Women and trust problems.

Ladies! What is the problem with you not trusting your man?

So the story goes I have been seeing this girl for for some time now.So one day we were going to go to the mall so she can blow through all my cash(typical woman).So anyways i went to her place to pick her up but when i got there she still wasn't ready to leave so i stuck around and waited for a hour or so.She has a older sister and the sister called me into her room so i can "fix her computer" so yeah you know me being a good guy i went to see whats up but it was a microsoft computer i don't know about those(APPLE BABY!).So i told her i don't know how to work it and she said fine and as i tried to leave she told me to wait up and she told me to hang out with her and to sit next to her on her bed.So i sat next to her and i told her "What do you want now?" Then she tried to grab me and kiss me i pushed her off me and i told her "What the hell is wrong with you?" and then i left and waited outside.After 15 minutes or so they both came out the house and i was like "Here comes the drama".What i least expected was "I completely trust you now" as it turns out my Gf asked her sister for help to see if i would cheat on her and that was their plan.

What offended me about this is how are you seeing somebody for sometime now and you don't trust them.WTF? I felt like a complete stranger to her like if i don't even know you anymore.

What is with women and trust problems?

I would of fail that test.. and had the makeup one a two parter. ^_^ Really... women are skeptical on the trust thing.. fucking tv and their girlfriends are the problem... if you believe your man is the cheating kind then your either to insecure to be in a relationship or your man is cheating.. but don't use a another woman to prove it.. lo jack his phone and catch him...
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I wouldn't so stuff to people i wouldn't want done to me.Her sister is quite tempting though.

This is a question I have wondered about too.
I've seen it a lot from one of my friends girlfriend and I don't know why she's always questioning him.

Hmmmmmmm seems you are saying "all the women I know = represents all the women of the world" here.

Not everyone is so distrustful. Some people give the benefit of the doubt.
In the case of your girl(friend?), either she:
-had some reason to distrust you (it's a two way street!)
-is just a little insecure and worried.

Sorry to hear that.

Congrats on not cheating

Some people naturally have trust issues, whether it be insecurity or terrible life experiences etc.

Honestly, this sounds like something I've read before. But ladies, go figure. Always confusing, hahaha.

I have reasons for my little trust in males, mainly ones I date. Every male seems to get worse and worse, It's too much to deal with..I can't trust them as much as I want to...maybe I should just stick to females v.v

As others have said, people have their reason. Not all girls are like that. (And not all girls take their boyfriends with them places to spend all their cash -__-)
She probably had reasons from past relationships that made her do so.
No matter how odd the plan was.

For one, I would never trust a man that thinks:

[font=Verdana][color=green]I don't like that. It's very sneaky, and her dishonesty is a cause of concern in my opinion. Sure, she trusts you - apparently - but what has she done to gain your trust? Good luck with that, but I think a lot of damage has been done by her crazy stunt.

OK let's break down the scenario you have described into bits!



Well, not all women want to "blow through all your cash". I'm sure if you firmly stated you are broke or don't have much or any money on you, they probably wouldn't attempt to milk you dry (or hang out with you for that matter...but that's only some women).



Here is where a problem can arise. Although I must admit that I have never been in this scenario that you have described, I would like to say that at the point where you pushed her away after she made a move on you, that might have made her feel inferior, "not good enough", etc. Also, the way you portray your attitude gives off negative vibes, which is another element in the cause of the problem.



Here is the fruit of your fallacy: the mistrust and conspiration between her and her sister. I can understand how you feel though since I believe I'd be pretty pissed off/annoyed from what you went through. However, keeping your cool should be a priority (and I'm not saying you didn't keep your cool either).



Things like this happens in relationships. If it happens too often, perhaps it's time to go your separate ways. Before splitting apart though, attempt to talk out what you want from her and ask her what she want from you. It is important to mend the loose ends of your relationships so no further problems arise.



An individual goes through a lot in their lifetime. There are some things that she may have gone through that may have affected her ability to trust others -especially in relationships- which was caused by either a traumatic experience, constant negativity, an event that may have altered her way of thinking, etc. We cannot always interpret what the other party is thinking about and when we ask, "What's wrong?" or "Whats the matter?", the other party may feel that they do not want to talk about it. Others however, may tell you directly how they feel and what they want.
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If this reply has somehow offended you in any way, then I'm sorry. My critique of what you have posted may be caused by a fallacy in what my idea of your situation is. Other than that, I hope I have helped in some way or have given you some sort of enlightenment that pertains to love/romance/relationships/etc. ^_^

Women have trusts problem, because usually they feel insecure about themselves in some little way. They think that we guys will find that flaw (sometimes not even there) and look for someone without it. Thus thinking we're conspiring against them and we only care about that little thing.

What'chu talkin' 'bout, Willis?

Sorry, I just HAD to.

Haha. Too bad Gary Coleman died. :/

I guess she don't trust me because for one stupid reason.Because i don't have a facebook yeah i don't have one nor do i need one.She thinks im "hiding something" from her. you know how many people share my name? Alot,that is how much.

My gf trusts me completely because I have been known that way by everyone and I trust her because I know she refuses to cheat.

I guess in the end you can't even trust yourself....*put's gun in mouth....BANG!*

IMO, what she did was very very stupid.. I'd have raged.
But also, I don't see why not having facebook makes you untrustworthy... You sure she's sane? /no offense intended