HIM520 Posts

Had an anime series move me to tears. The feels I got from it are real and I'm thankful to a certain person for forcing it on me. Thank you it made my day in the most insignificant of ways \(;w;)/

*pats*

Yeah that can really suck, but don't worry give it another month or so and the heat will fry me like an egg. The summers here are ridiculous, it's an extremely dead heat. Worst time of the year (-_-)

xD

Hello retfir, never gave you a proper welcome but who cares about order.

ahem, "welcome to the girls club! Hope you enjoy your stay!"

There we go (^^)


Then plan make everyone think misa has gone insane has worked (-w-)b

Actually it isn't hot where I'm at, it was a cloudy day and with the rain that passed by it cooled off the area for the weekend.

No wrath I just felt like going rawr xD

It's more just a stereotype really. I don't care if people think initially my tastes may be tame or if they assume I read yaoi, it's only annoying when it's asked in a presumptuous manner.

Everyone has there preferences regardless of the gender and as long as you don't assume then it's all good lol.

If I were to have a last meal before I die it would be sushi and brownies lol.

I use to hate sushi when I first tried getting into it, but over time I've grown to love it. I usually have sushi 2-3x a month since my grocery store makes it very fresh (perks of living in a college town) as well as the Asian fusion restaurants in the area are awesome.

My favorite sushi is called an Alaskan Heat (white rice with fish-roe, salmon, cucumber, avacado with kimchee sauce drizzled on top). Another place makes a crunchy chicken roll (panko breaded chicken, scallions and a zesty asian sauce) that's pretty good too.

Salmon is probably my favorite fish to eat next to fatty tuna. Fish roe is also good, I could eat buckets of those little fish eggs lol.

Oh and tamago (egg) sushi is great! I just like when the egg isn't cooked too sweetly.

Least favorite is eel or snapper (it's good cooked but not raw, too fishy usually), but that's mainly because most places don't do it right.

I could seriously write a short story on all of this so yes I like/love sushi. Even had some salmon and tuna nigiri for lunch xD

RAWRRRRRRRR!!!!!!

Another happy birthday to you ~(^w^)~

Someone who see's the truth of the world and you my friend deserve a cookie.

Not on my top must have tags list, but I think it should be a tag. There are women with a young boy complex that love those type of works and I've known men who love shota's.



Loli and pettanko will be separated. The only reason pettanko was used in the first place was because there was no loli tag on here for a bit. The only way a work will have a pettanko and a loli tag is if there is a female that is a pettanko in the work as well as a loli. Oppai will be used to either say there is a woman with large breasts in the work or the loli is an oppai loli.

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I mentioned some tags in another thread, but still think that Milf, bloomers, dirty old man, shota, deflowering (aka first time), aniligus/rimjob, exhibitionism, succubi/demon, elf, and squirting should be tags.

I think foreigner and monster dick are two other ideas I remember being thrown around.

This will be a priority buy for me when I get the chance. Absolutely love NaPaTa's works and am so glad to see this will be a F! Release.

I think it just depends on my mood and who.

When I am at work I have to socialize since I take care of people for a living. There are some that drive me up a wall, but in the end I rationalize to myself it is a job I am being paid to do so I need to do it well. I also have learned to empathize with people so I don't really mind a couple of pain in the asses.

When it comes to people in my everyday life I get the social bug every now nad then, but some days I just want to tune the world out completely. I use to feel more antisocial at one point, but not talking to anyone get's old so I decided it's more entertaining to work on finding good relationships versus being hermit. I talk to people when I am good, but when I have a bad day I won't.

Some people I have an easier time talking to, while others it takes me longer to warm up to them. No one likes everyone they meet, but even those I don't like all that much I still try to find there good points, but that's just me lol.

I guess to me people are those that aren't me. They are individuals I have to interact with and want to on occasion. They are despicable, kind, good, evil, annoying, awesome, etc. They can make me feel happy, terrible, mad, alone, not alone, etc. I feel like people are something you can't live without.

I think Neon Genesis Evangelion puts human lives into a good perspective.

There's more to it then just having the willpower to be committed to a relationship.

I think being committed to a person takes a number of things to make it work. The main ones are communication, happiness, trust, honesty, and work. Even with all of that people can and will still cheat.

To me being able to commit to a relationship is to say, "I want to have this person in my life mean something more then anyone else". You are able to talk to them about most anything (100% everything is too perfect and doesn't exist lol), you can trust them with whatever, they are honest with you, they work with you through the good/bad, the easy/difficult, they work on trying to be happy with you, and most of all they talk with you.

The biggest issues to having such a relationship are fear, a lack of desire and comfort. People that have been hurt in past relationships sometimes come to fear being in future ones no matter how good the partner is to them. Once a person let's fear rule there lives it becomes that much more difficult to make something work.

With having a lack of desire, even though some people see how happy a good relationship can be, they don't want to work for it. It's not easy to make a relationship good or to make it work so some people want it to be easy for them. If you don't have the desire to make a relationship work you won't have a relationship. It takes two people to make something special happen.

When I talk about comfort, I more or less mean comfort in others. People who are able to commit to one person feel comfortable with that person. When they don't feel comfortable with that person they may sometimes seek the comfort of another even if it's just for the physical sense. This isn't a lack of willpower, but rather the relationship has become complacent and one or both parties are needing something to feel safe in. That doesn't mean that the arms of another person is the right way to handle it, but for some who find they cannot communicate with there partners, they find another person easier.

Summary: to make a good relationship work you need to personally make the effort to be committed. Having that mindset to commit will make it that much easier to find another person who will do the same. You may not find them right away and you may get hurt along the way, but all you can do is say that the person you tried to be with wasn't the right one and move on with a lesson learned. Once you find someone you can talk to, trust and communicate with, you can try to work on the relationship with them. No one is 100% perfect and shit will happen, but all you can do is try your best. We are human and alive so we try to make the most out of what life has to offer. In the end you will find what makes you happy regardless if it's a lover, friends, children, animals, etc.

Bonus: I think this manga is a good example of how you try to find happiness for yourself Oyasumi Punpun. The story ends well, but it shows that love and happiness is different for us all.

You don't have to go into it, but I'm concerned as to what the "damage" was. You say you didn't break any laws, but that it was traumatizing enough to be something that both you and your partner were hurt. I also ask why because this will make the advice difficult to give so I'll just give a couple of suggestions.

If the problem was truly damaging such as abuse of any kind I would suggest going to counseling in the future. This can be any form of abuse ranging from physical to emotional to verbal. You don't have to go with your former partner, but for any future relationships it is probably the best to seek someone professional to talk to regardless if you were the victim or the abuser. Basically with whatever partner you are dating if you are falling into the same cycle you have experienced previously, the best way to get out of it is to make the commitment to working on being a better person and talking with your partner about this. Communication and help are the two best things for this situation. If you are an abusive partner in any way I would work on yourself first before you jump into any relationship; you are not unworthy of love but you need to appreciate yourself to appreciate your partner (no person deserves to be hurt by the person they love).

If the problem was more of a personal matter for yourself or for you partner that strained your relationship then this isn't as big of an issue as the first one. It's not to say that this makes the issue any less severe, but in this case the damage isn't a chronic issue, rather a situational issue that can be fixed easier. With this sort of thing realize that things happen in life that will test your relationships. I know for myself that I've had some low points in life where I wouldn't win the best girlfriend of the year award. Everyone has those days and you can hurt your partner as a result. The ones that stay through it all are the special ones that worth working with.

The biggest thing you can do with this type of issue is to be open with your partner and talk with them about the things you are feeling/dealing with. Communication is key to a strong relationship, if you can't talk with the person you love then things won't work out. If your partner is the one who cannot communicate then look at it as, I'm doing my best and if they can't do the same I can't either. No matter what it is you are feeling you need to be open to hurt. You may be hurt by what you feel or your partner may hurt you, but you have to try to make things work. You also learn from trial and error who it is you can trust and who you can't or you grow thicker skin as a result.

The last thing I can think as "damaging" is if you or your partner were unfaithful in any way to one another. If this was an issue then you need to think to yourself why was it that this happened? Usually when a person seeks the comfort of another it is because they are not happy with what they have or they are afraid. There are also those who just give into temptation to easily or see sex with another as a "thing" and nothing more. All you can do is learn from such an experience and see what is it you really want in another person in the future. Don't blame yourself or the other person, just realize that this happened and you'll do better with someone else.

Summary: I think the biggest thing you can do for yourself since you seem so upset and tormented over whatever happened in your past is to do two things. First is to accept that whatever happened has happened. However hard the issue was, you can't dwell on it or you'll never be able to make your future relationships work. You don't have to resolve this issue by yourself or be fully well before a new relationship since a new partner could help you with that process. You just have to be willing to work on your issues. If the issue is too much for you or others to handle go seek the right counseling. Sometimes we need a little help from those that are able to do it.

The whole reason I loved doing online forums was because I could be myself regardless of how I looked or my gender. I am honest about being a woman, but I don't tell people to gain any special treatment from them, it's just me being honest. I do think it can affect how people view you to a degree, but it is very small and no matter how a person is if they are annoying or nasty you wouldn't want to talk to them for any reason.

Use to make me laugh when people would ask me for "proof" that I was a woman since there's always that suspicion a person isn't the gender they say they are, but to me who the fuck cares? I just like having fun and talking with good people, the rest is irrelevant to me.

So basically for me personally gender never influenced how I acted. I can type a bit feminine at times, but that is because I am a woman and it comes out naturally.

Can't think of any good hentai with good looking men off the top of my head. I usually go for something yaoi or otome based if I'm looking for something like that and let my imagination run wild afterwards. Hentai caters more to the male audience sadly.

Surprised as well, but it's been really fun so if you ever feel likt it join (^^)b

Join whenever you wish to really, it'll never be too full for people to join.

Started this thing less then a month ago? but when it happens just depends. not really Just a drinking thing either, everyone just comes and chats and has fun

Meh, it's just a thing I guuess lol