Virgins
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                        Interesting to see that the most answers apply to people's opinions about female virginity.
Male virginity is also something to consider... looking at both versions of virginity realistically, it's likely you/your partner have been with someone prior to the relationship.
If you're not a virgin yourself, why hold a partner to that standard? I've found this "standard" of female-virginity is enforced much more often than the male counterpart. If a guy's sleeping around he's cool, when a girl's done it once, she's a slut, etc...
After all, not everyone finds their mate for life on the first try.
It's a little unfair if you ask me...
                Male virginity is also something to consider... looking at both versions of virginity realistically, it's likely you/your partner have been with someone prior to the relationship.
If you're not a virgin yourself, why hold a partner to that standard? I've found this "standard" of female-virginity is enforced much more often than the male counterpart. If a guy's sleeping around he's cool, when a girl's done it once, she's a slut, etc...
After all, not everyone finds their mate for life on the first try.
It's a little unfair if you ask me...
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                        You know what they say...one virgin in bed is one virgin too many (at least I think that's the saying xD)                    
                
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                        KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
Yes, i prefer em'... I'm looking for a ?serious relationship? not some slutty sex partner...if you're not a virgin, are you a slut?
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                        Fi wrote...
KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
Yes, i prefer em'... I'm looking for a ?serious relationship? not some slutty sex partner...if you're not a virgin, are you a slut?
Exactly. The fact that she's not a virgin =/= she's a slut.
On another note, what's wrong with a sex partner (female) with a very high sex drive? >:[
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                        LostQuartet wrote...
Fi wrote...
KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
Yes, i prefer em'... I'm looking for a ?serious relationship? not some slutty sex partner...if you're not a virgin, are you a slut?
Exactly. The fact that she's not a virgin =/= she's a slut.
On another note, what's wrong with a sex partner (female) with a very high sex drive? >:[
A man can only go for so long. ;3 JK, Ive been with a girl like that.
on a more serious note, just because she is not a virgin does not make her a slut(with all due respect) Ive met a girl who was a virgnin and she bounced from guy to guy. A serious relationship is one in which no matter what your partner or you has done, you try to make the best of it.
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                        Fi wrote...
KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
Yes, i prefer em'... I'm looking for a ?serious relationship? not some slutty sex partner...if you're not a virgin, are you a slut?
don't start this again, that person said nothing wrong
mibuchiha wrote...
hate the blood, but not virgins.D: But I love the blood D:
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                        Chlor wrote...
I prefer non-virgins because, let's just face it: Virgins are bad in bed. (For obvious reasons)Well, true, but it can go both ways. Even some of the more mature, or non-virgins, have flaws.
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                        JuniorAfro wrote...
Chlor wrote...
I prefer non-virgins because, let's just face it: Virgins are bad in bed. (For obvious reasons)Well, true, but it can go both ways. Even some of the more mature, or non-virgins, have flaws.
Well of course but "practice makes perfect" kinda fits in here, and of course some people are just bad. Gut generally all virgins are bad. D: They hurt, they bleed, they're scared. <_< It's just to much of a hassle, I'm not saying that I've deflowered a lot virgins but none of the few I have have been any real fun.
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                        Guilty Guardian wrote...
Resisting urge to rageIf it's aimed at me feel free to rage, either here or through a PM. Or actually please do. I'm not gonna start an argument but I'm interested in what I said that upset you.
Only reason i can think of is that this point of view comes off as extremely objective towards women and the concept of making love.
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                        Fi wrote...
KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
Yes, i prefer em'... I'm looking for a ?serious relationship? not some slutty sex partner...if you're not a virgin, are you a slut?
hmm... umm no? What i meant was i wanted a proper relationship before any sex as it seems some guys here don't prefer virgins as they don't have any experience
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                        LOVE the thought of a virgin they just love everything you do to them and get excited over the little things <3