What are your standards?
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Girl is not fat. Slightly overweight is alright as long as her face is pretty/cute. If anything we can go to the gym together. Cause I'm such a gym rat :D
Must have same interests (especially Japanaholic like me), hell Japanese would be a bonus but I don't mind if its not.
Other than that, currently I'm just going for looks and interests.
Must have same interests (especially Japanaholic like me), hell Japanese would be a bonus but I don't mind if its not.
Other than that, currently I'm just going for looks and interests.
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My standards are medium the only thing I want in a date is a girl who respects me and is funny, I dont really care about appearances so if shes not some kind of monster or a mummy its fine.
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Circe wrote...
Intelligence is a must, but since this is subjective for everyone, I need it to be a very non-arrogant intelligence. I can't stand if a guy is condescending to others because he feels superior in smarts.This! It's incredibly offputting to be told how smart someone is by the person in question.
I prefer clever, funny people, but I'm sure most people prefer funny people. Graciousness is a more specific must. And a lack of mindless rage is good. A little bit of shyness at the start of a relationship is kind of endearing, but confidence is the goal and an attractive quality.
I've always sort of considered a major standard met when someone mentions something I consider cool and offbeat. Simon Pegg movies, a manga I read, a band I like.
Looks-wise: Dark hair, taller than I am, and good smelling, 'cause I'm shallow and driven by chemicals.
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Over the years, I've found that my standards have decreased dramatically. Granted, I won't go after everyone under the sun, but as long they can tolerate me, and I can tolerate them, I see no problem.
However, considering how I am sometimes, that in and of itself can be hard enough... don't ask me to explain. I don't feel like writing an essay.
However, considering how I am sometimes, that in and of itself can be hard enough... don't ask me to explain. I don't feel like writing an essay.
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She got to be smart. i will not go out with a stupid girl. we don't need more stupid people in the world. other than that cute and a little shorter than me.
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Anyone not to fat with an interest in anime will do. Either handsome or cute will do and I don't want them to be boring, shy, but spontaneous and funny. I know, my standards are probably too high. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while now....
Your standards are fine
The problem is you are so cute you intimidate guys with your cuteness
Its a Fatal Flaw I know but bear with it
One day your prince will come And you will just Melt
Pony
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jmason
Curious and Wondering
Kinda funny. I had standards (quite high) back in high school and college. I jokingly told my dad at one point I'll find somebody European at that time. It was a half-joked one - I was looking for class. If my standards were written as a song, it would sound like Depeche Mode's "Somebody", but with more lyrics.
But when I gave up on most of my ridiculous standards, that's when I met her. I still maintained my standards, but when I pared it down to a more realistic minimum, I realized that I was blinding myself and looking the other way. Most of it was what I just wanted.
And sometimes you find love that way... not all that you wanted, but usually what you really needed.
But when I gave up on most of my ridiculous standards, that's when I met her. I still maintained my standards, but when I pared it down to a more realistic minimum, I realized that I was blinding myself and looking the other way. Most of it was what I just wanted.
And sometimes you find love that way... not all that you wanted, but usually what you really needed.
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Well to be honest I dont really have a high standard I only look for 2 things in a girl 1st is a Nice personality and 2nd is a person who can listen to you and take care of you..Other than that I'll accept anyone. (Of course they have to be straight girls or Bisexual girls are good too).
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I'm looking for a guy who is a gentlemen, knows what he wants, smart, and shares similar intrests with me. I have yet to meet a guy like this. Since its taking quite awhile maybe I'll look for a boy-toy for the moment
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My ex makes fun of me saying I have low standards cause I've had boyfriends through my entire high school career. Except the thing is I've only had two "real" boyfriends through high school and one asshole that I'd like to remove his balls with a serrated spoon and lemon juice. Plus I'm still dating the second guy. So Ha!
Anyways...
The guy needs to just have common sense, not necessarily book smart but basic book smartness is nice.
They can't be clingy because I detest men like that.
Taller then me which is not hard because I'm 4"11
Not liking me just because I'm Japanese, bilingual, etc, but liking my personality.
Will tolerate massive amounts of energy. (I am over 9000!)
I love it when they have a goal and ignores me sometimes to do their own stuff <3 (ie. bf ignored me when I was at his house to build his new computer, with kisses and short cuddle break in between though)
Asks me to cook for them. I love cooking for people.
Preferably a brunette. Not too keen on blondes...I am fascinated with black people since I don't see them often. No comment of Asians
Is okay if I am not constantly talkative (I enjoy silence)
Is okay that I have a fascination with big butts....and boobs (yes I'm a girl)
Oh and my weird fascinations and humor must be accepted (ie. I like watching the rolls of fat on fat people jiggle when they move)
If you have man boobs that could possibly fit a A cup bra, I will not date you.
If he's good in bed that's a plus.
If he can keep on going after he came once, thats a double plus
Errm...I'm a sucker for blue eyes. (not necessary)
Oh! Not overly muscular
Also accepts girls.
But yes standards are good, but they really don't matter as longs as you love them, and they love you back about the same. (Though having amazing sex everyday is also very very good ^---------------^)
I guess I do have standards lol.
Anyways...
The guy needs to just have common sense, not necessarily book smart but basic book smartness is nice.
They can't be clingy because I detest men like that.
Taller then me which is not hard because I'm 4"11
Not liking me just because I'm Japanese, bilingual, etc, but liking my personality.
Will tolerate massive amounts of energy. (I am over 9000!)
I love it when they have a goal and ignores me sometimes to do their own stuff <3 (ie. bf ignored me when I was at his house to build his new computer, with kisses and short cuddle break in between though)
Asks me to cook for them. I love cooking for people.
Preferably a brunette. Not too keen on blondes...I am fascinated with black people since I don't see them often. No comment of Asians
Is okay if I am not constantly talkative (I enjoy silence)
Is okay that I have a fascination with big butts....and boobs (yes I'm a girl)
Oh and my weird fascinations and humor must be accepted (ie. I like watching the rolls of fat on fat people jiggle when they move)
If you have man boobs that could possibly fit a A cup bra, I will not date you.
If he's good in bed that's a plus.
If he can keep on going after he came once, thats a double plus
Errm...I'm a sucker for blue eyes. (not necessary)
Oh! Not overly muscular
Also accepts girls.
But yes standards are good, but they really don't matter as longs as you love them, and they love you back about the same. (Though having amazing sex everyday is also very very good ^---------------^)
I guess I do have standards lol.
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For me it's just a girl who is in shape that's a good person and that I could hold a good conversation with. :] Have preferences but it doesn't make or break things.
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Oneof8000men wrote...
They aren't terrible looking, around my intelligence, and they can make me laugh. I'm an easy going person so two of those criteria are pretty easy to meet.
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Pony wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
Anyone not to fat with an interest in anime will do. Either handsome or cute will do and I don't want them to be boring, shy, but spontaneous and funny. I know, my standards are probably too high. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while now....
Your standards are fine
The problem is you are so cute you intimidate guys with your cuteness
Its a Fatal Flaw I know but bear with it
One day your prince will come And you will just Melt
Pony
I hope so. ´.´
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Pony wrote...
Haburi-Chan wrote...
Anyone not to fat with an interest in anime will do. Either handsome or cute will do and I don't want them to be boring, shy, but spontaneous and funny. I know, my standards are probably too high. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while now....
Your standards are fine
The problem is you are so cute you intimidate guys with your cuteness
Its a Fatal Flaw I know but bear with it
One day your prince will come And you will just Melt
Pony
I hope so. ´.´
Lol yeah and that prince will melt once he finds out that Haburi's actually a tiger in bed. Ah, Fakku can be so educational sometimes..XD
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BLACK-Y wrote...
Not liking me just because I'm Japanese, bilingual, etc, but Oh well, better luck next time
Next stop, Korea
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My standards aren't too high, I don't think.
My general standards are for her to be...
educated
non-smoker
caring and considerate of others' feelings
honest/loyal
not too serious/laid back
hygienic (of course)
not over weight
Then there are the other things that are for my ideal desires in a woman; those include:
Sense of humor
Common likes (games, manga, anime, etc.)
Not stuck up/arrogant
And these are the extremely picky things that, if they aren't met, I won't be sad or anything~ :3
Straight, dark, long hair to run my fingers through
Nice lips (love glossy lips~♪)
Cute (like, personality-wise. Blushing, shy, etc.) :3
A nice sexual-drive is welcome too >///>;;
Hmm... pretty much picky things regarding her looks.
Umm... Maybe when looking at the picky thing.. one might think I'm too picky, but I don't need those things. Haha~ Really just the first category are what I look for~^_^
But I may still be a bit picky... >_>a
Iono.
My general standards are for her to be...
educated
non-smoker
caring and considerate of others' feelings
honest/loyal
not too serious/laid back
hygienic (of course)
not over weight
Then there are the other things that are for my ideal desires in a woman; those include:
Sense of humor
Common likes (games, manga, anime, etc.)
Not stuck up/arrogant
And these are the extremely picky things that, if they aren't met, I won't be sad or anything~ :3
Straight, dark, long hair to run my fingers through
Nice lips (love glossy lips~♪)
Cute (like, personality-wise. Blushing, shy, etc.) :3
A nice sexual-drive is welcome too >///>;;
Hmm... pretty much picky things regarding her looks.
Umm... Maybe when looking at the picky thing.. one might think I'm too picky, but I don't need those things. Haha~ Really just the first category are what I look for~^_^
But I may still be a bit picky... >_>a
Iono.
