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I find traps and pretty boys to be great eye candy, much like I do with women, but dating and sexual preferences differ from what I find visually appealing. My libido isn't moved by that pretty face, only my inasious desire to see him get fucked (-w-)b

So you ask me huh? Hentai tastes =/= irl tastes, prefer manly men not pretty boys.

A lone moderator is doing the work for that in his spare time but the site hasn't been maintained by the creator since half a year ago I believe? So if this keeps up the site could fold over due to unkept maitenance or the site isn't kept up via payments. Automatically revenue may keep it running for longer. I think in 2016 the site may have issues if Puro doesn't return.

It sounds like he's just more of a passive person and you are wanting more. I know that I want a partner that is able to take more charge in the relationship so for me I wouldn't be good with a more passive person.

I would talk with your partner and be open with them on what it is you desire in your relationship. The other thing you can do is to not initiate things and see if this catches his eye. If he doesn't get the hint or this us purely just who he is, then you'll have to re-evaluate what it is you want out of a partner then go from there.

You're not at fault for wanting something that is not provided to you and all you can do is just try to change things and if they don't change then find other alternatives. I have felt something similar to how you feel in some past relationships and we ended up going separate ways. Don't give up hope in finding a nice balance for yourself and best of luck (^^)

There will be some changes in the near future with series names where the Japanese name of a title will be switched over to the official English name. If there is no official English name the Japanese name will be kept. Sorry for the confusion.

Np and it's fine to have a lot of friends, just decide if your closer friends are improtant to keep or not and make the effort to keep them if they are so. Basically those that you think are your friends won't always be there for you, so best to have ones that mean something in your life and wold be there for you through thick or thin. If you have no one like that then find good people that could do that for you.



Not all of them are bad and honestly bars are worse then conventions lol. I know I will talk with whoever/whenever at conventions but if people get too creepy then I just move on. I look at it more as a fun way to meet people rather then finding a date. If I find someone cool enough and we somehow dated after the fact, it's just a bonus.

Oh and to add, the way you know you are connecting with someone is through two things.

1. You feel something for the person you are talking to whether it be emotionally, physically or whatever else you want to call it. They make you happy and you just want to get closer with them and become a better person with them.
2. They feel the same way and feel the same way. They want to talk with you, they want to be with you, they are happy with you. Now not all people feel this way initially and some that do may back off. You just have to know that life is all about trying and if you are able to find someone to do this with then great, if they aren't into you don't think it's all your fault. Everyone does things for different reasons so you just have to go with the flow and make the effort to establish connections.

Biggest thing is to just make good memories with people. Don't try and make something happen or work that isn't and don't be desperate for others. You need to be happy with who you are and hope that the next person you talk to will make things awesome in your life. If not then buy a puppy or a daki. Believe me I've dated a few people and have been in relationships on/off, they can be awesome but they can also suck. That's just life though so just be open to the idea of life and love, hopefully you can go out with some nice people and you can find some that are really awesome.

The reason talking to people and meeting them whenever/wherever is really stressed is because it's more then just trying to meet someone to date. When you find people of any gender and different types you are opening yourself up to experiencing being social. The more people you talk to and learn to deal with (good or bad) the more experience you get. This makes talking to women and dating a bit easier in some respects.

I know that I am one I love to talk to people and I get to meet really awesome and interesting folks just by being social irl and online. Some of my best friends come from meeting them on sites such as this, but nothing is easy. I use to be more shy and introverted but I changed that about myself since it was something I felt like working on.

So if you feel that it is impossible to talk to women, date them or even find them. Try to find ways to change that for yourself. Talk with more fun people online, do things in your area where you can find interesting people to talk to or maybe move someday when you can. Conventions as you mentioned are interesting places to find friends as well since they can be like minded.

So if I had to summarize some key points to dating the best would be:
1. You have to open yourself up some with people, even if its only a couple at first to start getting to the point you can be comfortable with others. This can hurt and suck, but it's better to try then to be afraid all your life.
2. Learn from your experiences with people. As I said people can be really shitty, but if you don't learn you can't grow. I've been hurt by a lot of people over time, but I still try to make friends and have fun. In the end I think I'm doing pretty well for myself and I'm grateful for all of the struggles I've had till now.
3. Never stop working on yourself as a person. Working on yourself and being happy with yourself can really impact how you are with others. I'm not saying that if you have problems or you have to be little miss sunshine, I know I have my issues and I can get depressed/anxious. But you just have to find the inner strength to really see that you can do anything that you put your mind to. As I said experience + self reflection/growth = hope.
4. Make life about being fun and enjoying it, not solely about dating. I know the times I really was looking for someone to date hardcore I never found anything or I was desperate and went after losers. When I wasn't looking and I was just having fun with people I ended up meeting some really awesome people and even starting relationships with some. It's not easy by any stretch of the imagination, but there is a saying my mom use to tell me and I really do believe in it, "if you are looking too hard you won't find shit, it's when you're not looking that it comes to you when you least expect it."

Anyways hope this helps and just keep trying. When you stop trying and you give up you will find your chances at anything a lot lower. I'll admit that I am awkward and I over-think half of what I do with people, but I'd rather be a hot mess then be completely shut off from the world. I just take breaks when I need to then go back out there and keep meeting new people. So just be yourself and keep strong.

ex-h is what I like to think of as a huge storage site of all around content that has no limits. I really like it myself since I can find the most random of things while searching on there. Pururin hasn't been updating because the owner of the site has not maintained the site nor do they really know what he is doing, sort of MIA on the site and in general, so if nothing is done the site could eventually cave sadly.

No you can still get the achievement when you buy the books and since it sounds like you bought the book through the store OP, message Jacob about this or wait till he see's the thread. Should be fixed sooner then later.

Officially licensed in English so it was taken down a while back, available to own by searching on google or your local bookstore.

Done and done (^^)b

Make sure you're okay with screwing both of them since one is your ex and the other is a random guy. I should also mention that if you don't wear condoms when performing/receiving oral then you still have a chance of getting STD's so please consider that when doing anything; this includes people who say they are virgins, believe me it can be a lie.

I'd also talk beforehand about what is to be included when this occurs. Is it a take turns sort of deal or all together, are toys involved, does the other guy want service as well? Just make sure you are all clear on the boundaries or limits that each of you has since this could go horribly wrong pretty quick.

The only other thing is be okay with fucking then that's it. Again this could go horribly wrong and be aware that you may loose partners when doing this so keep that in mind. Other then that, hope you guys are safe and have fun.

I think the DanganRonpa was a personal favorite of all the ones you showed and I really like what you had to say. I am not plus sized so I may not be able to relate to the struggles related to that and cosplaying, but I definitely show my support and think that it's awesome for anyone in general to cosplay. It takes balls to do it and no matter what you look like or who you are if you are doing it and you love it then who is anyone to judge?

I think one story I can remember back when I did a convention years ago (I would post photos but I don't have them/haven't done conventions in a long time lol) but I remember I was amazed at this woman who did Sango from inuyasha. Her hair and costume were stunning, but she was a plus sized cosplayer and was much larger then yourself. I went up to her and told her how she did a great job. She thought I was joking at first, but I really stressed how awesome her cosplay was and she was shy but flattered.

I know even when I cosplay or when I go to pick it up in the future no matter what you will get good with bad, but as long as you enjoy who you are doing then it doesn't matter (^^)

Best wishes with your future cosplay (^^)

Color + cute is a nice combo indeed (>w<)

Basically if you want to change stop complaining and stop the self pity party and actually do something to change. It's hard and you'll fail a lot of times, but it's better then bitching about your issues and life is work. If you are sick then work on getting better/try to do your best with what you have. You're sick and if this can't be cured then live with it and be the best you can be. Your family will decide how they wish to treat you so if they don't say you're a burden then stop thinking you're one, they they think you're one and have said it then learn to toughen up and be self sufficient and find people that can be there for you. If you're unhealthy and done like it try to fix it, again diet and exercise is hard but no use bitching over it if you don't do anything to change it.

tl;dr no point to complain about yourself if you don't try to change yourself in the process, it's wasted energy. Either you try and change or you deal with how your life is. Self pity is just wasted energy, these problems you have can be fixed or worked on so decide what you want to do and enough with the pity party. If you fail or hit low points then talk to people who can encourage you; gotta work hard and believe in yourself that you can do it, this attitude won't get you anywhere.

Lol could say you yourself suit the haircut (^^)b

and hmmm, it could possibly fit idk (internally thinks about cute jacket!)

I think this has derailed enough if it keeps going I'll report to lock it, for anyone that want's to keep updated or talk about the subject further go to this thread https://www.fakku.net/forums/feedback-suggestions-and-support/fakku-removing-banning-tags