Gambler Posts
Hmm... I think the Cafe needs to review its business strategy. Things seem to be moving very slowly these days. :D
Nonetheless, you can count on the regulars to drop by every now and then. :)
Nonetheless, you can count on the regulars to drop by every now and then. :)
- Has a witch avatar right now?
- All geared up for Valentine's Day! If only I could say the same about myself and my upcoming mood on that day... T_T
- All geared up for Valentine's Day! If only I could say the same about myself and my upcoming mood on that day... T_T
asaforever wrote...
Zandorf wrote...
Where oh where has minto gone? I dunno, i think he got hacked, since i get daily messges from him on msn like: "Where are you baby", "Are u here?", at times im asleep or at work >_>
Hmm... so that explains why I received similar messages from him as well. ^_^;;
I thought it might have been an urgent matter.
So this place is now another restaurant, albeit temporarily? :D
*Bear hugs to all online users in Wagnaria right now*
*Bear hugs to all online users in Wagnaria right now*
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Getting back on topic, even though I do not have much opportunity to attend conventions, I hope all the participants enjoyed it. :)
Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, even though I do not have much opportunity to attend conventions, I hope all the participants enjoyed it. :)
Mod Note: Topic has been moved from Incoherent Babbling to the Food and Cooking section. After performing a search, there is an identical topic, but it was locked at the request of the thread starter.
In addition, I would urge all users not to spam in this thread.
Thank you for your kind understanding and cooperation.
Getting back on topic, I just had some fries and honey rock melon.
In addition, I would urge all users not to spam in this thread.
Thank you for your kind understanding and cooperation.
Getting back on topic, I just had some fries and honey rock melon.
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Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, I suppose having a "virgin" experience would be innocent and perhaps lovey-dovey, but having an experienced partner could teach one many new things.
Sorry for the inconvenience caused.
Getting back on topic, I suppose having a "virgin" experience would be innocent and perhaps lovey-dovey, but having an experienced partner could teach one many new things.
luinthoron wrote...
Hello, Gambler! *bear hugs* ^_^Café's still the same nice place it's always been, I hope.
At least it is still a place for me to relax, chat and forget all about my duties. :)
Looky-tan wrote...
Yay its Gambler~~!! *huggles huggles huggles huggles*Still as cheerful and active as ever, aren't you? ;)
Luinthoron, by a close margin.
Misty cosplay is great, but the visual Ef~ is fantastic! And Chihiro with her eye patch is cute!
Misty cosplay is great, but the visual Ef~ is fantastic! And Chihiro with her eye patch is cute!
It has been a very long time since I last visited the Cafe. Has anything changed?
*Bear Hugs to whoever is around right now*
*Bear Hugs to whoever is around right now*
Finally back from my annual military training, so I guess the time is ripe for a new topic? Besides, I need to let go of the past as well...
After my military training stint, some of my campmates organised a clubbing-cum-drinking session. To tell the truth, I have never gone to a club and neither do I drink all that much alcohol... in fact, very little. However, not to be a spoil sport, I registered my attendance.
It was a brand new experience for a bear. The loud music, the dancing and the drinking. Some of the neighbouring clubbers were equally friendly too, striking up a conversation with myself. Unfortunately, after 7 glasses of Vodka (mixed with some raspberry or pineapple juice), and a glass of black liquor, I started to vomit.
Once in the club.
Once on my way out of it.
Once before I went to bed.
Another two more times when I woke up midway, especially after drinking water.
Am I considered drunk? I managed to remember all events clearly and I spoke coherently with my campmates. After this particular incident, I don't think I will be drinking alcohol for quite a while. ^_^;;
How about my fellow Fakku members? Have you people ever puked while drinking or have you gotten drunk on certain occasions?
After my military training stint, some of my campmates organised a clubbing-cum-drinking session. To tell the truth, I have never gone to a club and neither do I drink all that much alcohol... in fact, very little. However, not to be a spoil sport, I registered my attendance.
It was a brand new experience for a bear. The loud music, the dancing and the drinking. Some of the neighbouring clubbers were equally friendly too, striking up a conversation with myself. Unfortunately, after 7 glasses of Vodka (mixed with some raspberry or pineapple juice), and a glass of black liquor, I started to vomit.
Once in the club.
Once on my way out of it.
Once before I went to bed.
Another two more times when I woke up midway, especially after drinking water.
Am I considered drunk? I managed to remember all events clearly and I spoke coherently with my campmates. After this particular incident, I don't think I will be drinking alcohol for quite a while. ^_^;;
How about my fellow Fakku members? Have you people ever puked while drinking or have you gotten drunk on certain occasions?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Gambler wrote...
Finally back from my military training.How went it?
The first week was kinda relaxed. I was allowed to go home on certain days and I managed to obtain sufficient sleep. However, the last portion of my training was exhausting, to say the least. I only managed to get 2 hours of sleep and on top of that, deal with unreasonable officers, as well as settle the various documents...
Kinda glad that it is over, but then, work at office, my full-time job, has piled up too. T_T
Finally back from my military training. Lots of matters to catch up on, but it also provided me with time to think things through.
To be honest, things you did ask to her via messages in second quote are a bit too forceful and over-familiar, especially in 1 and 2. I don't intend to blame you in this case, but you need to read the situation, your current relation, and her condition more before asking such personal questions.
From what you said, her smile and happiness are what you wish for, and if it's possible, you would prefer to be the guy beside her; may I assume that your first priority is the former ? For her happiness and smile ?
With that being said, I'd suggest you to pick the first choice,
Give up. "Someone better will enter my life", but when will "she" appear?
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean that you have to disappear from her sight. Just treasure the sweet and bitter things you ever had with her as your memories. Don't ever think of the possibility of her to return your feeling one day; expect less, do more. Talk to her, play together with her, do exactly all the things you ever did with her as if nothing has happened. If she rejected you, then so be it; but she also mentioned (or at least heavily implied) that you are still her friend, isn't that what really matter considering your first priority ?
Be with her when she needs you, listen to her problems if she would ever share one with you, do what you think is necessary (in friendly-term) to gain more positive points from her, but like I said : expect less. "Do what a good friend would usually do" is personally, what I do consider the only thing you can do for now.
She might be a bit harsh by her responses, but just like you said, it's understandable. Perhaps she might want you to realize your position by this matter. You are only friend to her, and that's it.
You need to get over it. Girl is not only one; There is no need to ask when will you meet your fated one as there is no real answer to it. But one thing I know is, just live your life till that happens.
Your life is your own, not decided by anybody, not affected by anybody; you decide your own life.
I will always be ready in time you ever need my support. I will try my best to cheer or at least, give you a proper suggestion.
Never give up in life, Bear.
I was in my final year of high school at the time. Being the guy that transferred in, I didn't really belong. I wasn't the social type so I almost always kept to myself and I frequently sat near the window just staring out to the sky while humming my favourite songs under my breath. She was one of the first girls to talk to me and I was kinda touched. I tried every chance I had to talk to her and we grew quite close in 2 months.
Then, during Valentines Day, I thought, "I should get her a rose as a Valentine present! I put it in her desk during lunch. I wonder if she'll get surprised?" That simple thought turned out to be a disaster. I put the rose on her desk right after everyone gone out for lunch and when I came back right as the bell rings, signalling the end of lunch, that same rose was on my table. All my classmates looked at me, she was averting her gaze with a look of disgust on her face.
I just blanked out. I just ran out of the classroom. And so a small seed of love was crushed before it was even planted.....
as for my opinion on the matter... i feel that she was a bit harsh... while your questions are a bit prying, they don't sound forceful to me. the first two got the worst response, but, i feel that they are the most "normal." by this i mean, any friend could be asking another friend how long they've been with their SO and why they didn't know about it.
you put a question mark after this:
i think it's maybe just missing a few words, because i know sometimes i do that. "i only choose to reply to messages when i feel like it; if i don't think it is important, i might not reply right way, and all my friends know this," is what i think she meant.
calling you stupid for asking if you're friends could either be as rude as it sounds, or she could be slightly teasing you. "of course we're friends, stupid," with a playful smile is what i can sort of imagine.
as a girl, when i try to put myself in her position, i come up with this: she is angry and seemingly frustrated with you because of the awkward position she feels she's in. you're friends, but you have feelings for her. she knows this, so she might not want to hurt you by talking about her boyfriend because she'd feel like maybe she's shoving it in your face. by asking her straight out about him, it puts her on the spot and sort of makes her hurt you, which if you're friends, is what she's probably been trying to avoid.
if her intention was to avoid hurting you, she should have told you. maybe in passing so that maybe you'd give up on her without the extra pain of having to confront her and feel led on. however, if her intention was to use you to ease her loneliness and kind of have you as a boyfriend without the commitments, then ... i don't think i'd want her as a friend, personally. S:
i know she means a lot to you, and you want her in your life even if it's strictly as a friend, but it may be better for you to keep your distance. not completely, but just keep her at a certain distance. on the other hand, it may be easier to just break off completely. and once more, maybe it will help your heart if you stay close. try to imagine what could make you happiest.
when it comes down to it, you know your own heart, and i trust your judgment and will always support you 504.27%. just don't keep your hopes up for this girl, please, it hurts to see you hurting as well. move on in a healthy way. you seem to always be thinking of others, do what you think will make you feel best. /hypocrite
take care, gambler. hope to talk to you soon. ;-; -bear hugs for the bear-
I think it's time to say goodbye to Snow.
If you can continue your friendship comfortably, then by all means continue. But this is not the girl for you.
There are so many other girls in the world that would love to have you, that will see the good person inside of you and mesh with you completely. It seems like you decided that this "Snow" person would be the one, but she doesn't see it the same. And so, the universe hasn't given her to you.
Good relationships happen when two people are on the same wavelength, their harmonies matching perfectly.
Don't spend your energy on someone who has a completely different harmony than yours. Instead, direct your energy towards attracting someone who is in sync with yourself, who will love you for you and everything that is you and nothing else. They will love you effortlessly and without force.
/new age guru crap, lol.
Again in short...
Snow is not for you. Maybe you are Summer guy. But if you stay buried in the Snow...you'll never find out...
Iknow it isnt much and I'm no person to give relationship advice.
I hope you find someone better.
Snow is not for you. Maybe you are Summer guy. But if you stay buried in the Snow...you'll never find out...
[font=verdana][color=green]This really tickled me. I'm not sure if it's cheesy or poetic, or even both at the same time. Love it.
But yeah, Gambler, it's just like the others have stated before me. It's time for you to get the shovel and clear the path to your heart of snow, or wait until you meet someone who can cause that snow to melt away in a smile.
My god. Now I'm doing it.
Thank you for all your respective replies.
At the moment, both Snow and I are still friends, I suppose. Most of my friends told me not to text or contact her, since I will lose whatever dignity I have left. However, being the soft-hearted bear that I am (and dignity does that matter much to me when it comes to matters of the heart), I texted her and she replied.
We did have a few casual text conversations, but she remains the person whom she is, replying only when she feels like it. I did attempt to ask her out as friends, but she gave the excuse that her boyfriend will not be happy.
Right now, I am slowly moving on. But if Snow were to ever want me someday, I will definitely be willing to accept her, provided circumstances permit me to do so...
Old - Jenkins wrote...
So it has come to that. I'm really sorry to hear it, Bear. To be honest, things you did ask to her via messages in second quote are a bit too forceful and over-familiar, especially in 1 and 2. I don't intend to blame you in this case, but you need to read the situation, your current relation, and her condition more before asking such personal questions.
From what you said, her smile and happiness are what you wish for, and if it's possible, you would prefer to be the guy beside her; may I assume that your first priority is the former ? For her happiness and smile ?
With that being said, I'd suggest you to pick the first choice,
Give up. "Someone better will enter my life", but when will "she" appear?
Giving up here doesn't necessarily mean that you have to disappear from her sight. Just treasure the sweet and bitter things you ever had with her as your memories. Don't ever think of the possibility of her to return your feeling one day; expect less, do more. Talk to her, play together with her, do exactly all the things you ever did with her as if nothing has happened. If she rejected you, then so be it; but she also mentioned (or at least heavily implied) that you are still her friend, isn't that what really matter considering your first priority ?
Be with her when she needs you, listen to her problems if she would ever share one with you, do what you think is necessary (in friendly-term) to gain more positive points from her, but like I said : expect less. "Do what a good friend would usually do" is personally, what I do consider the only thing you can do for now.
She might be a bit harsh by her responses, but just like you said, it's understandable. Perhaps she might want you to realize your position by this matter. You are only friend to her, and that's it.
You need to get over it. Girl is not only one; There is no need to ask when will you meet your fated one as there is no real answer to it. But one thing I know is, just live your life till that happens.
Your life is your own, not decided by anybody, not affected by anybody; you decide your own life.
I will always be ready in time you ever need my support. I will try my best to cheer or at least, give you a proper suggestion.
Never give up in life, Bear.
Damienthedevil wrote...
Well there are always other girls. Get over it. She was harsh in her reply and (sorry to say this man) she was one hell of a bitch to lead you on if she wasn't even going to consider you. I'm all for moving forwards. I was rejected harshly as well. Let me share with you my personal experience.I was in my final year of high school at the time. Being the guy that transferred in, I didn't really belong. I wasn't the social type so I almost always kept to myself and I frequently sat near the window just staring out to the sky while humming my favourite songs under my breath. She was one of the first girls to talk to me and I was kinda touched. I tried every chance I had to talk to her and we grew quite close in 2 months.
Then, during Valentines Day, I thought, "I should get her a rose as a Valentine present! I put it in her desk during lunch. I wonder if she'll get surprised?" That simple thought turned out to be a disaster. I put the rose on her desk right after everyone gone out for lunch and when I came back right as the bell rings, signalling the end of lunch, that same rose was on my table. All my classmates looked at me, she was averting her gaze with a look of disgust on her face.
I just blanked out. I just ran out of the classroom. And so a small seed of love was crushed before it was even planted.....
menolly-hime wrote...
[size=12]oh, gambler... -hugs the kind hearted, sincere bear- i'm terribly sorry to hear that things have only gotten worse. i do hope the sun shines brighter on you soon. :cas for my opinion on the matter... i feel that she was a bit harsh... while your questions are a bit prying, they don't sound forceful to me. the first two got the worst response, but, i feel that they are the most "normal." by this i mean, any friend could be asking another friend how long they've been with their SO and why they didn't know about it.
you put a question mark after this:
Snow wrote...
it is just proof that you don't understand me enough coz to everyone I know I only choose to reply messages when I feel like it. If I don't think it is important and all my friends know thisi think it's maybe just missing a few words, because i know sometimes i do that. "i only choose to reply to messages when i feel like it; if i don't think it is important, i might not reply right way, and all my friends know this," is what i think she meant.
calling you stupid for asking if you're friends could either be as rude as it sounds, or she could be slightly teasing you. "of course we're friends, stupid," with a playful smile is what i can sort of imagine.
as a girl, when i try to put myself in her position, i come up with this: she is angry and seemingly frustrated with you because of the awkward position she feels she's in. you're friends, but you have feelings for her. she knows this, so she might not want to hurt you by talking about her boyfriend because she'd feel like maybe she's shoving it in your face. by asking her straight out about him, it puts her on the spot and sort of makes her hurt you, which if you're friends, is what she's probably been trying to avoid.
if her intention was to avoid hurting you, she should have told you. maybe in passing so that maybe you'd give up on her without the extra pain of having to confront her and feel led on. however, if her intention was to use you to ease her loneliness and kind of have you as a boyfriend without the commitments, then ... i don't think i'd want her as a friend, personally. S:
i know she means a lot to you, and you want her in your life even if it's strictly as a friend, but it may be better for you to keep your distance. not completely, but just keep her at a certain distance. on the other hand, it may be easier to just break off completely. and once more, maybe it will help your heart if you stay close. try to imagine what could make you happiest.
when it comes down to it, you know your own heart, and i trust your judgment and will always support you 504.27%. just don't keep your hopes up for this girl, please, it hurts to see you hurting as well. move on in a healthy way. you seem to always be thinking of others, do what you think will make you feel best. /hypocrite
take care, gambler. hope to talk to you soon. ;-; -bear hugs for the bear-
Circe wrote...
Instead of a long, drawn-out answer, I will just say:I think it's time to say goodbye to Snow.
If you can continue your friendship comfortably, then by all means continue. But this is not the girl for you.
There are so many other girls in the world that would love to have you, that will see the good person inside of you and mesh with you completely. It seems like you decided that this "Snow" person would be the one, but she doesn't see it the same. And so, the universe hasn't given her to you.
Good relationships happen when two people are on the same wavelength, their harmonies matching perfectly.
Don't spend your energy on someone who has a completely different harmony than yours. Instead, direct your energy towards attracting someone who is in sync with yourself, who will love you for you and everything that is you and nothing else. They will love you effortlessly and without force.
/new age guru crap, lol.
Again in short...
Snow is not for you. Maybe you are Summer guy. But if you stay buried in the Snow...you'll never find out...
Melfice_1 wrote...
*hugles the GamBear*Iknow it isnt much and I'm no person to give relationship advice.
I hope you find someone better.
SamRavster wrote...
Circe wrote...
Again in short...Snow is not for you. Maybe you are Summer guy. But if you stay buried in the Snow...you'll never find out...
[font=verdana][color=green]This really tickled me. I'm not sure if it's cheesy or poetic, or even both at the same time. Love it.
But yeah, Gambler, it's just like the others have stated before me. It's time for you to get the shovel and clear the path to your heart of snow, or wait until you meet someone who can cause that snow to melt away in a smile.
My god. Now I'm doing it.
Thank you for all your respective replies.
At the moment, both Snow and I are still friends, I suppose. Most of my friends told me not to text or contact her, since I will lose whatever dignity I have left. However, being the soft-hearted bear that I am (and dignity does that matter much to me when it comes to matters of the heart), I texted her and she replied.
We did have a few casual text conversations, but she remains the person whom she is, replying only when she feels like it. I did attempt to ask her out as friends, but she gave the excuse that her boyfriend will not be happy.
Right now, I am slowly moving on. But if Snow were to ever want me someday, I will definitely be willing to accept her, provided circumstances permit me to do so...
Hmm... I suspect I have seen similar topics in the past. Gotta perform a search... ^_^;;
Getting back on topic, I have been a member on other hentai forums, for which I am thankful, since it has shaped me into the bear I am today.
Getting back on topic, I have been a member on other hentai forums, for which I am thankful, since it has shaped me into the bear I am today.
