Me being a paranoid fuck, is very hesitant about going bare. And i heard from some friends that a girl got pregnant even with the pill, which makes me scared to rely on it.
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Masterjc wrote...
I find "standard" sexuality based on categories like gender stupid(not trying to offend you Cero_13 anybody with this statement, this is just my personal belief). The only time i would criticize someone for the sexual decisions is if they cheat on someone, because in my mind they are violating another persons trust, which is not right. But other then that, as long as its consensual i'm fine. Although i admit i have a tendency to look down upon people who don't practice safe sex. I mean, if you want to be a nymphomaniac fine, but just be safe about it.Logically that is true, but being categorized as a slut and cheating kind of go hand in hand from my experience. More for guys then for girls though. You hardly see nice guys with a so called "slutty girl", but you can always see a nice girl with a "slutty guy". You know what I mean. I actually had to dive this one girl I got to know back to her house after finding out a person I knew was cheating on her, it was really fucked up what happened to her. The guy I knew would definitely be categorized as a slut as he still fakes his caring guy image only till he gets tired of the girl.
If no one gets hurts, which I may say happens rarely from what I've seen in my 22 years, that person would just be sexually active and I got no problem with that.
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Masterjc wrote...
Well when i say safe sex i just mean contraceptives. But as long as some sort of contraception is used i don't have a problem with. Me being a paranoid fuck, is very hesitant about going bare. And i heard from some friends that a girl got pregnant even with the pill, which makes me scared to rely on it.Just as an aside, the pill has a lower risk percentage than the condom when it comes to pregnancy. If used proficiently and in adulthood, modern versions of the pill ("micropill") are extremely reliable.
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If it's a rumor, then don't base your impression of her based on that unless you get proof. If she is a "slut", then watch out. She might be just into the sexual and not into the mental. Why have a relationship of just sex when you can have both that and a intelligent (as in, she gets you, you get her, you understand eachother, blahblahb) wholesome relationship that is long term?
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Hypothetically it's just a rumor right? If so, then why not I guess. I'd see for myself if she's actually a slut or not, rather than base my opinion on what others say.
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BLZebub51 wrote...
Hypothetically it's just a rumor right? If so, then why not I guess. I'd see for myself if she's actually a slut or not, rather than base my opinion on what others say.your right hehe better try first ^^ if you see that she is a total slut then leave her hehe
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of course i dont want a slut. Coz I think inexperienced girl is easier to be dominated. And we can lead the way when we have sex. lol.
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i don't date women but if i were a man, i wouldn't date a slutty girl. relationships aren't all about sex... and giving yourself up to someone like that just shows a lack of loyalty...
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I'd give her a chance, rumors are harsh and not always true. Two guys can turn into 20 and those 20 turns into a huge nasty rumor of a slutty lil girl. And in defense humans tend to give a cold shoulder instead of sitting down in front of people and cry begging them to stop calling her that. And if someone goes to anger against rumors people say it's just another reason as to why it's true.
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Slutty girls... I'd befriend and probably have sex with her every now and again, but she's not the kind of person I'd want a serious relationship with
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langying wrote...
Slutty girls... I'd befriend and probably have sex with her every now and again, but she's not the kind of person I'd want a serious relationship withAnd why not? Once you tame a slutty personality their great in bed o.o And they tend to become clingy xD
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cayena89 wrote...
langying wrote...
Slutty girls... I'd befriend and probably have sex with her every now and again, but she's not the kind of person I'd want a serious relationship withAnd why not? Once you tame a slutty personality their great in bed o.o And they tend to become clingy xD
not necessarily