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I've played those games you mentioned, and I've gotten around to Witch's House, and Mad Father. Good stuff.
Takerial wrote...
Mario Brothers.Too late.
For me; Xenosaga. The game lengthy in cinematics to begin with. A movie... No. I don't think they could pull it off well either.
PublicRed wrote...
Alex Im about to go to bed so I will only answer a few.Spoiler:
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I liked Knotts. It wasnt as expensive as the rest and I loved their roller coasters, I love those. I remember I had a date there once and we rode all of them. I got so sick after really. I dont like disney too much. I like their fireworks however, but you dont have to be inside to watch it. I remmeber one time being outside a club waiting for the opening and it ws close to disnet and I watched the whole thing. Sitting on a bus stop bench, for free.
I will look it up the term tomorrow I guess. Theres nothing wrong about it alex. Some girls love it actually. If you would do it, just me mindful and try to test it easy on her to get a feel on her breathing. And have signal for each other on when to let go. I will admit, I kinda receiving it from time to time. Not a lot of men are comfortable with it though. They say its against their principles haha, does that sounds familiar? Haha just teasing.
I should real lemonade too, thanks for the idea. I should drink less soda and go more natural.
I regress. Perhaps some of the things I said did not come out the way I wanted them to, and perhaps I put things in ways I should not have. However, for the sake of closure (as far as this thread is concerned), I will just say that while people are free to do as they please, there are some things as far as relationships go that I do not agree with.
As for the rest of it, I feel this thread has run it's course, so please feel free to PM the rest. However, Knotts has always been my favorite amusement park. And I'm not one to decline experimentation. Also, I see what you did there. :P
PublicRed wrote...
Me, if I wanted to have sex with someone, and I have a lover and he says he is ok with it. My relationship is with MY LOVER and not the public, the ONLY opinion that matters to me is HIS. If he is ok with it, and I want it then that is all I need to consider it as right. No one else is gonna tell us how to run our own relationship.
That's all well and good, but riddle me this; What if he wasn't OK with it? What would you do then?
PublicRed wrote...
Do not mix in sex and love, they are NOT the same and one does not require the other. Love is love, and sex is sex.
Unless we see relationships as just that, merely to have someone exclusive to fuck? Is that IT? This couple that I know, the do it a lot. They love each other so much, and they do things and decide on things as a couple. Does one sleeping with someone else invalidate that love and care? Seriously, its just a lover being considerate of the needs of the other. Do not pressume too much that we can always give everything that our lover needs, and to disregard that out of trivial things... well...
I've never really been one to believe the statement "Love is love, sex is sex". It always seemed like some sort of blanket excuse to convince one's self like what they were doing is 100% OK. Not everyone agrees with either the statement, nor the reasoning behind it. Now, sure, it might work for some people, it might not, but if that statement was so accurate, please explain to me why we have terms like cheating, why others get angry when there other decides to get intimate with another, and so on, and so forth. Love is not just love, and sex is not just sex. These two do, believe or not, tend to go hand in hand, and just because the prospect of an open relationship may work for some, doesn't mean it'll work for others.
PublicRed wrote...
laws really, is there a law against having sex with another person if you have a lover?
and moral codes, get real alex, that is relative. here its abominable to sell your daughter for marriage, but in the next country over there its fine
You're taking my point out of context. I was talking about why we have laws and moral codes, to keep the presence of (self)control. And it's still abominable, it's just harder to regulate. It doesn't make it any less wrong.
PublicRed wrote...
health and wallet... you never heard of condoms or aware of safe practices during sex? wallet, Ive never heard of sex costing money unless youre talking about prostitutes -_-. now if youre talking about kids unplanned with a stranger, then I think that is not the fault of sex itself, that is stupidity of the person.
I was hitting on the second one. Also, not everyone uses condoms, and women can, and do convince men to go without them. Sad thing is, most are stupid enough to fall for that trap, which is sad. It may be on the stupidity of the person, but it takes two to tango, and the other person at the other end decide to take advantage of the others lack of self control and common sense. Sex may not have been at fault, but it was part of the equation.
PublicRed wrote...
Why I wonder, must we always assume that others should want the same things that we want and expect them to do what we do. Or what the most do. Most people do not watch anime, they think its abominable and yet some of us do that right? Then you can say it hurts no one. well, with all consent, who does it hurt? when both are happy... wouldnt you say the 'observer' is the one who is butt-hurt coz they cant get the same? and they just wished... >_>
Not everyone does. For example, I'm guessing you think I want things my way, and that's how it should be, that we shouldn't have any open relationships. However, I realize that's my opinion, and while I may disagree with others who find it might work for them, doesn't mean they do not have the right to do as they wish. Just because my opinion might be the different as yours, or others with the same opinion, doesn't mean I don't realize they have full right to do as they wish if it works for them. However, just like you, I do have the right to state and defend my stance on the subject. If that upsets you, or anyone else, I don't think it's the ''observer' getting butthurt'.
PublicRed wrote...
Do not mistake consented extra marital affairs with cheating, if thats what you call it. Cheating is harmful because it is done against the will and consent of the lover. that is different. you can see the difference right? deception
I never stated one was the same as the other, nor did I assume it. I just stated that I do not agree with either. You are the one coming to that conclusion.
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PublicRed wrote...
I want to go to sea world!!! I only get to see it on pictures and stupid south park when will I see shamuuuu. I wonder if there are rides there too. Its a theme park isnt it? Hey, which other theme park have you been to here Alex? I remember lego land from a long time ago. That was cute, theres like this mini city with tiny people on it like only upto your knees and they got mini trees too like bonzai stuff it was adorable.
Alex kun, that picture on your signature. Have you ever choked someone before, during sex?
It is, but it's not big on rides, least when I was there. There's a few, but not as many as most other amusement parks. Most are shows or exhibits, or of the like. I've been to most theme parks; Disneyland, Knotts, Six Flags. Legoland is one I haven't been to, though. Sounds like a good time.
And that last bit almost made me spit out my lemonade. No, I haven't. It's a bit on the kinkier side for my tastes (though I suppose I wouldn't be against it if my partner was into that kinda thing... Hm...). No, those picture come from the ahegao genre (if you want to call it that). Ahegao, look it up. The rest should speak for itself.
It still isn't very ethical. Why in the holy hell, if you still want to screw around, would you want to be in a relationship with someone. You can do that single. Whether s/he gives you permission or not, if you're in a relationship with someone you're supposed to care about, even in the slightest, then why would you continue to run off with others, when you could do that even better outside a relationship. It makes the relationship almost invalid and unnecessary. So, as far as that goes, yeah, I still find it unethical. Now, if your single, yeah, OK, I can understand to mess around a little, because you're still looking, and not tied to someone. However, if you're with someone different every week or so, the ramifications of such an act, whether men or women, could be... bad. Which leads me to my next point.
Yes, it's a bad thing. The lack of control of one's self does more harm then good in many situations, and like I stated, the ramifications of such an act could screw you over in the worst way possible. That's why we have laws and moral codes to begin with. Even if a man does see an opportunity, he still has to weigh his options at any possibilities that may occur if such an encounter were to take place. A man without such an ability would find himself in a world of hurt, possible both to his health, and wallet. And don't pretend like you don't know what I'm referring to.
And see, you never mentioned that before, on both parts, because your story seems to be counter-productive to what you're saying now. On top of that, if that's the kind of relationship they wanted, I don't believe that they were truly ready for a relationship to begin with. I'd like to believe men like that are few and far in between, but, well... I can just say that a majority of men aren't like that, and are willing to stick to one person in a relationship. I can't speak for everyone, though.
And yes, I have been to Sea World a few times, mostly when I was younger. Yes, I did get to see Shamu. I got a bit wet too.
Yes, it's a bad thing. The lack of control of one's self does more harm then good in many situations, and like I stated, the ramifications of such an act could screw you over in the worst way possible. That's why we have laws and moral codes to begin with. Even if a man does see an opportunity, he still has to weigh his options at any possibilities that may occur if such an encounter were to take place. A man without such an ability would find himself in a world of hurt, possible both to his health, and wallet. And don't pretend like you don't know what I'm referring to.
And see, you never mentioned that before, on both parts, because your story seems to be counter-productive to what you're saying now. On top of that, if that's the kind of relationship they wanted, I don't believe that they were truly ready for a relationship to begin with. I'd like to believe men like that are few and far in between, but, well... I can just say that a majority of men aren't like that, and are willing to stick to one person in a relationship. I can't speak for everyone, though.
And yes, I have been to Sea World a few times, mostly when I was younger. Yes, I did get to see Shamu. I got a bit wet too.
Hm. I do know of a few trains and such. I don't know if there's one straight from LA to San Diego, but I do know there's a a Metro that goes from LA, to another area that has a train, that'll go all the way to San Diego. It would be something that requires research I'm not willing to put in, but it's entirely possible.
As for the rest of it... that would me a matter of opinion, whether being with so many people is normal for this "day and age", or not. However, I would think a vast majority would not find it appropriate, nor very ethical, to do so even with today's TV and media telling you differently.
As for the whole guy thing; In some regard, that may be true, about the man wanting as many women as possible, mostly do our old primary instincts, but that doesn't mean he ever does. It's called self control. And just because there are other guys who are horny shits who can't keep it in their pants for more the five minutes (with another women), doesn't mean that the vast majority doesn't have the self control to stay with one partner. Just because "it would be nice", doesn't mean it would be right, necessary, or 100% true.
As for the rest of it... that would me a matter of opinion, whether being with so many people is normal for this "day and age", or not. However, I would think a vast majority would not find it appropriate, nor very ethical, to do so even with today's TV and media telling you differently.
As for the whole guy thing; In some regard, that may be true, about the man wanting as many women as possible, mostly do our old primary instincts, but that doesn't mean he ever does. It's called self control. And just because there are other guys who are horny shits who can't keep it in their pants for more the five minutes (with another women), doesn't mean that the vast majority doesn't have the self control to stay with one partner. Just because "it would be nice", doesn't mean it would be right, necessary, or 100% true.
Considering the game's still in Beta, I have to say I'm liking it so far. There's definitely some potential that's being missed though, along with some hiccups here and there, but hopefully those will all be worked out in due time, and if/when the do, this will be a pretty good f2p Ragnarok game. Also, if you guys are playing this, let me know your UN and server, so I can add ya, that way I don't have to play alone. >_>
I'm mostly on the Freyja server, but I'm playing a bit on the Einherjar server. Naradasan is my main at the moment. Swordsman.
I'm mostly on the Freyja server, but I'm playing a bit on the Einherjar server. Naradasan is my main at the moment. Swordsman.
Hm. I don't hate this. It wasn't too bad at all. Any thing wrong would probably be more nit-picky in general, or would come with practice and routine. For example, you spoke a little quickly for my tastes, but that's a general opinion, and you seemed to stumble over words (lots of "Um's..." and "Like..." kinda thing).
However, besides that, I think you did fairly well for doing something like this, and being new at it. Keep it up. This has great potential.
However, besides that, I think you did fairly well for doing something like this, and being new at it. Keep it up. This has great potential.
I've been, like, everywhere in Southern California. San Francisco is one of the few places I have not been to, though. However, I haven't been down to LA in the past few months. I do live close to San Diego, though.
And your doctor sounds like she's giving you her personal opinion, instead of her professional opinion, which is something a medical profession should never, ever do. As for the friend thing, that might work, it might not. I would just learn to control yourself no matter what, but whichever works for you, I suppose.
And your doctor sounds like she's giving you her personal opinion, instead of her professional opinion, which is something a medical profession should never, ever do. As for the friend thing, that might work, it might not. I would just learn to control yourself no matter what, but whichever works for you, I suppose.
I live in California, so it's not a state thing, because I know a decent of people that would not agree with you on your... Argument. It's more of a social excuse, but that's my opinion. Whatever.
As for the second bit, if you want a normal friend, you could, ya know, decline the prospect of sex whenever it comes up or is offered. It would be a start.
Also, I'm with loli on the doctor thing; if your doctor is saying its cool to be with that many guys in short intervals of time, something seems off.
As for the second bit, if you want a normal friend, you could, ya know, decline the prospect of sex whenever it comes up or is offered. It would be a start.
Also, I'm with loli on the doctor thing; if your doctor is saying its cool to be with that many guys in short intervals of time, something seems off.
Sounds to me like you really don't have your head on straight, when it comes to what and who you really want in a relationship, nor are you really, truly, ready for one. I'd take things slow, ease into it, don't jump at any possible relationships with anyone till you have a firm confidence that it may be someone you want to date, then date them, and maybe talk to someone about it that knows you really well. Because by the sounds of it, you're jumping at all the possibilities without thinking about what you really want out of them.
Hm... OK, a few things. Lets start with the bottom, and go up.
For sake of reference, I think it's pretty obvious you're of the female origin. I would suggest that since you're curious (rather, lets say you're curious) about being in a relationship with another female, but have no experience in the matter, that you should find someone who is willing to lead the way, at least at first, and teach you. Maybe find someone through connections you can sit down and talk to. Experiment. Try new things. The worst that'll come of it is that you'll find that it wasn't for you. Or you'll find that you're bi, or lesbian, and possibly fill that hole you need filling in a relationship.... and no, not that one. I mean the psychological/emotional hole here. Get your mind outta the gutter.
As for the rest of it, if your searching for a blunt, or more honest answer; Yes, you're picky as hell. By the sounds of it, at any time you've seen some fault somewhere, you've jumped ship to find something better. And finding something better isn't... well, I don't want to say wrong or right, but it's something we all want. However, relationships aren't always going to be perfect, and we aren't always going to have those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings we want to have. You have to work for that "perfect other", and I think that's something many seem to forget nowadays.
My other guess is that you might be afraid of committing, which would also explain your willingness to jump ship if something goes or seems wrong, for fear of it not working out. Which is understandable. We're all afraid of such things, but if you don't take the time to try, and jump ship at the slightest tendencies, you might be missing out on that person that you were "meant to be with". Granted, I'm not saying stick with that guy getting drunk all the time, or that abuses you or something, but if you find a nice guy, treats you right, makes you laugh, but probably isn't some sexy beast in the bedroom... work with it. Being good at sex (or anything else) is something you can work towards... so work towards it.
Or, you could simply be a lesbian, and are searching for a more effeminate companion. This would need some experimentation and soul-searching to find out, but you can do it... if you can stick to it.
As a side note:
I'm hitting on a girl right now, but I feel so pessimistic, that I would fuck this up somehow.
Welcome to but a small taste of how us guys can feel. :P
For sake of reference, I think it's pretty obvious you're of the female origin. I would suggest that since you're curious (rather, lets say you're curious) about being in a relationship with another female, but have no experience in the matter, that you should find someone who is willing to lead the way, at least at first, and teach you. Maybe find someone through connections you can sit down and talk to. Experiment. Try new things. The worst that'll come of it is that you'll find that it wasn't for you. Or you'll find that you're bi, or lesbian, and possibly fill that hole you need filling in a relationship.... and no, not that one. I mean the psychological/emotional hole here. Get your mind outta the gutter.
As for the rest of it, if your searching for a blunt, or more honest answer; Yes, you're picky as hell. By the sounds of it, at any time you've seen some fault somewhere, you've jumped ship to find something better. And finding something better isn't... well, I don't want to say wrong or right, but it's something we all want. However, relationships aren't always going to be perfect, and we aren't always going to have those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings we want to have. You have to work for that "perfect other", and I think that's something many seem to forget nowadays.
My other guess is that you might be afraid of committing, which would also explain your willingness to jump ship if something goes or seems wrong, for fear of it not working out. Which is understandable. We're all afraid of such things, but if you don't take the time to try, and jump ship at the slightest tendencies, you might be missing out on that person that you were "meant to be with". Granted, I'm not saying stick with that guy getting drunk all the time, or that abuses you or something, but if you find a nice guy, treats you right, makes you laugh, but probably isn't some sexy beast in the bedroom... work with it. Being good at sex (or anything else) is something you can work towards... so work towards it.
Or, you could simply be a lesbian, and are searching for a more effeminate companion. This would need some experimentation and soul-searching to find out, but you can do it... if you can stick to it.
As a side note:
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I'm hitting on a girl right now, but I feel so pessimistic, that I would fuck this up somehow.
Welcome to but a small taste of how us guys can feel. :P
- I can think outside the box.
- I'm very accepting of all things, thoughts, ideas, and people.
- I'm very honest, and can't lie very well, if at all(though for my own good, I've gotten good at telling "half truths").
- I can take the step forward when very few can.
- I'm very accepting of all things, thoughts, ideas, and people.
- I'm very honest, and can't lie very well, if at all(though for my own good, I've gotten good at telling "half truths").
- I can take the step forward when very few can.
Honestly, when it comes to horror, what's more scary isn't just the fact if you're helpless or not, it's the environment and "feeling" the game gives you as you go through it. I have, however, noticed that most games that tend to have a more "helpless" protagonist seem to evoke more fear then a protagonist with nerves of steel and a weapon in their hand, since more people can relate to the "helpless protagonist".