mdarkanima Posts
In my personal experience I like them to have a dose of both. I don't like overly confident egotistical personalities where they feel the need to establish dominance, and I also don't like overly shy types that I find myself struggling to make a comfortable conversation with.
My personality tends to be really shy when you first meet me, and I gradually warm up as I get to know someone. For me a guy who has enough confidence to initiate conversation and state first interest is easier for me to connect with because that level of confidence helps me boost my own confidence. Plus if he's also shy at times he can relate better to when I have a hard time, for example, talking on the phone. A lot of people think that's strange, unless they're a bit shy themselves, then there's more understanding and acceptance.
So yeah, a bit of both is good
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My personality tends to be really shy when you first meet me, and I gradually warm up as I get to know someone. For me a guy who has enough confidence to initiate conversation and state first interest is easier for me to connect with because that level of confidence helps me boost my own confidence. Plus if he's also shy at times he can relate better to when I have a hard time, for example, talking on the phone. A lot of people think that's strange, unless they're a bit shy themselves, then there's more understanding and acceptance.
So yeah, a bit of both is good
:)
I've suffered through depression for most of my life. I think each individual circumstance is different, however I answered "no".
I don't think I've ever "lost control" in terms of my anger. I've definitely let it go too far on a number of occasions, however I can't ever pinpoint a time where I felt I was completely out of control of it. I usually regain my senses pretty quick with anger.
On the other hand I definitely feel I've lost control of myself in terms of depression and sadness several times. I can remember crying violently on the floor and wanting to take my own life, and once my senses started to come back I felt like a complete idiot... though I did feel better once all the things I had bottled up had finally been released. I think a huge problem to losing control of emotions is bottling things up for too long.
On the other hand I definitely feel I've lost control of myself in terms of depression and sadness several times. I can remember crying violently on the floor and wanting to take my own life, and once my senses started to come back I felt like a complete idiot... though I did feel better once all the things I had bottled up had finally been released. I think a huge problem to losing control of emotions is bottling things up for too long.
I think the beauty of a lot of hentai and porn situations is the fact that they aren't realistic. I get turned on because it's a fantasy, in real life I doubt they'd do much for me.
In real life I'm definitely sappy and prefer emotionally attached sex with my spouse. I know for certain he'd be uncomfortable with a number of the scenarios in hentai, and there would be a few that I wouldn't be comfortable with, in real-life sex is best for me when it's staying within my comfort zone. I'm open to new things but I prefer to discuss them before trying them just to make sure me and him are on the same page.
But yeah, I love the over the top hentai, I love schlicking to it, but I wouldn't ever want to do most of it in real life.
In real life I'm definitely sappy and prefer emotionally attached sex with my spouse. I know for certain he'd be uncomfortable with a number of the scenarios in hentai, and there would be a few that I wouldn't be comfortable with, in real-life sex is best for me when it's staying within my comfort zone. I'm open to new things but I prefer to discuss them before trying them just to make sure me and him are on the same page.
But yeah, I love the over the top hentai, I love schlicking to it, but I wouldn't ever want to do most of it in real life.
Working all day, though it's necessary to save funds prior to attending Fanime at the end of this month.
Before I cut my hair and dyed it black. It was kinda cute shaggy and light brown. Also my favorite Alice in Chains shirt. <3 ^_^
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My first job I ever had was working at a KFC. I agree with everyone here who complains about the fast-food industry. It is literal shit, all of it. The one positive thing I took away from it, beyond appreciating every job that ISN'T fast-food, is treating the workers with respect and kindness. You don't need to have a hissy fit every time fast-food messes something up. Seriously, customers are retards. Mad respect to everyone in the food service industry.
As far as my current jobs go, no real complaints:
I currently work 2 jobs. In the mornings from 8am to 1pm I work at Staples in the Copy and Print Department making $10.25 an hour. The main thing I do there is manage the store's in-store post office, which isn't really that bad. You put a stamp on something, and you put it in the bin. The copy and print section has its ups and downs, my biggest complaint is that it's boring and that my boss has no tolerance for sick leave whatsoever. Frickin' sick leave Nazis I swear. I don't know why it's such a big deal for me to call off work for a few days when I have the worst flu I've ever had as well as a doctor's note excusing me from work because I couldn't stop puking... but whatever.
The second job I work is at a small locally owned music store from 2pm to 8pm, which I completely love and the reason why I love it is because my boss is never there and so I close the store by myself. I get to essentially be my own boss, manage my own time, and play whatever music I want in the store. My boss supplies the workers and teachers at the store with free Red Bull, sometimes he takes us out for drinks. All around it's just a great place to be and everyone there is nothing but nice because it's in a small town. Only small complaint is I only make $9 dollars an hour and my boss isn't always the best at remembering to pay me on time. Which is why I work at Staples in the morning, so I can get a steady paycheck to pay my bills on time.
As far as my current jobs go, no real complaints:
I currently work 2 jobs. In the mornings from 8am to 1pm I work at Staples in the Copy and Print Department making $10.25 an hour. The main thing I do there is manage the store's in-store post office, which isn't really that bad. You put a stamp on something, and you put it in the bin. The copy and print section has its ups and downs, my biggest complaint is that it's boring and that my boss has no tolerance for sick leave whatsoever. Frickin' sick leave Nazis I swear. I don't know why it's such a big deal for me to call off work for a few days when I have the worst flu I've ever had as well as a doctor's note excusing me from work because I couldn't stop puking... but whatever.
The second job I work is at a small locally owned music store from 2pm to 8pm, which I completely love and the reason why I love it is because my boss is never there and so I close the store by myself. I get to essentially be my own boss, manage my own time, and play whatever music I want in the store. My boss supplies the workers and teachers at the store with free Red Bull, sometimes he takes us out for drinks. All around it's just a great place to be and everyone there is nothing but nice because it's in a small town. Only small complaint is I only make $9 dollars an hour and my boss isn't always the best at remembering to pay me on time. Which is why I work at Staples in the morning, so I can get a steady paycheck to pay my bills on time.
"Reggae has taught me that all islanders can sing" ... wait what, do you want to repeat that one for me sir? LOL
My beautiful new Frankenstein guitar. The beauty of working for a music store is you get first dibs on the gear.
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My portable guitar rig is getting cooler and cooler with each passing day. Fanime is going to be fun.
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Let Me Go by Avril Lavigne (I seriously don't know why I like this song... it just feels really relevant)
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