Worst... relationship... ever...
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Alright ladies and gentlemen, let's hear of your worst relationship that you've ever been in.
Mine was 3 years ago, I was engaged to a girl who I thought was the love of my life. We dated through my senior year of high school and she cheated on me within the first month, losing her virginity to some guy for some sort of "ritual"... I wasn't sure what to make of it though, so I forgave her when she came to me crying and begging that I forgive her. Like an idiot I let that red flag slide and we had a happy relationship until I left for the Army. We wrote letters back and forth and I called her the few times I was allowed the phone at basic. The entire time I was getting letters from friends that she was messing around Chris (this creepy fucker who honestly thought the "spirits of the Columbine shooters " lived in his head. I dismissed it at the time because why would my then fiance cheat on me with the trench-coat kid? I was given leave after basic before going to AIT and was going to surprise her by visiting after seeing my family. I went to the fair with my family and caught her there making out with him and later discovered they fucked in the restroom there. I broke it off with her and consider the whole affair a waste of my time... cheating bitch...
Mine was 3 years ago, I was engaged to a girl who I thought was the love of my life. We dated through my senior year of high school and she cheated on me within the first month, losing her virginity to some guy for some sort of "ritual"... I wasn't sure what to make of it though, so I forgave her when she came to me crying and begging that I forgive her. Like an idiot I let that red flag slide and we had a happy relationship until I left for the Army. We wrote letters back and forth and I called her the few times I was allowed the phone at basic. The entire time I was getting letters from friends that she was messing around Chris (this creepy fucker who honestly thought the "spirits of the Columbine shooters " lived in his head. I dismissed it at the time because why would my then fiance cheat on me with the trench-coat kid? I was given leave after basic before going to AIT and was going to surprise her by visiting after seeing my family. I went to the fair with my family and caught her there making out with him and later discovered they fucked in the restroom there. I broke it off with her and consider the whole affair a waste of my time... cheating bitch...
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Captain Kip wrote...
Alright ladies and gentlemen, let's hear of your worst relationship that you've ever been in. Mine was 3 years ago, I was engaged to a girl who I thought was the love of my life. We dated through my senior year of high school and she cheated on me within the first month, losing her virginity to some guy for some sort of "ritual"... I wasn't sure what to make of it though, so I forgave her when she came to me crying and begging that I forgive her. Like an idiot I let that red flag slide and we had a happy relationship until I left for the Army. We wrote letters back and forth and I called her the few times I was allowed the phone at basic. The entire time I was getting letters from friends that she was messing around Chris (this creepy fucker who honestly thought the "spirits of the Columbine shooters " lived in his head. I dismissed it at the time because why would my then fiance cheat on me with the trench-coat kid? I was given leave after basic before going to AIT and was going to surprise her by visiting after seeing my family. I went to the fair with my family and caught her there making out with him and later discovered they fucked in the restroom there. I broke it off with her and consider the whole affair a waste of my time... cheating bitch...
Oh damn.. that sucks so bad.. like.. I've never had anything that bad..
The worst I got was a girl that was practically self imploding and drown herself with drugs, booze, men and women. And then wouldn't let me save her.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Yowch. Tough luck brah, you can do better than that.
Mine was a girl called Hannah who I'd known for a while and we were good friends. We gave nicknames to each other, she was Dude and I was Dudette. She confessed to me, telling me that she had feelings for me and I reciprocated because I'd felt the same for a long time. We got to know each other on a more personal level by hanging out and stuff. After a few weeks, we made it official.
We were together a good 6 months (so it wasn't that long) and things were fine for the first couple of months, as any other new couple would be. But then it all started... she would start an arguement over the silliest little thing. She was convinced that what she said and thought, which was normally thinking the worst of me or anything that I said, was true even though there was no solid proof or evidence. For example, our first night together I was a bit shy of taking her clothes off because, well it's just how I am. I wanted to, I mean she was hot as hell, but she took it personally and thought I didn't see her sexually attractive enough to want to do anything and she ended up texting her ex all night that night, so I got pissed off with her and just went to sleep. Really killed my boner that did.
Few months down the line and umpteen amount of arguements, reassurances and makeups later, eventually she told me she wanted some time to herself, which I gave her. Fair enough right? A week passed and I check her Facebook - "Hannah is in a relationship with Jack", her ex. I was flabbergasted, she never even told me we'd broken up. I contacted her and asked her what the hell was going on and she told me she was pregnant with my child and was going to have an abortion without even telling me about it, adding that I wasn't there for her but Jack was. Even though she told me to give her some space. I really, really wanted to Facedesk irl.
She hasn't spoken to me since, she's still convinced that she hates me beause I wasn't there for her, even though I did try but she kept shutting me out. We did eventually make up, but now she's convinced she hates me again for the same fucking reason. According to her, she told a whole bunch of her friends about it, including her ex but by the time I was able to ask she "didn't want to talk about it anymore". She was basically able to tell everyone else except me, the person it concerns.
I'm going to shut up now before I get into a proper rage about it.
Mine was a girl called Hannah who I'd known for a while and we were good friends. We gave nicknames to each other, she was Dude and I was Dudette. She confessed to me, telling me that she had feelings for me and I reciprocated because I'd felt the same for a long time. We got to know each other on a more personal level by hanging out and stuff. After a few weeks, we made it official.
We were together a good 6 months (so it wasn't that long) and things were fine for the first couple of months, as any other new couple would be. But then it all started... she would start an arguement over the silliest little thing. She was convinced that what she said and thought, which was normally thinking the worst of me or anything that I said, was true even though there was no solid proof or evidence. For example, our first night together I was a bit shy of taking her clothes off because, well it's just how I am. I wanted to, I mean she was hot as hell, but she took it personally and thought I didn't see her sexually attractive enough to want to do anything and she ended up texting her ex all night that night, so I got pissed off with her and just went to sleep. Really killed my boner that did.
Few months down the line and umpteen amount of arguements, reassurances and makeups later, eventually she told me she wanted some time to herself, which I gave her. Fair enough right? A week passed and I check her Facebook - "Hannah is in a relationship with Jack", her ex. I was flabbergasted, she never even told me we'd broken up. I contacted her and asked her what the hell was going on and she told me she was pregnant with my child and was going to have an abortion without even telling me about it, adding that I wasn't there for her but Jack was. Even though she told me to give her some space. I really, really wanted to Facedesk irl.
She hasn't spoken to me since, she's still convinced that she hates me beause I wasn't there for her, even though I did try but she kept shutting me out. We did eventually make up, but now she's convinced she hates me again for the same fucking reason. According to her, she told a whole bunch of her friends about it, including her ex but by the time I was able to ask she "didn't want to talk about it anymore". She was basically able to tell everyone else except me, the person it concerns.
I'm going to shut up now before I get into a proper rage about it.
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>high school relationship
No offense, but right there is where I start to go "ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...". Sucks that it did not work out though.
No offense, but right there is where I start to go "ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...". Sucks that it did not work out though.
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gizgal wrote...
>high school relationshipNo offense, but right there is where I start to go "ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...". Sucks that it did not work out though.
Such is life I suppose, yeah it was a high school relationship, but I was a soldier and with thimyself leading towards the "I'm going to be deployed once I finish Ranger School( never ended up going) I was hoping for something permanent, I was foolish thinking I'd find it with her in the first place.
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Misaki_Chi
Fakku Nurse
Had a guy that (I didn't know when we started dating) broke up with his girlfriend to persue me. We had a great first week: played video games, went out to eat, etc... but then everything started to go down hill.
I was still a virgin at the time and was nervous about my first experience. I told him this, but he kept pushing me to have sex with him. I found out that he would tell all of his buddies that we were having tons of sex and that I was so crazy for him and his giant package (never did it with him, but package and gift were below average).
He was also a super jealous guy. He played sports and I would go and watch from the sidelines, some of his friends would talk to me. I never flirted or ask them to and we would talk about sports or videogames. He would get crazy mad at this and come up, grab me by the ass or kiss me to show that I was "his woman".
The worst part was when he told me to fuck off for saying he was cute, kinda like a puppy (didn't mean in the least bit to make it sound like I was calling him a dog)
In the end, he told me he was seeing another girl and broke it off with me because I was a bitch. All of this happend in the few days of our relationship, but I was glad that we only went out for a couple of weeks. If he hadn't broken up with me, I would have, because I don't take such crap from any guy.
I was still a virgin at the time and was nervous about my first experience. I told him this, but he kept pushing me to have sex with him. I found out that he would tell all of his buddies that we were having tons of sex and that I was so crazy for him and his giant package (never did it with him, but package and gift were below average).
He was also a super jealous guy. He played sports and I would go and watch from the sidelines, some of his friends would talk to me. I never flirted or ask them to and we would talk about sports or videogames. He would get crazy mad at this and come up, grab me by the ass or kiss me to show that I was "his woman".
The worst part was when he told me to fuck off for saying he was cute, kinda like a puppy (didn't mean in the least bit to make it sound like I was calling him a dog)
In the end, he told me he was seeing another girl and broke it off with me because I was a bitch. All of this happend in the few days of our relationship, but I was glad that we only went out for a couple of weeks. If he hadn't broken up with me, I would have, because I don't take such crap from any guy.
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My worst relationship was the first one I was ever in.
I'm putting it in a spoiler because it's kind of a messed up story, involves me at a young age, and is kind of a sensitive subject for me. Unspoil at your own discretion.
By the time the relationship finally tapered off into oblivion, we had 'broken up' a total of 6 times, each split never resulting in closure. By the 6th time, I was so emotionally and mentally exhausted that I gave up.
I'm putting it in a spoiler because it's kind of a messed up story, involves me at a young age, and is kind of a sensitive subject for me. Unspoil at your own discretion.
Spoiler:
By the time the relationship finally tapered off into oblivion, we had 'broken up' a total of 6 times, each split never resulting in closure. By the 6th time, I was so emotionally and mentally exhausted that I gave up.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
ouch, lolikittie or 'chan' that sucks, same with grav and kip.. feel sory for you all. D:
My worst would be my ex from highschool.
Her name was bec, she was really weird, and i wasn't really keen to go out with her, like, i just saw her as a girl that hung out near us, i didn't really like her that much.
Found out a girl there (not bec) liked me, and as soon as bec found out that the friend wanted to ask me out, she jumped over to me and was like 'do you wanna go out?' essentially.
I only found out she had dogged her friend after we broke up, but we went out for a while, during which time I was fixing my car in the auto room, (which was down stairs from where we hang) and i would try to get my car as close to finished every lesson, and any time i was free. I was down there fixing my car during lunch one day (I blew the headgasket, and was replacing it, which took ages for us to fix, since we didn't know where anything was, and it was a pain in the ass, being a front wheel drive) I needed to get it fixed asap, as I needed it for work, to get to school and all that jazz (cause my parents wouldn't be able to give me lifts to work and school all the time)
So anyway, was down there fixing the car, when i get a text from her saying 'Where are you?' i replied down in the auto room fixing my car 'Come up, I want to see you, i haven't seen you in ages' and being a school relationship we saw each other every recess, lunch, between classes and what not.... i replied back with 'we saw each other at recess, i'm fixing my car, sorry, but i need it done asap' and then she replied back with the usual really shitty 'fine, whatever' so i pretty much said fuck sake, closed up the car, locked it, locked the workshop and went up there, she was shitty with me, and I tried to talk to her, but she refused to talk to me for a while.
a few months later, we went to a friends 18th/house warming party, we got there, everything was fine, I told everyone i had to go early cause i had my parents barbeque to go to. Told bec that earlier that day i had applied for the army, y'know, only putting my name down, i was going to go in, do all the tests, see what i could do then hold it off till end of year 12 (assuming i still wanted to go) and she cut sick at me for it, for being selfish.. I mean, fair enough that i was being selfish (was completely out of impulse) but whatever, we talked it out, had some fun at the party, then i left at 9pm and went to the parents dinner.
Got to school the next day, and one of my friends from the party comes up to me and says 'Hey ben, i'm really sorry, but whilst you were away, bec cheated on you with three different guys' I was pretty pissed off, but after ruining one of my previous relationships by ending it after she cheated (she was a better ex) i stupidly thought i'd forgive her. Started talking to my friends about the previous night, and how nick got together with blah, and blah got together with blah in the shed, and blah spew'd. bec walks around the corner, hearing us laughing, comes to join in the conversation, and we mention something about how it was a funny night, laugh. then she storms off.
I walk up to her and ask 'whats wrong?' all i got back was 'HOW DARE YOU LAUGH AT ME FOR WHAT HAPPENED AT THE PARTY' and we hadn't, so i just replied with 'uh, we weren't. we were laughing at the fact ben got together with georgina in the shed' i chucked. she screamed at me again for it and said 'IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT FOR WHAT HAPPENED, I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE, IT'S OVER.'
And with that, I didn't really care less. she'd cheated on me three times in the space of an hour. all with my friends. so i couldn't care less. (it was highschool, so making out is what we considered cheating) forgave my friends, and just put it down to her being a bitch.
Later on, found out she went to a friends party and got smashed, claimed somebody was smoking pot, and called the cops. yada yada yada, long story short, she stopped going to lc and moved to newstead because of how everyone was treating her...
She came back at some stage and punch my friend (same one as above, whose party didn't have any pot at all, her parents are really religious, but anyway) in the back of the head, called her a lying slut, and ran off. her boyfriend being a timid shy guy was so pissed... he wasn't there when it happened but he was really pissed.
Anyway, later on confronted her (via text, so y'know) about the night, and how she cheated on one of my friends after going out with him, she said 'I would never cheat on somebody, people who know me personally know i don't do that' to which i replied 'I knew you personally, you did it to me, i know you cheated on me, and did it to people before me.' and what'd i get back 'you fucking deserved it you asshole'
and being the kind of guy i am, i treat my girlfriends (or i do my best to) really well. I love them, spoil them.
I'm pretty sure it doesn't top anybodies here, but it annoyed me... call me selfish, and whatever, but i just felt betrayed.
thas mine
My worst would be my ex from highschool.
Her name was bec, she was really weird, and i wasn't really keen to go out with her, like, i just saw her as a girl that hung out near us, i didn't really like her that much.
Found out a girl there (not bec) liked me, and as soon as bec found out that the friend wanted to ask me out, she jumped over to me and was like 'do you wanna go out?' essentially.
I only found out she had dogged her friend after we broke up, but we went out for a while, during which time I was fixing my car in the auto room, (which was down stairs from where we hang) and i would try to get my car as close to finished every lesson, and any time i was free. I was down there fixing my car during lunch one day (I blew the headgasket, and was replacing it, which took ages for us to fix, since we didn't know where anything was, and it was a pain in the ass, being a front wheel drive) I needed to get it fixed asap, as I needed it for work, to get to school and all that jazz (cause my parents wouldn't be able to give me lifts to work and school all the time)
So anyway, was down there fixing the car, when i get a text from her saying 'Where are you?' i replied down in the auto room fixing my car 'Come up, I want to see you, i haven't seen you in ages' and being a school relationship we saw each other every recess, lunch, between classes and what not.... i replied back with 'we saw each other at recess, i'm fixing my car, sorry, but i need it done asap' and then she replied back with the usual really shitty 'fine, whatever' so i pretty much said fuck sake, closed up the car, locked it, locked the workshop and went up there, she was shitty with me, and I tried to talk to her, but she refused to talk to me for a while.
a few months later, we went to a friends 18th/house warming party, we got there, everything was fine, I told everyone i had to go early cause i had my parents barbeque to go to. Told bec that earlier that day i had applied for the army, y'know, only putting my name down, i was going to go in, do all the tests, see what i could do then hold it off till end of year 12 (assuming i still wanted to go) and she cut sick at me for it, for being selfish.. I mean, fair enough that i was being selfish (was completely out of impulse) but whatever, we talked it out, had some fun at the party, then i left at 9pm and went to the parents dinner.
Got to school the next day, and one of my friends from the party comes up to me and says 'Hey ben, i'm really sorry, but whilst you were away, bec cheated on you with three different guys' I was pretty pissed off, but after ruining one of my previous relationships by ending it after she cheated (she was a better ex) i stupidly thought i'd forgive her. Started talking to my friends about the previous night, and how nick got together with blah, and blah got together with blah in the shed, and blah spew'd. bec walks around the corner, hearing us laughing, comes to join in the conversation, and we mention something about how it was a funny night, laugh. then she storms off.
I walk up to her and ask 'whats wrong?' all i got back was 'HOW DARE YOU LAUGH AT ME FOR WHAT HAPPENED AT THE PARTY' and we hadn't, so i just replied with 'uh, we weren't. we were laughing at the fact ben got together with georgina in the shed' i chucked. she screamed at me again for it and said 'IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT FOR WHAT HAPPENED, I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE, IT'S OVER.'
And with that, I didn't really care less. she'd cheated on me three times in the space of an hour. all with my friends. so i couldn't care less. (it was highschool, so making out is what we considered cheating) forgave my friends, and just put it down to her being a bitch.
Later on, found out she went to a friends party and got smashed, claimed somebody was smoking pot, and called the cops. yada yada yada, long story short, she stopped going to lc and moved to newstead because of how everyone was treating her...
She came back at some stage and punch my friend (same one as above, whose party didn't have any pot at all, her parents are really religious, but anyway) in the back of the head, called her a lying slut, and ran off. her boyfriend being a timid shy guy was so pissed... he wasn't there when it happened but he was really pissed.
Anyway, later on confronted her (via text, so y'know) about the night, and how she cheated on one of my friends after going out with him, she said 'I would never cheat on somebody, people who know me personally know i don't do that' to which i replied 'I knew you personally, you did it to me, i know you cheated on me, and did it to people before me.' and what'd i get back 'you fucking deserved it you asshole'
and being the kind of guy i am, i treat my girlfriends (or i do my best to) really well. I love them, spoil them.
I'm pretty sure it doesn't top anybodies here, but it annoyed me... call me selfish, and whatever, but i just felt betrayed.
thas mine
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Crap I feel for you guys, and guyesses(?) :(
I don't really have a story of my own but, hell I can relate so many of my friends to these kinds of stories.
I don't really have a story of my own but, hell I can relate so many of my friends to these kinds of stories.
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I've only had 1 relationship. She told me that told me she loved me, and we did everything that you'd see in an anime montage, and slept ( not sex) together and she held me tight to her, and then the next day act like nothing happened, and a day later tell me its over.
I've still tried dating but haven't gotten anywhere so far, but I've learned to take all this dating/gf stuff with a grain of salt and go by "{If I do get another relationship, if it happens, it happens". No big deal.
I've still tried dating but haven't gotten anywhere so far, but I've learned to take all this dating/gf stuff with a grain of salt and go by "{If I do get another relationship, if it happens, it happens". No big deal.
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Viktor Reznov wrote...
I've only had 1 relationship. She told me that told me she loved me, and we did everything that you'd see in an anime montage, and slept ( not sex) together and she held me tight to her, and then the next day act like nothing happened, and a day later tell me its over. I've still tried dating but haven't gotten anywhere so far, but I've learned to take all this dating/gf stuff with a grain of salt and go by "{If I do get another relationship, if it happens, it happens". No big deal.
Shit happens man, get yourself back out there and make some shit happen. Kaitlynn wasn't the last girl I dated, just pick yourself up and get back in the game. (I'm relatively drunk as it were)
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Grav: Don't worry, your karmic paycheck will be sizeable, my good lad.
Drifter: Pathological Liar, eh? I've met plenty of those. I may be a bit crazy myself, but I put it in the open, where it can be dealt with.
Take heart, not all of us are scheming, cheating bitches.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel!
Drifter: Pathological Liar, eh? I've met plenty of those. I may be a bit crazy myself, but I put it in the open, where it can be dealt with.
Take heart, not all of us are scheming, cheating bitches.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel!
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Lollikittie wrote...
Grav: Don't worry, your karmic paycheck will be sizeable, my good lad.Drifter: Pathological Liar, eh? I've met plenty of those. I may be a bit crazy myself, but I put it in the open, where it can be dealt with.
Take heart, not all of us are scheming, cheating bitches.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel!
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
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Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
I'm glad you found a good one. :3
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Lollikittie wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
I'm glad you found a good one. :3
Thanks ^^
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
What DOES her ex say of her, out of curiosity?
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Drifter995 wrote...
Lollikittie wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
I'm glad you found a good one. :3
Thanks ^^
Kudos my friend at finding something that has escaped me so far. I'm aware not all women are terrible, I just have bad luck is all.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
artcellrox wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^
What DOES her ex say of her, out of curiosity?
Lots of things.. Since we work at the same place (mags, me, and him) he elbows her, nudges her when he passes her (rudely) calls her useless, ignores her, says she's shit at her job.. stuff like that.
Pretty sure he's hell bent on breaking us up.. which he's doing a pretty terrible job at ><
I'm trying to get her to write a huge letter about all the bad things he's done to give to the boss (as the boss said write it down and i'll fix it) so yeah, with all these different things, he should get in either lots of trouble, or fired.. since he's pretty rude to customers, crew and is very disrespectful to everyone ><
Should mention, he thinks this because he feels she betrayed him, when from what i've heard (from an outside source talking to him and from her) she tried hard to please him, and he just ignored her and got pissy at everything.. dese things
