Wanna Use Me?

Sakuragi is actually more of a kuudere---
passive and unemotional.

@Galder:
For example, if you visit a Japanese home, and they offer you
tea in a certain way, that means, "Please don't hang around."
The thing is, if you miss those kind of cues, the Japanese will
become very upset with you, but of course they won't let you
know they're upset, which compounds the miscommunication.

Social interaction in Japan is such a tricky minefield that it's
almost impossible for a gaijin to avoid embarrassing faux pas
and disastrous misunderstandings.

It's difficult for the native-born, too. In one case, a Japanese woman
moved to another country because she was "sick of living in a place
where you can never tell what the fuck anyone is thinking."

she was being awfully direct in an indirect way. coulda said "i want to" instead of "i don't mind you having your way" without being impolite or even "boisterous."
maybe i get the chance to see for myself one day.