Yeah... So my girlfriend.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
masharra wrote...
1ST POSTIT IS A TRAP.
There are a lot of ramifications to such an act. If you seek longterm relationship with (gf) beware.
Most men would love a 2some but unfortunately (and realistically) :( Most men seldom fully satisfy one female and yet seek two?
Also there is a BIG difference between agreeing to, and actually doing.
Her dislike of pron in general is most likely her wanting to be the sole supplier of pleasure in your life. *sexual at least*
her acceptance is most likely her presuming you would never find such a woman.
Unfortunately if you do find such a woman, you may "MAY" enter women are crazy territory.
Believe it or not but the worst thing wouldnt be her nixing it before the threesome.
As for the satisfy one but want two comment that is drawn on my stamina and such, If you are Zeus go right ahead, but i'd hate to finish one and "johnny" calls it quits.
This..
It's a trap.. or if not, she's saying it purely so you get off the porn.. if you do find a girl, and you all have sex, she's going to worry that the two of you (being you and the other girl) will be out fucking all the time..It's not going to end well for you.. Don't do it, agree to not looking at porn (unless you can convince her that you are practicing so you can make her feel better in bed ) i can't see any good coming out of this... It's like my friend whose boyfriend cheated on her, and told her to cheat on him in return.. she did it, and all it did was ruin their relationship.. it's things like this where you put your man badge on and pick up the girl, say 'I don't need another woman, you're all i'll ever need' and pop her in bed for a passionate night of loving.
Seriously, don't fall for the trap.. it'll only land you in a huge pile of problems and shit.. not to mention if the other girl eventually finds you attractive and then tries to fight with your gf for you... many bad things can come from it if you aren't lucky
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DeathPlox wrote...
So my girlfriend hates it when I look at hentai or watch any porn but she agreed to have a threesome if I get another voluntary chick. Help, I am confused.You should be thankful I don't come to where you live and choke your ass out : /
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If you got a girlfriend you should not be jerking to porn. The only exception is if she is being a bitch and is withholding sex from you.
Also here is my dilemma about threesomes: too many holes not enough things going in them. too many boobs not enough hands, and so on.
Personally to me it would seem more satisfying to do it with one girl.
Also here is my dilemma about threesomes: too many holes not enough things going in them. too many boobs not enough hands, and so on.
Personally to me it would seem more satisfying to do it with one girl.
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artcellrox wrote...
kitty93 wrote...
Uhm. Like ^He said. She wants you to jack of to her and with her.
That you choose a real girl before your porn.
And she's even willing to do a threesome if you leave porn aside? D:
WITH AN OTHER GIRL?
Thats a signal. Stay away from your computer sir.
I'm with kitty on this. If you don't take her up on her offer, then as a man...
Now, close the browser, get off your computer, and find a bitch willing to fuck you and your girlfriend! MOVE IT, LAZY ASS!
If you haven't done so already, I suggest you take that advice.
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Thanks for the replies lol. Regarding my stamina... Yeah she always ends up being able to finish before I do, so I just have to wack off after shes done -_-. She told me I have a ridiculous amount of stamina so Ill take her word on it... but yeah, Im laying off of the porn cause shes insecure about it and I like anything that makes her insecure even if it IS porn. She told me hentai was ok though. We compromised cause in the beginning shes was like no porn OR hentai. She sometimes wonders if I have ever had sex before with another chick (I was the virgin in the relationship although I broke the rest of her hymen cause the first guy she did it with had a small dick).
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DeathPlox wrote...
Thanks for the replies lol. Regarding my stamina... Yeah she always ends up being able to finish before I do, so I just have to wack off after shes done -_-. She told me I have a ridiculous amount of stamina so Ill take her word on it... but yeah, Im laying off of the porn cause shes insecure about it and I like anything that makes her insecure even if it IS porn. She told me hentai was ok though. We compromised cause in the beginning shes was like no porn OR hentai. She sometimes wonders if I have ever had sex before with another chick (I was the virgin in the relationship although I broke the rest of her hymen cause the first guy she did it with had a small dick).Unfortunately I find most women are no judge for stamina.
90% (made up percentage) lay on their back so they dont need to worry about it.
Two- i wont change topic but lasting longer isnt always best. As with all women there is a fine and variable line between long enough and ages.
Do NOT lay off the porn because she is insecure about it. Thats a bandaid solution. Bandaids ALWAYS come off.
"She sometimes wonders if I have ever had sex before with another chick (I was the virgin in the relationship although I broke the rest of her hymen cause the first guy she did it with had a small dick).["
absolutely irrelevant.
Finally get her ass a dictionary. If im not mistaken Hentai would be classified under PORN. I dont know why but your gf is angering me.
lay off the porn temp*MAYBE* then work her into seeductive things, watch eyes wide shut, movies with sensual scenes etc.
If you choose to continue to apply this "bandaid" beware you may find more and more things needing bandaids.
As horrible as it sounds sometimes is perfectly ok to say " Im doing this! I love you! Accept me for who I am!"
Or just simply tell her if she is willing to do it any tiem you would have normally fap to give you head.
Dont take any extra cleaning procedures. be normal, wake up 3 am and demand a bj, no cleaning up nothing. She will get the point after a while. i ramble and dont understand what i wrote
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Firstbornnyc wrote...
lol she probably gay on the low and wanna fuck another chick and get away with it.Oh lol. :D
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Sounds to me like you and your girlfriend have yet to completely work things out. She's insecure, to an almost extreme extent in my opinion, and you can't seem to get off enough with her to the point where you need to remedy the situation with porn/hentai. Not to mention a few other things. I'd sit back when I got the chance, and think long and hard (no, I'm not making a pun) about things, because it's bumps in the road like these you need to find a serious solution to.
That's just my opinion, however.
That's just my opinion, however.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Alex~kun wrote...
Sounds to me like you and your girlfriend have yet to completely work things out. She's insecure, to an almost extreme extent in my opinion, and you can't seem to get off enough with her to the point where you need to remedy the situation with porn/hentai. Not to mention a few other things. I'd sit back when I got the chance, and think long and hard (no, I'm not making a pun) about things, because it's bumps in the road like these you need to find a serious solution to. That's just my opinion, however.
No, that does make perfect sense.. This guy seems to have the right idea..
Mainly quoted for truth :3
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The Admiral says, "It's a trap!"
if she doesn't like you looking at porn, going out and finding another real girl will be her proof that you will cheat. furthermore, it will be her fodder for arguments for the rest of your life. the fact that she told you to is irrelevant, "you should have known better".
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
I hate to point this out but since someone mention the friend's thing... maybe your penis isn't what she wants but.. she trying to make it fun for you and her.
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Alex~kun wrote...
Sounds to me like you and your girlfriend have yet to completely work things out. She's insecure, to an almost extreme extent in my opinion, and you can't seem to get off enough with her to the point where you need to remedy the situation with porn/hentai. Not to mention a few other things. I'd sit back when I got the chance, and think long and hard (no, I'm not making a pun) about things, because it's bumps in the road like these you need to find a serious solution to. That's just my opinion, however.
Yeah we got things to work out still, but I dont consider her disliking me watching porn as a sign of extreme insecurity. I can imagine why she doesnt like it, I mean I am looking at other chicks' naked bodies here. Either way, we still need to work things out and I wont be trying to find a threesome any time soon. I dont really need it anyways.
animefreak_usa wrote...
I hate to point this out but since someone mention the friend's thing... maybe your penis isn't what she wants but.. she trying to make it fun for you and her.Hahaha no she definitely likes it :) I know at least that much about her.
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sorry im sleepy at the moment. maybe shes into girls? and its just an excuse to have a non-cheating moment with one?
i dont see why to get insecure about porn or hentai though... i mean sure they can be hot but i dont think it can beat a hot chick in bed. hell, i actually encourage him to look to get a bit more corrupted and have a few more ideas hahahahaha
i dont see why to get insecure about porn or hentai though... i mean sure they can be hot but i dont think it can beat a hot chick in bed. hell, i actually encourage him to look to get a bit more corrupted and have a few more ideas hahahahaha
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Spoiler:
TLDR: You two need to have a nice long, heartfelt chat, before any decisions are enforced.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Lollikittie wrote...
Spoiler:
TLDR: You two need to have a nice long, heartfelt chat, before any decisions are enforced.
This girl (i think is girl) has the right answer too.
MORE REPS, REPS EVERYWHERE I SAY *throws rep out the window, into the cupboard and into sisters room*
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ToyManC
Forgot my safe word
It seems to me, that your girlfriend simply wants you to show her that she is more important to you than porn. Coming from a relationship where I was constantly being tested, I recognize the situation. I believe she is just waiting for you to tell her that she is all the woman you need, and then drop the whole threesome issue. If she gets jealous of your attention to porn and hentai, you can be sure she will not want to share you with another woman (especially a woman YOU picked). If you value this relationship, I would recommend setting aside the threesome idea until you are more sure of her real feelings on the topic. If she brings it up again, after she is reassured of your giving up porn, then - maybe. Hope this helps.
