Your approach on the one you like

i used to be shy but lately i'm a steady guy.

[size=10]I'm pretty painfully shy. I should really be over it by now seeing as i'm 24, but I have a pretty intense fear of rejection >_o unless i'm 100% sure the other person is interested as well, I probably won't say anything to them, and even then I usually wait for them to make the first move.[/h]

I was all like....
HI I'm grimmwolf!
You very pretty, we have sex now?
I awoke several hours later in a daze...

I try to make a good first impression, but I try not to become to familiar so I don't fall into the permanent friend zone.

there have been times that I have talked to a girl I genuinely liked and, been too stupid and didn't notice that she liked me until it was too late.

...epic blue falcon, on my part.

I've officially given up on this kind of thing. It's not worth my time anymore.

Steady, I think. A bit more friendly than normal, and perhaps a tiny bit more flirty, but not too different from my normal behavior. Which has its pros and cons.

I think if you're not straightforward, people won't take you seriously.

i find it better to be steady. Being straight forward may scare people off, or if you don't know whether the person likes you or not, you may get rejected..
As you can probably tell, i'm shy to steady.. if i don't know the person well, or don't hang out with them much, i'll be shy, but if i know them and hang out with them and what not, i'll be steady.

By steady I meant:

1. "Hi!"

2. Take down my pants.

3. Open my hands "wanna fuck?"


I have a huge penis, so maybe this only works on me >

I dunno, my friends helped me get together with my gf in such a comical manner.

I am definitely a no bullshit, straightforward kind of guy. I make a point of being assertive, and exerting confidence. When I like something, and if I want it bad enough, I will do everything possible to get it. It just involves being tactful, knowing what it is that the person you are interested likes in someone, and enhancing those traits in yourself so that you are appealing to her. Humans are really amazing at being flexible with their personality traits if they want to be.

I give hints, like gazing over them for a little too long so that they notice, then usually smile a little and turn my head away or look down. If I know the guy, it's hard for me to not to start a conversation and eventually blurt out that I like him >__>

im a super shy guy if it comes to a girl i would go out with. but if i just want to hit im straight forward.

I have a shy personality but when I like someone I push myself to go for it. I usually start slow in getting to know a person then I just go for it and confess! It hasn't always worked but when it does it feels good...

I'm going with the Steady/Shy Approach.

So far I'm not having luck. .

I'm fresh out of high school so this wasn't that long ago(2-3 years give or take). Well anyway, as I grew up, if I had friends or relatives who liked someone I would act as a messenger to say,"hey _____ likes you,here's their phone." I soon realized it was not that easy to do for myself... Around 5th-6th grade I started to like this boy, never had the courage to even talk to him, by high school I think he thought I was stalking him...:( But around the same time one of my friends confessed to me(it ended with him crying, calling me "a cold hearted bitch") Two days later I saw a picture a friend had, got a phone number, and went on my first blind date with my boyfriend of now 3 years this October. I guess the moral of this story is: love will find you, just don't force it.

In the past heavily shy but nowadays its shy/steady. I still have that fear of being rejected, but also I realized that I can't have that fear looming over me forever. A person can go only for so long before they get tired of nothing changing in their love life...

I'm not entirely sure what I am. There have been times I was fairly straightforward and "pushed" the relationship because I felt confident that she was just as interested in me as I was her. Yet, other times I've been so shy that I completely let the girl make all of the first moves.

I guess I just try to do my best to look at the situation, look at the signs. I think a lot of it depends on the personality of the girl and how it relates to mine. Ironically enough, the more strong-willed the girl the more likely I am to try to push it (assuming she is not.) While if she is shy and somewhat introverted about it then I tend to be as well.

Shy. 100% shy. The description is exactly how I am. I know I'm a coward, but I like keeping my friends and I'm really fearful of making things awkward. T^T Plus they never seem to have any intimate interest in me, so yeah...

I think I would probably be in a steady category. I'm pretty old fashioned, that or I'm not eager to date (when single), so I've never actively looked for a partner.

Had I not told Fpod I was going to move to a state to a certain college, and he tell me that he lived close by - we probably would still be internet friends ;p

I've always been comfortable being single, that being said - I do quite enjoy a steady serious relationship.