Your Dream Partner

I had a girl I was infatuated with since the age of 10 (been a few years since im over 20 now). I put her on such a pedalstool, for me she was perfect in everyway, I like everything about her 100%. but i never got to marry her, I tried to though, but shes married now (damn arranged marriges) and I don't talk to her :(.
So lesson is kids don't do it to your self its not worth it!!

I'll never find a dream partner...ever. That is because of two reasons and two reasons only:

1) I don't like being touched physically
2) I have high standards


My standards:

-The woman has to be my equal in regard to attitude and values.
-The giving and receiving aspects of the relationship must be mutual.
-We have to be able to tolerate each others faults and reward the strengths.

Basically, I want a relationship with no conflict, but conflict is a natural thing in any kind of relationship. If there is no conflict, then it just isn't a healthy relationship.

what why do you think that if there's no conflict the relationship isn't healthy? i disagree you can probably find someone who doesn't need to get into a fight to reason with you or is ready to compromise when necessary. theres enough nice prople in the world.

i dont have a dream partner. actually i dont have dream anything. i prefer to not set any standards but try to take things as they are. it doesnt always work but when it does it's effective against disappointment or euphoria.

I highly value loyalty, and it's a shame that hardly anyone does. the worst part about this is loyalty can't be known until it's too late. As long as the focus of the relationship is to benefit yourself, It will never last; only when the focus of a relationship is to benefit the partner will it last forever. I just need to find someone who understands this

I imagine there probably is one but I'll either A: never find her or B: lose her to someone else. A lose-lose situation for me.

A cute girl!

I have pretty high standards regarding looks, but if it was to be possible, I like to meet a girl (like someone I knew before) who is almost the exact opposite of me, optimistic, outgoing, positive, etc. or at least someone I would really get along with (disregarding my nihilistic and misanthropic views inside). And looks DO matter to me, she can't be fugly and has to at least have an above decent face, just to be honest.

[font=comic sans ms]No I don't think it will happen. I can't see why a guy like my dream partner would be interested in me. He'll only exists through fantasies.

is it because you're a trap?? ha ha....that aside what an unsatisfactory answer!!! why do you think so is he that special?

[font=comic sans ms]Haha~! Not at all!xD

I realize that my standards were too high for anyone to actually exists that mold, I would be asking too much to find or to hope for. I'm fine with dating more "average" partners.

So wait, you're gay?

[font=comic sans ms]False.

I am a female.

So you're straight?

Well putting looks aside (since I dont really care that much about them either way as long its not something that really bothers me which is rare, also my type is hard to find), I guess someone really loyal, smart, strong willed, interested in culture, music, art and literature, caring, straight-forward, a little jealous and someone really serious about the relationship will do... I hate it when people are half-assed about their personal life since it proves that they dont really care and just go with the flow. As usual not all of these factors must be met but a majority would be nice, some of them otherwise as loyalty and seriousness are obligatory.

yes but meeting someone exactly like the dream partner will be hard

Having fun has become one of the more important traits for this person, yes.

Not some bland boring obvious person.

One day I will be able to go into the 2D world and be with my beloved 2D girls!

I don't think that I will find him.
Buttttttt
Has to be a tease at times but have a good heart. Someone who likes anime and can laugh easy would be nice. I’m pretty shy so maybe a guy who doesn’t mind that, ha-ha.
I like doing a lot of activates so someone who would like to do them with me would be a nice outcome. Oh, someone who hasn’t had their first kiss yet. If they had glasses then that would be just great… then when we kiss our glasses will clink! <3

I'm a hopeless romantic but I never pictured certain features to the person I want to be with. I figure it'll happen if it happens and it won't if it wont. Honestly none of my relatives ever stayed married or got married in the first place. So to find someone that would be with me for the rest of my life would be enough ideally. However, when it comes down to it I'm picky with looks and intelligence, that's just how I am. I don't have certain looks i'd like more than others or a specific field they have to be intelligent in. Hard to explain I suppose.

Hmm I can't really narrow it down to something short and simple, but for now, my life revolves around my obsession with anime, manga etc. So I need a dream partner you likes all the exact same anime as me, and likes the idea of cuddling together and watching and later discussing it, and yes it has to be someone how likes all the same things as I do, no room for disagreement, its dream partner right? So I can make up impossible to meet criteria >_>.