Was i wrong to tell her Bf?

[color=blue][font=Verdana][/font]@OP can you update the status of this one?? I mean, did she really listened to your advice??[/color]

Fun fact: I lost my virginity to a 14 year old who lied about her age. She said she was 16, the legal age here in the UK. I was 17 at the time.

OT: You did the right thing, imo. He probably won't admit it, but you did save his hide by convincing him to dodge that Statutory Rape bullet. That wouldn't have been helped by the fact that he's aware that she's underage.

oh ya sure i liked hearing your guys opinions on this might as well update xD

well she knows most of my friends and has convince maybe 40% of them im the biggest dick on the planet, my gf being one of them so now shes ignoring me (dont worry i really dont like her anyway lol), she stole my hat and wont give it back (actually the thing im most upset about if you can believe it xD), domo is talking to the 15 year old chick now and im pretty now sure they're officially dating

Well there's a big part of life called 'getting over shit.' They'll understand your motives in due time.

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all I see is the fact that you may have save someone from jail time, good for you man

I think you did the right thing, to be honest.

Nope, you weren´t wrong~ He would have been in trouble if he had sex with her~ Don´t worry about that you were "cockblocking", I think you did the right thing.

You did the right thing, better safe than sorry and if he's any grateful, he'll worship your ass for saving him from the 8 X 4 Cube box otherwise known as a prison cell lol.

It used to be the most degenerate place on earth to live, but now with cable, gymnastics and what not, it's more equipped than say most well-done middle class homes **grumble, grumble. And our politicians say we're under
heavy duress. Yeah, because of wasteful spending like that**

While I think that you did the right thing for both parties, perhaps you could have done it in...a more indirect, delicate manner. Instead of blurting her age, perhaps you could have hinted that she may be underage or ask him to check her age. I'm curious though; how did her boyfriend not know her age if she doesn't withhold that information? It's a little odd for a couple in a relationship to not know their ages. Legal issues aside though, after this debacle I don't think you should further involve yourself in their relationship. You've done what you could, and you did it out of altruistic intention; the rest is up to them. *salute*

thanks for the salute :) *salutes back*
he knew her age before hand he was just ignoring her so she didnt think he was trying to have sex with her apparently or something like that idk

actually i might as well update even though im kind of over the entire situation

1. She got my gf to dump me (which im still pretty sad about)

2. She and her friend are constantly telling literally everyone how much of a dick i am and how self centered i apparently am as well (i totaly disagree obviously but they're entititled to their own opinion i guess Dx)

3. We got in an argument last sunday where she was telling completly random people about all of this (i yelled at her because the more people who know about this the more likely it is he will get arrested (she then said she didnt care who knew and that it didnt matter (she obviously didnt get the concept of "the more people who know the more likely you ruin his life" but whatever)))

4. She got a chick who ive been trying to date for almost a year basically to agree im a dick and draw a picture of me being killed pretty brutally -_-

5. the 15 year old chick posted a pic of me in my underwear on facebook making fun of me to embaress me (its a long story but i didnt like pose for it or anything and i didnt know she took a pic ,_,)

6. and i talked to domo he got the pic i just talked about removed from fb, was apparently never actually going to have sex with her because he knew about the laws before hand and that i didnt need to tell him (so she hates me for no apparent reason then since he was never planning on doing anything ,_,(which she knows since she went through my texts because my gf (well ex gf T.T) unlocked my phone and gave it to her ._.))


EDIT: Oh and i got my hat back :D

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Fucked up bunch of "friends" you got there.

Damn dude, did any of these so called "Friends" even bother listening to your side of the story, or are they just picking favorites (in this case her)?

Lets face it, and not cover up the facts with quotations. What we have here is a serious case of little shits trying to fuck up someone's day, because some bitch didn't get her way. Pretty typical (yet fucked up) shit now-a-days.

Man, to be stupid again.

Edit: By the way, it's about at that point, if it were me, where I'd be going around with a baseball bat fucking up everyone's day in return until they understood my side of this bullshit. I wouldn't stand for this crap.

man, that's really fucked up. If I were you, I would start distancing myself from that psycho. It will only be a matter of time before she starts talking shit about you to your family.

Ya I blocked her on my phone and Facebook and I'm trying to avoid as much contact with her on a daily basis as well hopefully she'll stop talking shit about me and I can get back to being known as the nice guy again xD

Oh and for the dude I repped id love to but most of my friends are chicks and idk I can never bring myself to hit a girl xD (i know it's sexist and all to be chivalrous but I only like fighting for fun in the first place and I feel like a douche hitting a chick even if she more then deserves it) plus beating her up wouldn't really get people to stop thinking I'm a dick lol

Uhm no since I'm trying to tell as little people as possible about this so that if they ever do end up doing it (even though Domo has assured me they won't) he won't get in trouble.

So ya I'm kind of refusing to defend my self since I know if I do it'll start an argument and it will enlarge the issue more and I'm positive shell tell more people who don't know about this and get them to hate me to make her self feel like I'm still wrong ,_,

Then just use a Nerf bat. Doesn't really hurt, but you still get the satisfaction of hitting the stupid fucks...

*Deep breath*

OK, but seriously, they really are idiots, and not only are they ruining your day, but they seem to be pushing the boundaries of what's "okay", and what you should never do to someone. Like I said, if it was me, I'd have put my foot down, hard, once they had posted something like that on a open site like Facebook. Lawsuit, school notification, Facebook suspension. I'd go the whole nine yards to get them to understand that while I understand they may be pissed because they're spoiled little fucks, there's only so much I'll take before shit gets real.

... That's just me, though.

lol they're using you like a scapegoat or something. Anyway, it's strange your friend didn't tell you that from the start.

i mean no disrespect you were in the right and i mean this in a good way you are if you were a girl you would be a real great bro ok and she a real piece of work and she shouldnt have a problem with waiting until shes 18 and if i had a daughter like that i would slap her for her acting like a complete trash,for her behavior and if your comfortable with how you look you shouldnt give a flip whaat others think and your a good friend sorry that she didnt know that youre like a drop of water in a desert with no cactus=invaluable and a lifesaver