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artcellrox The Grey Knight :y
13 years ago
Drifter995 wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^


What DOES her ex say of her, out of curiosity?


Lots of things.. Since we work at the same place (mags, me, and him) he elbows her, nudges her when he passes her (rudely) calls her useless, ignores her, says she's shit at her job.. stuff like that.
Pretty sure he's hell bent on breaking us up.. which he's doing a pretty terrible job at ><
I'm trying to get her to write a huge letter about all the bad things he's done to give to the boss (as the boss said write it down and i'll fix it) so yeah, with all these different things, he should get in either lots of trouble, or fired.. since he's pretty rude to customers, crew and is very disrespectful to everyone ><

Should mention, he thinks this because he feels she betrayed him, when from what i've heard (from an outside source talking to him and from her) she tried hard to please him, and he just ignored her and got pissy at everything.. dese things


Meaning the douchebag types who think they can do no wrong. Get him fired. >:|
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4e241817a8032c2c792a336cc
13 years ago
Captain Kip wrote...
Viktor Reznov wrote...
I've only had 1 relationship. She told me that told me she loved me, and we did everything that you'd see in an anime montage, and slept ( not sex) together and she held me tight to her, and then the next day act like nothing happened, and a day later tell me its over.

I've still tried dating but haven't gotten anywhere so far, but I've learned to take all this dating/gf stuff with a grain of salt and go by "{If I do get another relationship, if it happens, it happens". No big deal.


Shit happens man, get yourself back out there and make some shit happen. Kaitlynn wasn't the last girl I dated, just pick yourself up and get back in the game. (I'm relatively drunk as it were)


I've done just that comrade. Part of the reason I'm moving to Texas, cause after about 3 years of trying where I'm at now, there's nobody in Little Rock that is right for me, so after I move in with my friend, I'm gonna start the search fresh.
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Drifter995 Neko//Night
13 years ago
artcellrox wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
I know this, I've met my fair share of liars and nice people. My current gf is definitely one of those lights at the end of the tunnel. despite what her ex thinks >.>
But yeah, I know not all women are schemers, liars or cheaters. ^^


What DOES her ex say of her, out of curiosity?


Lots of things.. Since we work at the same place (mags, me, and him) he elbows her, nudges her when he passes her (rudely) calls her useless, ignores her, says she's shit at her job.. stuff like that.
Pretty sure he's hell bent on breaking us up.. which he's doing a pretty terrible job at ><
I'm trying to get her to write a huge letter about all the bad things he's done to give to the boss (as the boss said write it down and i'll fix it) so yeah, with all these different things, he should get in either lots of trouble, or fired.. since he's pretty rude to customers, crew and is very disrespectful to everyone ><

Should mention, he thinks this because he feels she betrayed him, when from what i've heard (from an outside source talking to him and from her) she tried hard to please him, and he just ignored her and got pissy at everything.. dese things


Meaning the douchebag types who think they can do no wrong. Get him fired. >:|


pre-much. and will do man :D
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ToyManC Forgot my safe word
13 years ago
Years ago, I had a girl pursue me at my job. I was reluctant, because I'd had a bad work relationship before, but all my work friends kept pushing me to ask her out. Finally I did, and got her phone #. I called her, and we talked for hours so things were looking good. One warning sign, however, was when she brought up how a previous boyfriend had shot her during a bad break up. I was very understanding, and we made a date for the next weekend. When she asked to drive us to the restaurant, I agreed, and we went out to eat. During dinner, she was a different person from when we talked on the phone, or at work. She was almost abusive and critical, but the date went on since she was driving. As we drove, she began to tell me how she expected me to treat her, and how she would not take me getting out of line. She stopped the car at a light, and reached into the back seat pulling out a small hatchet and waving it under my nose. Needless to say, there was no second date. I understand that she had been hurt, but this is a bad way to establish a trusting relationship.

I have other bad stories, but this one is the worst.
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
ToyManC wrote...
Years ago, I had a girl pursue me at my job. I was reluctant, because I'd had a bad work relationship before, but all my work friends kept pushing me to ask her out. Finally I did, and got her phone #. I called her, and we talked for hours so things were looking good. One warning sign, however, was when she brought up how a previous boyfriend had shot her during a bad break up. I was very understanding, and we made a date for the next weekend. When she asked to drive us to the restaurant, I agreed, and we went out to eat. During dinner, she was a different person from when we talked on the phone, or at work. She was almost abusive and critical, but the date went on since she was driving. As we drove, she began to tell me how she expected me to treat her, and how she would not take me getting out of line. She stopped the car at a light, and reached into the back seat pulling out a small hatchet and waving it under my nose. Needless to say, there was no second date. I understand that she had been hurt, but this is a bad way to establish a trusting relationship.

I have other bad stories, but this one is the worst.


Yandere? Nice... I'll buy you a drink if you ever end up near Tampa Florida, I've had something similar although it ended with a ballpoint pen entering my shoulder and a t-shirt being ruined.
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ToyManC Forgot my safe word
13 years ago
Captain Kip wrote...
ToyManC wrote...
Years ago, I had a girl pursue me at my job. I was reluctant, because I'd had a bad work relationship before, but all my work friends kept pushing me to ask her out. Finally I did, and got her phone #. I called her, and we talked for hours so things were looking good. One warning sign, however, was when she brought up how a previous boyfriend had shot her during a bad break up. I was very understanding, and we made a date for the next weekend. When she asked to drive us to the restaurant, I agreed, and we went out to eat. During dinner, she was a different person from when we talked on the phone, or at work. She was almost abusive and critical, but the date went on since she was driving. As we drove, she began to tell me how she expected me to treat her, and how she would not take me getting out of line. She stopped the car at a light, and reached into the back seat pulling out a small hatchet and waving it under my nose. Needless to say, there was no second date. I understand that she had been hurt, but this is a bad way to establish a trusting relationship.

I have other bad stories, but this one is the worst.


Yandere? Nice... I'll buy you a drink if you ever end up near Tampa Florida, I've had something similar although it ended with a ballpoint pen entering my shoulder and a t-shirt being ruined.


Used to live in Clearwater, back in the day. Bummer about the stabbing, and the shirt, all I got was a threat and a scare. If I'd gotten stabbed, it probably have ruined my shorts as well!
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nintendo414
13 years ago
I feel bad because even though I do have a story to tell, I'm reluctant because after all this time I still don't know if it was all just a joke or just a terrible relationship. Spoiled for length.
Spoiler:
Like other, this was in high school, about spring of my sophomore year. I was a somewhat lonely very horny and shy 16 year old with no real experience in relationships. I had developed feelings for over 8 girls over the years but when I confessed was always rejected. I think it's because I automatically start developing feelings if some acknowledges my existence and doesn't treat me like crap. One day as I was talking to a so called "friend" of mine, I let it slip that I would do anything for a relationship, a girlfriend. My "friend" smiled her usual smile and said she might have someone for me. I made the stupid mistake of agreeing and the two met me before school in my little hovel below the stairway. The girl told me her name was Erica which struck a chord with me since a character of a story I was writing that I had shown to my "friend" not long before hand. I was, as expected, nervous about meeting her as my friend said she was an aspiring model and other had done beauty pageants or something of that caliber (It's been like 6 years ago or so, and I don't know if this was another lie, but more on that later..) She was quite beautiful in appearance compared to me I was way out of her league. I said hello and she responded and after a minute or two of talking she suddenly asked me out. Obviously I was surprised, with no doubt in my mind that maybe I could be liked by someone else. I said yes, but didn't really know what to do afterwards so we decided to meet at my house at take a walk to a nearby park. Before the school day ended I was in a mood that I never really experienced before. I felt happy, wanted, and alive for the first time. Later on I heard that a friend of this "Erica" was yelling at her for messing with someone's feelings. I was curious, but stupidly assumed she may have unexpectedly lead some other guy on and thought nothing of it. I decided to tell a few friends of a day where the good guy won. After mentioning the person and the name my friends were confused. They said her name was Ashely. I was confused but never pushed the issue because even I knew suspicion is a bad first date conversation. After school basking in a glow of a triumph I didn't really deserve I told my parent and got ready. When she arrived she let out a side that, if in any other circumstance, would make me incredibly happy(aroused) she started spouting out that she had kids, had a astigmatism in her leg and that I should raise her kid for her. I was confused, worried and had the weirdest experience in talking to someone in my life. She later would try to stick a large stick in my posterior and then in the mud saying I didn't wipe (sorry if too graphic). She then told me to go in the bushes and show me something ad I di then kicked me an screamed and I ran home. Mind you this was in front of her cousin and my "friend" in a public playground. I was terribly confused. Until the next day she threw an egg at me at school and said it was a lie and I'd never have a girlfriend.
Needless to say I never talked to my "friend" again and I have yet to have another "relationship" and find it hard to trust people. Sorry for the length, I'm gonna go cry now....
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ToyManC Forgot my safe word
13 years ago
nintendo414 wrote...
I feel bad because even though I do have a story to tell, I'm reluctant because after all this time I still don't know if it was all just a joke or just a terrible relationship. Spoiled for length.
Spoiler:
Like other, this was in high school, about spring of my sophomore year. I was a somewhat lonely very horny and shy 16 year old with no real experience in relationships. I had developed feelings for over 8 girls over the years but when I confessed was always rejected. I think it's because I automatically start developing feelings if some acknowledges my existence and doesn't treat me like crap. One day as I was talking to a so called "friend" of mine, I let it slip that I would do anything for a relationship, a girlfriend. My "friend" smiled her usual smile and said she might have someone for me. I made the stupid mistake of agreeing and the two met me before school in my little hovel below the stairway. The girl told me her name was Erica which struck a chord with me since a character of a story I was writing that I had shown to my "friend" not long before hand. I was, as expected, nervous about meeting her as my friend said she was an aspiring model and other had done beauty pageants or something of that caliber (It's been like 6 years ago or so, and I don't know if this was another lie, but more on that later..) She was quite beautiful in appearance compared to me I was way out of her league. I said hello and she responded and after a minute or two of talking she suddenly asked me out. Obviously I was surprised, with no doubt in my mind that maybe I could be liked by someone else. I said yes, but didn't really know what to do afterwards so we decided to meet at my house at take a walk to a nearby park. Before the school day ended I was in a mood that I never really experienced before. I felt happy, wanted, and alive for the first time. Later on I heard that a friend of this "Erica" was yelling at her for messing with someone's feelings. I was curious, but stupidly assumed she may have unexpectedly lead some other guy on and thought nothing of it. I decided to tell a few friends of a day where the good guy won. After mentioning the person and the name my friends were confused. They said her name was Ashely. I was confused but never pushed the issue because even I knew suspicion is a bad first date conversation. After school basking in a glow of a triumph I didn't really deserve I told my parent and got ready. When she arrived she let out a side that, if in any other circumstance, would make me incredibly happy(aroused) she started spouting out that she had kids, had a astigmatism in her leg and that I should raise her kid for her. I was confused, worried and had the weirdest experience in talking to someone in my life. She later would try to stick a large stick in my posterior and then in the mud saying I didn't wipe (sorry if too graphic). She then told me to go in the bushes and show me something ad I di then kicked me an screamed and I ran home. Mind you this was in front of her cousin and my "friend" in a public playground. I was terribly confused. Until the next day she threw an egg at me at school and said it was a lie and I'd never have a girlfriend.
Needless to say I never talked to my "friend" again and I have yet to have another "relationship" and find it hard to trust people. Sorry for the length, I'm gonna go cry now....


Loneliness is a heavy burden. It's a shame that some people make themselves feel good by making others feel worse. Unfortunately High School is full of such lowlifes. You should have spread a rumor that she gave you crabs!
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nintendo414
13 years ago
ToyManC wrote...
nintendo414 wrote...
I feel bad because even though I do have a story to tell, I'm reluctant because after all this time I still don't know if it was all just a joke or just a terrible relationship. Spoiled for length.
Spoiler:
Like other, this was in high school, about spring of my sophomore year. I was a somewhat lonely very horny and shy 16 year old with no real experience in relationships. I had developed feelings for over 8 girls over the years but when I confessed was always rejected. I think it's because I automatically start developing feelings if some acknowledges my existence and doesn't treat me like crap. One day as I was talking to a so called "friend" of mine, I let it slip that I would do anything for a relationship, a girlfriend. My "friend" smiled her usual smile and said she might have someone for me. I made the stupid mistake of agreeing and the two met me before school in my little hovel below the stairway. The girl told me her name was Erica which struck a chord with me since a character of a story I was writing that I had shown to my "friend" not long before hand. I was, as expected, nervous about meeting her as my friend said she was an aspiring model and other had done beauty pageants or something of that caliber (It's been like 6 years ago or so, and I don't know if this was another lie, but more on that later..) She was quite beautiful in appearance compared to me I was way out of her league. I said hello and she responded and after a minute or two of talking she suddenly asked me out. Obviously I was surprised, with no doubt in my mind that maybe I could be liked by someone else. I said yes, but didn't really know what to do afterwards so we decided to meet at my house at take a walk to a nearby park. Before the school day ended I was in a mood that I never really experienced before. I felt happy, wanted, and alive for the first time. Later on I heard that a friend of this "Erica" was yelling at her for messing with someone's feelings. I was curious, but stupidly assumed she may have unexpectedly lead some other guy on and thought nothing of it. I decided to tell a few friends of a day where the good guy won. After mentioning the person and the name my friends were confused. They said her name was Ashely. I was confused but never pushed the issue because even I knew suspicion is a bad first date conversation. After school basking in a glow of a triumph I didn't really deserve I told my parent and got ready. When she arrived she let out a side that, if in any other circumstance, would make me incredibly happy(aroused) she started spouting out that she had kids, had a astigmatism in her leg and that I should raise her kid for her. I was confused, worried and had the weirdest experience in talking to someone in my life. She later would try to stick a large stick in my posterior and then in the mud saying I didn't wipe (sorry if too graphic). She then told me to go in the bushes and show me something ad I di then kicked me an screamed and I ran home. Mind you this was in front of her cousin and my "friend" in a public playground. I was terribly confused. Until the next day she threw an egg at me at school and said it was a lie and I'd never have a girlfriend.
Needless to say I never talked to my "friend" again and I have yet to have another "relationship" and find it hard to trust people. Sorry for the length, I'm gonna go cry now....


Loneliness is a heavy burden. It's a shame that some people make themselves feel good by making others feel worse. Unfortunately High School is full of such lowlifes. You should have spread a rumor that she gave you crabs!


I had no desire to hurt that which hurt me. I just wish it didn't happen or that I lost my virginity or both lol.
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Lollikittie
13 years ago
I think the supposed Yandere-Lovers should pay close attention to this thread.

It looks so appealing until you're being held at hatchet-point.
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
Lollikittie wrote...
I think the supposed Yandere-Lovers should pay close attention to this thread.

It looks so appealing until you're being held at hatchet-point.


Or stabbed with a pen... that was a fun trip to the hospital...
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nintendo414
13 years ago
Lollikittie wrote...
I think the supposed Yandere-Lovers should pay close attention to this thread.

It looks so appealing until you're being held at hatchet-point.


You know, despite possible bodily harm, I wouldn't mind that lol.
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
nintendo414 wrote...
Lollikittie wrote...
I think the supposed Yandere-Lovers should pay close attention to this thread.

It looks so appealing until you're being held at hatchet-point.


You know, despite possible bodily harm, I wouldn't mind that lol.


Shit gets real different when you've got a pen sticking out of you and a hysterical girl both yelling at you and crying not to leave her at the same time... I will never fuck with a yandere girl ever again... it took 3 to learn this, but it looses it's novelty very quickly.
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Lollikittie
13 years ago
nintendo414 wrote...

You know, despite possible bodily harm, I wouldn't mind that lol.


I need a moment to recover from seeing that.

-deep breath-

Surely, you cannot be serious?

These are real-life occurrences. They're not a laughing matter. Knowing what behaviors to keep an eye out for could save your life.

Even if you were to meet an essentially non-violent yandere... It wouldn't be a healthy relationship. Trust me, kid. You would not be happy. Not for very long, anyways.
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
Lollikittie wrote...
nintendo414 wrote...

You know, despite possible bodily harm, I wouldn't mind that lol.


I need a moment to recover from seeing that.

-deep breath-

Surely, you cannot be serious?

These are real-life occurrences. They're not a laughing matter. Knowing what behaviors to keep an eye out for could save your life.

Even if you were to meet an essentially non-violent yandere... It wouldn't be a healthy relationship. Trust me, kid. You would not be happy. Not for very long, anyways.


There is wisdom to take away from this. Trust me it's nowhere near worth it.
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Lollikittie
13 years ago
I didn't want to have to say this.

I am a legit Yandere. I'm extremely passive about it, but the underlying mental facets are there.

I've had plenty of time to realize the behaviors and responses within myself that are unhealthy, and I'm working very hard to correct them, in order to achieve a genuine and lasting happiness.

But you know what?

It's not fun for me, and it's not fun for my significant other.

It's difficult. It sucks.

It causes fights. It causes drama. It ruins social lives. It's all rooted in insecurity, and insecurity is the bane of trusting, functional relationships.
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
Lollikittie wrote...
I didn't want to have to say this.

I am a legit Yandere. I'm extremely passive about it, but the underlying mental facets are there.

I've had plenty of time to realize the behaviors and responses within myself that are unhealthy, and I'm working very hard to correct them, in order to achieve a genuine and lasting happiness.

But you know what?

It's not fun for me, and it's not fun for my significant other.

It's difficult. It sucks.

It causes fights. It causes drama. It ruins social lives. It's all rooted in insecurity, and insecurity is the bane of trusting, functional relationships.


You get rep for being honest, trying to talk sense into that guy and for realizing your imperfections in your nature and working to fix (for lack of a better term) it. Good luck and whatnot.
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Lollikittie
13 years ago
Captain Kip wrote...


You get rep for being honest, trying to talk sense into that guy and for realizing your imperfections in your nature and working to fix (for lack of a better term) it. Good luck and whatnot.


Thank you. I just hope the guy listens.

I'm so not going to reply if he posts a thread here in LRR, asking for advice on how to deal with some crazy bitch he decides to date. x.x
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Yukito-kun
13 years ago
Lollikittie wrote...
Captain Kip wrote...


You get rep for being honest, trying to talk sense into that guy and for realizing your imperfections in your nature and working to fix (for lack of a better term) it. Good luck and whatnot.


Thank you. I just hope the guy listens.

I'm so not going to reply if he posts a thread here in LRR, asking for advice on how to deal with some crazy bitch he decides to date. x.x


I will, bob and weave, sharp objects are to be avoided, blunt instruments too, everything that can be a weapon will become one, and work on your cardio, you'll need it.
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VGuy
13 years ago
My worst relationship was unfortunately also my first.

I was 19, met a girl at the arcade and we hit it off. It wasn't a courting relationship per-se, more like a "I wanna kiss ya right now" kind of thing. Thinking back, we barely knew anything about each other besides our names, but sometimes biology outweighs reason. We had a pretty nice few weeks, but I started noticing weird behaviors in her. I was in my freshman year of college and she was a senior at her school. She would actually cut class to come look for me at campus, since I didn't have a cellphone at the time. She somehow got a hold of my class schedule, and would sometimes bring a posse of her friends to "show me off" it seemed.

I would tell her that my time at campus was for studying and that she should focus on finishing school. At first she seemed to understand, but things just got weirder. I talk to a lot of women, mainly because I enjoy female company, but was loyal to her. She confronted me one day in tears as to why I was around women so much and not with her. She literally forbade me to see any other females except her. I told her that no one could ever limit my relationships and to calm down. She started calling my home around the clock, wanting to see me at all hours, actually tracking down non-mutual friends of mine in case I was at their house. It got so bad that I put my foot down and broke it off; she didn't take it very well. I had to hide out for about a week before her incessant pursual finally died down. About a week after she had a new boyfriend she seemed to like, we made our peace and went our separate ways. About a month later I heard she was pregnant with twins. Sad really, since she had a full-ride scholarship to Germany for scholastic achievements.
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