What would you do if you were the subject of "NTR"?

Jantias Datsan · 2011-09-28T08:13:52+00:00

Couldn't figure out how to word the title. I apologize for that... I'm also sure this kind of thread will be a sore spot for a lot of people... unfortunately, my curiosity will probably kill me at some point... From my understanding so far, "NTR" (netorare) happens when two people are in a loving relationship, then an interloper comes in and attempts to steal one of them away from the other... Now suppose you're in a relationship (if you're not in one already). You two have what you think is a strong bond between each other. Now here comes another person who's looking at you two... except this person is looking at YOU specifically. This person happens to be your perfect type, has all the qualities (and then some) that you've always wanted in a lover, seems better than your current lover in every single way. And now they've expressed interest in YOU. At its mildest, this person will befriend both of you and slowly convince you that he/she is better than the person you're currently with. At worst, they'll find a way to take you by "force" (blackmail, forced intimacy, etc...) and do everything they can possibly do to break you until you finally acknowledge that they're better than your current lover, causing you to break off your current relationship in favor of the interloper. When and how do you think you'll react? Do you think you'll be able to figure out what's going on before things get too far? And how do you think your lover will react if they can clearly see what's going on? Or what would you do if a friend comes in and tries to warn you (because that friend can see what's going on while the interloper has blinded you to their actions)?

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Jantias Datsan

14 years ago

Heh... I should've probably put in my own answer to this...

I would probably see it... whenever a woman shows attraction to me I feel uncomfortable. I'm pretty sure if I was already in a relationship that feeling would be more... pronounced. Then I'd gently shove her away (not literally) and make sure she knows I'm "not on the market".

Now if she were to kidnap me, find some "medicine" that turns me on against my will, then takes video evidence of us having sex then uses that to try and force me to break off my current relationship, I'd probably break at that point... I think most people believe that men only become erect when sexually excited, but I'm sure there are drugs that will do that even if the guy doesn't want it. And it would be very hard to convince her that it was forced...

Damienthedevil

14 years ago

Jantias Datsan wrote...

It's a physiological reaction. It doesn't only react to the girl you love. It reacts to hot girls. It a fact of nature no one can change it. You can only control yourself with reason and sound mind(Just pray it doesn't break under pressure.)

I have never been in a relationship yet so I don't really know but I doubt I'll go with that girl. If I'm satisfied with my gf, there's no reason for me to get seduced. I'll probably get erect but I doubt I'll have sex with her unless she ties me up or something. If she did, I'll seriously try and give her a piece of my fist(Don't like hitting women but sometimes ya just gotta do it!)

bebe4d3df0f10e749e5f07392

14 years ago

Not so long ago I guess it could have happened.It wasnt any guy that was trying or so(that would never happen),I just felt that if somebody would try to seduce me,I problaby would go along with it. Geez,I feel really guilty for having those thoughts.

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