What women consider 'sexy' on a man.

Hmm, so, gentlemanly, brainy, and muscular/well-toned. It seems women are just as picky if not more so.

We are picky, but with how many scummy jerks there are now, it's good to be picky. Not to mention the girls who aren't picky get called whores. There's a hard balance to find.

As for what I find sexy, it's really relevant to the guy, some guys look better in different styles of clothes, different attitudes suit each guy differently, and physical features are a combination, sure I like tall guys, but I've dated shorter guys with great smiles too. I've dated a guy who wore boots and band tees as well as a guy who wore collared shirts and nice shoes. To ask specifics, of course we will end up sounding picky. But when it comes down to it, my real preference is a man comfortable with himself, his style and has a pretty positive outlook on things. Confidence, not arrogance is appreciated. At the end of the day, if you just dress how you are comfortable, do what you enjoy, and behave in a manner you find respectable, you'll meet someone that fits with you. You can't force things or change yourself to be what a few women claim to find sexy.

I believe you forgot men who have money, I found it strange you would leave it out of your post! (lol all joking of course)

If men and women had expectations so high on both sides then nobody would ever get in a relationship since people often do not have every single thing on the long list of being picky on both sides.

just taking notes ladies sort of surprised and wondering why im still single maybe i dont have muscles or a Visible six pack but why isnt there what men find sexy in a women well cause it seems easy but we men are very much different you could say i dont really do much shopping for clothes so maybe im looking for a women who can help me be better in that aspect but other than that nice guys tend to finish last we just let it be(great album by the beatles although not as great of abbey road)fyi im 5"9

Incorrect. Sapiosexual is an attraction purely based on intellect or personality. She has physical traits that she likes more, braininess is just a long-term dealbreaker for a relationship. I.e. She'd probably have sex with a stupid yet attractive guy, but would only choose to marry an intelligent one.

Good hygiene, intelligence, and nice hair. That's pretty much it.

Yeeeeah I'm pretty much with you on that.

*Is taking a note from this* Ahem...

All woman are different just as all guys are different. Be yourself and attract what is 'sexy' to the both of you. Topics like this is what make the nerd begin to act like the jock because, in this case, its sexy.

*fans self* oh sweet I can apply my Otome game knowledge here!

I'm a fan of dark hair, height (178+ cm) and a trained body. I'm not talking a rippling abs (swoon) and bulging muscles and muscles within muscles. Suits are a favourite of mine. Semi-casual clothes gets me going too. I really really like ties as well. Tasteful clothes like a simple shirt and a pair of jeans is good enough. But it comes down to it, it really boils down to the face! Handsome guys ftw!

A confident guy who's not afraid to joke about being arrogant. The type who knows what he wants and will at least try to get what he wants. I hate wishy washy types who think they have to ask for permission for anything and just won't act on what they want. A playful guy who will joke around with me and just accept what I do is fine. They don't have to go make my hobbies their hobbies, but as long as they'll let me do what I want (maybe tease me a bit for it) is attractive.

Occasionally affectionate. Someone who's smart and can help me. If they can balance between being serious and playful with me, that'll be awesome. Most of all, they have to be FUN to be around. I get bored easily, and if they can keep my attention, they're a keeper themselves :D

Tl;dr tall handsome guys who are confident and fun to be around.

So do some women really like a guy that's hairy? I kind of have to admit I fit some of the popularly said aspects like being tall (I'm around 6'3) and I don't really have the straightest hair, but it's pretty long and voluminous. I don't know about the muscle tone though, most of the time I feel like my arms are quite thin lol.

I have to wonder the same thing. Personally, I find body hair in general to be unappealing. It's just...bleh.

Body Hair on a guy is an indicator of testosterone levels. [It's one of the hormones that triggers hair growth] Women like men to look like men, they just don't want to take your shirt off and see Sasquatch. A smooth back with a treasure trail/trimmed-but-moderately-sized patch of chest hair, and hair on arms and legs. HAIR, not LET'SBRAIDTHISSHIT. I also feel uncomfortable if a guy has no armpit or pubic hair. First off, your junk looks weird bald. It may look bigger, it also looks like a strange hairless alien. As long as I can find your testicles, and your bush doesn't get caught in my teeth, you're fine.

I'm not a fan of body hair personally. If I can actually run my fingers through arm pit/leg hair i'm running away.

This. Especially that part about pubic hair and armpits. LEAVE THE SHAVING FOR GIRLS. I'd even say that a little bit too much hair is better than shaving a bit too much.

I see. What about ass hair though. That shit can't be attractive.

It isn't. I try not to look.
Blindfolds.

xD oh god... poor Dia...

I died laughing then came back to laugh some more!