Your Type

Hello, I'm making this to get to know more about you guys/girls here on Fakku ^_^

So I'm curious about your types in men/women, what do you look for in someone when you like them.

Personally I am a bisexual, and I don't have a better opinion on sexes, whether you are male or female, but I suppose I do look for other things in a guy rather then a girl. I've actually never been in a relationship so I suppose these are things that I just try and notice, so I haven't been able to "trial and error" my interests. I don't really have a bar set because of that, so these interests don't ultimately define what I'm looking for haha.

A couple things for both genders would be that they do need to have a good sense of humor, they can't be to uptight where I'm going to be afraid to make a joke every now and them. Also being adventurous is always good, especially if you can talk about zombies, or role-play. Haha =p

Also I'm not shallow enough to care just about looks and choose whether or not I like you anymore by how you look, but I would say that it is a plus, but not a massive definer. Weight I'm a little iffy on, obese is out of the question, but i don't mind if your a little overweight. I do like it better if your healthy/ in shape though ^_^
And I kind of feel that if your a guy you should be a bit more fit, I'm not really sure why I think this but yea haha. Girls are kind of the same as well, but its a different opinion in my case I guess haha.

Lastly, no matter what, if you watch/read, Anime, Manga, Hentai.... so basically anyone on FAKKU haha, you have a huge plus in my book.

I'd love to hear about your interets and/or what you look for in the opposite/same sex. ^_^
Thanks <3

i don't really have a type. i just prefer small beasts and the intelligences of a normal woman.. no mtv whores. I also like femeine men... traps and cross dressers... twinks and sissies.

Thats always nice ^_^ haha, I do like traps and cross dressing as well. Also a man having feminine side is always nice ^_^ I came across the "Tomboy" tag today thats nice, but trap is always a good choice for me =)

tomboy is the only word that'll describe my type

where do i start...
-Must be intelligent enough to: A) understand my humour B) not piss me off with how dumb they are (i get annoyed easily with stupid people :/ ) C) do things without asking questions 99% of the time going 'i don't know what i'm doing' and whinging... ok C) was more to do with work, not types.. but it works either way..
-Must be nice.. I don't mind if you have mood swings occasionally... but if you are a massive bitch to me, my family, my friends/ people i like.. you're gone.
-looks are a plus. You know what they say: Looks bring you in, and personality keeps you there.
-Must either have a job, or have some form of income (centerlink is fine, provided they are looking for a job, and won't whinge about it)
-Must be money wise/ not spend all my money.
-would prefer it if they had a license.. it's always a plus..
-must be supportive of my sports/ hobbies.. i will support my gf on her hobbies and sports, so i don't see why they shouldn't.
-must NOT smoke. I HATE smokers... i find it a dirty habit, and do not want my gf to smoke.. ever...

there is probably more..
All in all, my current gf fits the bill nicely :3

@ caiyue,what do you like about tomboys? ^_^
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@ Drifter995 that sounds nice, I understand the no smoking, thats is a bad habit, I did use to smoke, then I quit, it wasn't really doing anything for me, it was really just a social thing haha. But it sounds like you have someone that makes you happy and that can fill your expectations ^_^ so thats always good <3

nice. They've got to be nice. Understanding. Nice eyes, I'm not talking 'oh look at that person's eyes, they must be a nice person' more like, 'you're eyes a really beautiful..' kinda thing. (though, stare deep enough into anyone's eyes and you'll find them beautiful). A nice smile too..
Happy. with me. about something.
Has to have problems. Past or present. This one sounds a bit weird, but.. like I'm not perfect? I'm screwed up. I've got... okay. simply put I've got scars running up and down my arms. I kinda want something to relate to. It also in general makes REALLY interesting people.
Looks. are a plus. But, I'm going to be picky here and say at least average or close (wow that makes me sound like a dick). I mean, in most cases you can probably do something to clean yourself up a bit and make yourself look better.
Smart. At least.. They can carry a decent intelligent conversation.
Has a spark about them, a mischievous side or something like that.
Nice hair, something I can play with.
Not stingy, I make mistakes its human, I'll forgive you of yours.
To tell me I'm a great partner or how much they like me every so often. Not all the time cause then it loses its meaning, but enough.
TICKLISH, there are few things more fun than tickling your partner.
Oh, I'm a guy, but guys or girls are fine. so looks. plus. but they've got to be able to look nice, to dress up well. (i love~ suits and ties. i couldn't talk for hours about ties and fashion. but god. could i talk.)

I would like someone who can be just as obsessed over me as i will be over them and will let me cross dress. Must like anime and be in decent shape.

My type is pretty simple. Attracted to her physically, geeky, intelligent

Hmm
My type, ill make it easy and put it into a list xD:
Likes:
- Funny (Absolute Must)
- Open minded (^^)
- Fun (Being funny is one thing, but being apart of it is better)
- Attractive (Looks arnt that important, but i do have slight standards xD)
- Gets me (I'm a simple guy so its not that hard xD)
- Intelligiant (I dont mind dippy girls, theyre normally fun, but stupid girls piss me off)
- Natural (Not a fan of makeup at all)
- Modest (nothing turns a guy on more than a girl who is better than she thinks)
- Drinker (Not pisshead, just must be able to have a good drink with me xD)
- Kind (well everyone wants a kind girl :p)

Turn offs
- Snotty (Hate girls who think theyre better than everyone)
- Oranges (So much they need a chisel to take it off)
- Wingers (Moaning about everything... god i hate that)
- Drugs (Been there done that, nothing good about it ...at all)

Things that i dont care about
- Body (I dont care about your shape)
- Type (Sporty/lazy etc...i dont care or mind
- Popularity (whether you hae no friends or a billion... i just want to be included)
- Weird (Hey normal people are boring anyway xD)
- Smokers (Half my family smoke... its your choice.. just brush your teeth afterwards xD)

Things that get me instantly intrested
- Eyes (wow if a girl has nice eyes...just..wow)
-Boobs (Im a boy of course im gona put these somewhere,but its not like i would deny a girl if she had a flat chest)
- Humour (Funny girls...yes please)
- Dirty minded (Of course, it just goes with the humour)
- Kind (jeezus a kind girl can steal a heart)
- Curves (Im talking about proper curves, not bones or flab...the proper shit)

... wow kinda makes me look picky xD, most girls actually can tick most of these easily xD, its just that i never tick their boxes hahaha xD

For sex - anyone who's cute

For life - Smart, has brains (Read - COMMON SENSE), reasonable when she makes mistakes but firm when i make mistakes. Does not need to look fantastic.

@ Maximilla, That sounds nice ^_^ to add in imperfections to a turn on is always a good thing, I like that you say "I make mistakes, its human" We aren't perfect =) I like your interests. ^_^ <3

@ Shffbass, That sounds sweet =) Whats love without love right? ^_^ Also what do you like to cross dress into?

@ AvatarEnd, Its a good thing to keep things simple sometimes =) I also love your combinations of "physically, geeky, and intelligent" sounds like it could be a very cute individual haha ^_^

@ Drag0nf0rce, I like you "Likes" column, especially the "Intelligent" one. I work with this ditsy girl, she is not handicapped or anything, its just the way she acts I'm not sure what does it to her but yea haha. I love your "Turn Offs" column the "Drugs" one i completely agree with, I've been there, I quit, and I'd like it if my partner did as well =). I agree with your "Don't Care About" column, I've smoked before, but as long as they don't do it around me, I'm fine with that ^_^. For your "Instantly Interested" column I agree with most of them, boobs are nice at times, but I do like them smaller, if I even care about them at all, haha, guys don't have boobs so I guess its not much of a deal for me. I'd just like someone that likes me for me and I the same. =)

@ Twillusion, Being a guy I find it hard to be picky about sex, I do try to care a little bit about the person before I got nuts haha. Being with a guy is a little different though, I know some gay guys care about sex a lot, but eh, I like to get to know the person better before. =) I do like you "For Life" interests, your keeping it simple yet making sure there is a standard =) ^_^

Thank you guys for posting ^_^ I'm glad I'm getting to know some of you better =)

Intelligent, nerdy guy who can make me laugh and smile.
I can't stand guys who aren't smart, or atleast have common sense. Guys like that make me want to punch puppies.
I do like guys with long hair but it doesn't matter as long as I can talk to them for hours, and they are interesting and unique. I hate typical guys, I love someone who has their own personality and is not afraid to say what they think or conform to others. Though I don't want a total hipster xD
And they have to have a few things in common, like tastes in music, television shows, maybe hobbies just so e have things to do together and relate to eachother; people say opposites attract, but never how long they stay together xD
Caring about looks doesn't make you shallow, discerning people on looks partially is inate for human beings, so I don't think its a bad thing.
Also, honesty is a big part of a relationship to me, and the person has to be open, or atleast open up to the idea of being open, no one wants a partners who keeps things to themselves all the time =)
I'd like to have a guy who isn't religious (preferabley athiest) but if he is then I hope he is tolerant of me not being religious.
Peircings and tattoos are a plus.
Also has to be dominant, I don't want to have to be the naggy bitch who runs everything.
Edit: ALSO! They have to be good in bed, and by good I mean I don't care if your cock it the size of the Washington monument, I need a guy who knows where to kiss, lick, suck, and touch to make me climax hard and slow. He should also know his way around some rope and handcuffs.
Edit x2: Also, they need to share my morbid raunchy sarcastic humor with me. I hate guys who are sensitive to even "Yo' Mama" jokes, I mean come on.

[color=#ff0080]Men.

Not little prissy, whiny, pussy, emo boys.

Fucking men.

I answered this question more in depth in another thread, but that's just the thing that stands out the most for me. Somewhere in searching for their feminine side, I've found a lot of men...got lost over there.

There is a happy medium. If you're worrying about if you hair is still gelled in the right place or you're having someone else change the oil in your car or you're running away from bugs with me, you are not my type.

Of course this is only the sum of men I have met/dated so I know it doesn't apply to all. Just for me~

+green or blue eyes
+nerdy/intelligent
+kind/good heart
+a little beefy, i don't like em scrawny
+good sense of humor/smartassness[/color]

well i'm a bisexual girl
personality (either sex):
nice
Funny
caring
accepts me no matter what
and a little dominate in bed

Physically (again either sex):
i have a really low self esteem so i pretty much take what i get for looks not to mention i mainly care for personality. but...

for guys:
muscle but not too much
shaggy hair

@ school-girl. Before I begin I want to say, I love your edits ^_^ haha, And ropes and handcuffs are always a plus ^_^. Anyway haha... I understand what you mean about not being able to stand dumb guys, I've met/seen a good amount of dumb girls/guys its does make me annoyed when I have to deal with them haha, I can only take so much. A uniqueness to a person is always a good thing, so one can be themselves, I find that tattoos and piercings are a good way of expressing one's inside feelings. Religion is a good thing at times, I understand that, i grew up in a Christian family (I am not religious), but if they start to push their beliefs on me then thats a no-go :p. Again I love your edits ^_^ haha <3

@ Circe. I understand what you mean, I do have a feminine side, but I also have a "man" side. What I've noticed about myself is that I do like men to have a feminine side, but I also love if a woman can have a boyish side... a tomboy. I actually have seen quite a few guys around my area that do worry about their hair, and are quite the "pussy". What came to my mind when I said that is "You are what you eat" haha ^_^

@ Kat_ Its nice to meet a fellow bi xD I find acceptance is always a huge part in a relationship, why date/love someone when your can't accept their faults, you should love them no matter what. I'm sorry to hear you have low self esteem =( but caring for personality is always better then caring for looks more ^_^. I do agree with the muscle, it would be nice to have a male who isn't scrawny ^_^

Thanks again for posting ^_^ I actually find if I take at least one interest from all of you so far I could make a very cute and unique individual =p. Again I love getting to know all of you beter. <3 <3 <3

I like intellegent women, and ample breasts. No HUGE ones for me. XD

xD Intelligence is always a good thing to look for in a woman ^_^ and I agree, I dont like big ones either, I like them smaller =)

My main concerns are intelligence, common sense, and their drive to do what they want/should do.
Next comes looks... Not expecting a supermodel, but I would hope they carry themselves well.
After that, just being open to new things and broadening horizons and whatnot.

This post makes me smile, so many people here are asking for intelligent people that care for them. :3



And I'm asking, I live in Australia, where we have Spiders as big as or bigger your fist? Can us men be a bit squeamish about that?