What's your "deal breaker"?

Nasty attitude/personallity

smoking

anything else i can deal with.

i forgot that one. i tried it once, and having to think for yourself and the other person all the time gets very tireiing. i ended up abusing the power and manipulating her in worsening ways.

I can imagine.. but yes, smarts is one thing to have

- He does something so immature to the point is embarrassing me "purposely".
- I love guys with confidence, but if he wears a hat too big for his own good...
- Argue even he is wrong.
- Smells. I know is normal... But if he doesn't do anything about it. Like, shower, brush your teeth, etc...

And maybe others I can't think of now.

Overzealous in their morality, particularly with religious influence.

I had that conversation with someone before when we were together and brought up the idea of children. She was a devout Greek Orthdox, and I'm an Atheist. She said that was fine, but I told her that if we ever found ourselves together and having children that I would stand firm, that she would never force our children to go to church. If they wanted to go to church then fine, but they would never be forced to, and I would never go with them.

She never said anything to that. >.>

Also, even though people that smoke around me don't particularly bother me, I wouldn't want to date a smoker. I don't want to be exposed to smoke day in and day out, and if she is a chain smoker, she's got another thing coming if she's thinking she would spend an exorbitant amount of my our our money on smokes. Nah-uh.

Impotence
Intolrance
Bad Breath (crucial one)
Addicted to alchohol or drugs
Complains too much
Violence (with the exclusion of spanking)
Ignorance
No humilaty
Lying
Stuff along the lines of these I guess.

-Being overly sensitive
-When he/she talks to others about our relationship problems to others before speaking to me about it
-Disrespects my parents or friends
-Is not bluntly honest with me
-When they become whipped and have no opinion anymore(Hate that)
-Can’t give me space when I need it
-Is careless with money
-When they can't keep down a job/doesn’t have a job
-When they can't have intelligent conversations
-When they do drugs of any sort besides medication for illness
-Being immature
-Ignorance

Much more…

BIG one would be if they were discriminate against a group of people. ESPECIALLY against homosexuality, cause I like men to.
-discrimination
-insulting how i live
-cant cope with changes
-frivolous with money
-not.. smart enough
-doesnt like movies. seriously. who doesnt like movies?! i mean. what are you going to cuddle up to each other doing now? watching tv? yeah.. but that just lacks the same satisfaction to having finished watching a movie, and you cant just lay in each others arms for hours all the time, you can do it sometimes but not all the time. and i love movies. and anime movies. there are just too many things WRONG with not liking movies. if i found this out i'd try and change that. and if that didnt work. well. that'd probably be it. i cant see myself in a serious long term relationship with someone that doesnt like movies.
-poor hygiene and not willing to change (like really poor, eg. no showers for a week, same clothes 3 days in a row)
-trust issues (cant trust me, i cant trust them)
-tries to change me (not for the better, just the way they like)
-doesn't understand me at all, even after i try to explain
-too carefree or serious
-pretty much no extremes
and more, everyone's got more

-gossipy (like everyday allday)
-bad attitude
-giving me no space
-doesn't want to hang out with me
-liar
anything else is fine by me

~prejudiced (racist,homophobic, etc)
~abusive
~smoker
~disrespectful/hateful/mean

that's about all I can think of...

If she says she likes Nickelback.

I'm serious because I know it will be all downhill from there.

isnt open to the idea of living together or being together someday assuming things are going well between us.

im not really into short term stuff that just ends in the bedroom.

Well, since the topic is on "IDEAL PARTNERS" I'd say the deal breaker is... can't think of one at the moment.

i have a younger sister who's unfortunately very sickly,to cut the story short,no one care about her except me,so when i get a job and bought a house i decided to take her and take care of her sickness,most of my relationships ended because my exes said something like"why don't that bitch just die already,living together with her is hell",or "she's a real pain the ass for me",i don't mind if she talk about that directly to me,but sadly i heard that kind of words when my exes got a phone call or talking to her friends,i always explain the situation when i confessed or getting confessed to,that's why that kind of words is a huge DEAL BREAKER for me...

Bad temper. I get anxious very easily if people start shouting or even raise their voice a little, and living with someone who does that often would be impossible. I like them as calm and collected as possible.