The red-head at my college.

me thinks thou doth protest too much

/Agreement

You must feel at least a little afffection for her if this is bothering you this much ^w^ Like you said, you don't want to come off as a jerk to her. Ergo, you care at least a little bit if her opinion of you changes =D

That's actually pretty clever rofl xD Might/might not work, but it's really clever.

If this were true, then I've made many girls feel bad. Some people are just bad with names. Nothing wrong with asking as long as you apologise for it. Hell, I didn't remember this one girl's name a month after I first met her. She was a bit pissed when I asked though. I like to be straight forward, less of a hassle then doing any of the other things you could think of.

I forget names all the time, dont worry. I forgot the name of this girl that I planned on asking out (and eventually did). I had it easy though, she was on the dance team so I just turned her around one day and read the back of her jersey. I used the excuse that she had some lint or something one the back of her sweatshirt...

You can always ask someone else in her class, or even the teacher. If that doesnt work, ask her for her full name, first middle and last, pretending like your interested. But you would be suprised at how long you can get by talking to someone and not knowing their name...

I agree with the majority of the posters.

Mainly, the 'rape her' option.

Agreed.

Find a friend that actually knows her and ask.

If not, find a friend and introduce to her, listen to the introduction speech, if you are not present on that time, ask your friend later.

Or, as said in others, ask her for email, email normally leads to facebook/friendster where there is names you can find there. A phone number is fine too, ask her for it and give her the phone and let her manually adds it with her name on it.

-SHE wants YOU.
-YOU are in COLLEGE.
-2+2=Intercourse. Feelings need not apply.


Do not discount another human being just because you "know" them. It sounds like you have only had passing conversation with her, so make "a move" and get to actually talk with her. Get to the bottom of things, then make your assessment.

At the very least, you can pass a good romantic month together. This will probably involve sex (consensual).

PUT IT IN HER, SHE WANTS IT.

you guys are so disgusting TT_________TT

as it surfed a cartoon pornography website.

ya ya ya whatever. I'll just continue to judge you silently.

Just ask somebody to know her name. Come on, you'll just be talking to her so don't become too nervous about it.

Ask her if she wants to go to KFC your treat, Then ask her casually while shes eating "So what is your name anyway".

The free food will confuse her and smooth things over. :)

Well....its relly all up to you.

If you want to talk to someone...well you just talk to them...doesn't mean you or they want to rape you or love you. Even though this might be hard to beleive...there are some people in the world who ARE naturally kind and nice and just want to say hi to people OR....maybe she is interested in you and wants you to take the initative and talk to her idk...that just my opinion.

I've done some sneaky things before to try and get people's names if I forget them. If it's a school setting, I'll try and get a glance at one of their papers if there's one nearby, or if they're talking to another person next to me I might listen in for names. But you could always just ask them. I've done that plenty of times as well. Just say something like, "Ah, sorry, but what's your name again? I'm bad with names."