So a Girl Had Just Asked Me to have Sex with Her...

So a Girl Had Just Asked Me to have Sex with Her...

well...not directly, but she kept telling me to teach her how to doggy, or she wanted me to touch her boobs, or look at them. She kept telling me how nice I am, how good looking I am, and wish she had a boyfriend like me. We both are single. She's hot. A Tom-boy. Have many sex experiences. Like to drink and get drunk. And yes, she did just give me the 'hint' of going to her place.

So?

Should I do it? O_o

p.s. btw I'm still a virgin. yeah...so that explained a lot. For religious reason, I've made up my mind not to have sex before marriage when I was a kid. But! But! She's really tempting me to just one night stand with her. However, I don't think we can become a couple, or at least I'm not sure if I'm willing to commit this relationship. Also btw, we're in our mid-twenties.

So? What do you guys think?
Should I have sex with her and become lovey-dovey, even though I might not really want her to be my gf? But it's not like I don't like her though, cuz I do like her as a friend.

Would girls forgive guys, if they just want to have sex?

Sex = having fun?

But! We're NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP!

lol, sorry, if I sounded so stupid in here. I wasn't making this up, it's just all this time I've been taught by my family to be careful when dealing with girls. lol.

Relationships don't always work in this way:

-Get befriended
-Like eachother
-Become an official couple
-Have sex
-Get married.

A lot of guys and girls who have little to no experience think every single relationship works that way, but it's more vague. Guys meet up with girls in bars and if they are attracted to eachother they'll have sex with them as well. They don't even need to get in a relationship.

So if this girl likes you like you said she did, you should definitely go there! Have some fun with her! Don't make excuses by pulling religion into this. If you want sex, you go have sex. If your God was against you having sex he would've chopped off your dick when you were born.

If you feel strongly about not having sex before marriage or whatever, you should stick to it. If you don't care either way, go for it - it'll be fun, a good experience and maybe something will come out from it. But if you don't go into it with no expectations you will be sorely disappointed. Most likely this girl sees you as a challenge (the cherry-kun whose virginity needs to be popped) so i suggest you take stock of your personal beliefs and if it is something you cannot go against (trust me, lingering guilt post-coitus is always a bitch to deal with), don't do it. If it's something you can get over (however i dont think that a life time's worth of believes are going to go away that easily), then go for it - but go into it with no expectations.

I did not mean to assume any part of her personality, i just threw a possibility in. Her personality aside - whatever that may be, i think its more important that OP feels comfortable going for it. Don't do it because you have any kind of expectations from her or from yourself - do it if you feel that you can accept casual sex and if you believe that your beliefs will not be compromised. I'm not voting for or against doing this, I'm voting for the option that does not compromise yourself or what you believe in.



Girls are human too and sometimes all they want is just sex, but you need to be sure that having sex is all you want (and all that she wants). Make it clear what you want and maybe the decision to have sex with her will become more apparent to yourself.

dude just go with your feelings, your asking for help on a hentai site

You answered your own question.

You realize that i idea of marriage from the bible time was just a state of mind and not a physical thing. Yes you should like the person but sex is the natural thing. I'm a official(Priesthood) of the copic gnostic church. Sex is a form of worship, a holy sacrament of god's love for man.

If your want to have sex with this chick, then go for it. Obviously use protection and whatnot, no matter what she says.
Sex isn't really restricted to relationships and marriage as someone at your age should already know.

If you feel that your can't do it with her for whatever reason, then don't. Them only person who shoukd make your want to or not want to, is yourself. Posting on here just makes me think that you're hesistant about breaking them principles you've been trying to keep for so long. But something like this isn't going to make or break your as a man. At least not in your position.

Are you gay?

he answered his own question when he was a kid, he's re-asking it now that he's older


I would say don't have sex with her, because as you said,


If you like her, then pursue a relationship, but don't go straight to the sex. earlier you didn't want to have sex before marriage, and your considering having sex before a relationship!?! If that's how you want to lose your virginity, go ahead, but it sounds like that's not what you want

Dude, do it.

I don't wanna preach religion here, since I've got the same ideals as you, in a sense. But really, it's a matter of your gut feeling now. If you want to go for it, by all means, take the leap. You may not actually regret it.

Although...with your description of her, I would be wary of actually "falling in love" with her. I know she hinted that she wished she had a boyfriend like you, but still, go easy on the love at first. Talk to her about your decision, and see what happens.

It isn't so much of a question as what SHOULD you do, rather its more of what do you WANT to do;
what are you most comfortable with doing, after all its your virginity.

If you cherish your first time and rather save it for that special someone you do decide to be with then save it, if you want to just take advantage of this opportunity then take it.

You mentioned that you like her as a friend, why not try to pursue a relationship with her, eventually it will just come naturally.

Why the hell not? If she enjoys it, she will always come back for more. Don't wuss out or screw it up. We'll hate you if you do.

While I've never been in this situation myself, I have to say if your gut instinct is telling you to do it, DO IT. Don't live your life with regrets.

Dude, just do what you think is right, both for the situation and you. Once you decide on what you want to do, just do it. You don't need others to help make the decision for you. It's your life, so live by your own standards and decisions.