swordmanXIII Posts
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
I would love to discuss this in private, Circe. I really would be he refuses to talk to me again. So unless you can convince him, I'm S.O.L. Then I make it public issue because the other person refuses to discuss it privately. It's like that guy yelling in the restaurant, for everyone to hear that his wife is cheating on him. I don't know why he got so mad or it was misunderstanding. I guess it would hurt to start from there.
I always felt that way it was meant to be sometimes but before everything that has happened, we were good friends and I just don't want to lose that because of me. It was never Omar's fault for all the conflict and everything that has happened. It was my fault. Same thing with another person I know.
If he doesn't want to talk, that's his choice. It doesn't stop you from sending your thoughts to him in a PM.
Putting it in public isn't going to make him want to talk to you any more. It's probably just going to cause him more irritation and make him not want to talk to you even more.
Let him know that you would like to continue the friendship and would like to work things out. If he's not receptive, guess what? You've done all you can so move on.
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Instead of putting your personal conflict with Hadou on the forum like this, I think you should be discussing it with him. I obviously can't know what issues you guys had before you came here, but if I had a problem with someone, I would much rather discuss it with them directly than keep bringing it up on the forum in public like this, especially in his own thread. It's just more respectful to keep private matters private and between the involved parties, I think.
As far as him not talking to you, I guess you have to think about what happened and why he would be so upset that far? Did you really do something wrong? Is it a misunderstanding? And then send him a message from there.
And remember, it is useless to push a cart sideways. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be friends and get along. And if that might be the case between you two then so be it and keep it moving. If not, then you will work it out in time.
Privately.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I used to call you mother >:And you're still my son -pokes your nose-
Have a good night, Shanzy~
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
Trust me when I say, I know this feel. I am the worst person at letting go of once happy friendships. But you'll feel so much better when you just let go and let life flow how it's going to.You're the last person left of which I'm unsure about now.
As before now it's been months since you've said a word to me.
I talk to people sparingly, honestly, even ask Melfy. My life has been a whirlwind ...pretty much for the past year, so it's got nothing to do with you or any person individually, just my life.
Besides, we never had the closest relationship, but it doesn't mean I would ever stop caring about you, and the same for the rest of the people that I care about but haven't spoken to very much in the past few months. So don't worry too much.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I just need to get out of my head that certain people I used to be close to will never be close any more.Then I can move on.
Trust me when I say, I know this feel. I am the worst person at letting go of once happy friendships. But you'll feel so much better when you just let go and let life flow how it's going to.
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
Circe wrote...
Wait, what happened about the ass club?No, to tell the story I have to go farther than that.
If you want to talk, you can PM me if it's too personal.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
You don't need fake friends, so fuck em'. If people don't want to talk to you, seriously, fuck em'.I just wanna know why they suddenly no longer want to know me.
I talk to about 2-3 people a day now, gets boring here most of the time just watching others chat.
Did they say, specifically, that they no longer want to know you? Or are you just assuming that because they haven't spoken to you in a while?
Well, they haven't spoken to me in months now despite posting in the same threads on some occasions.
Message clear. I thought that about you actually.
That doesn't mean people no longer want to know you. Which is the same for me. I just haven't been as active on Fakku as I used to be and I have been nowhere near as social in any realm. It doesn't mean I like any people any less. I'm fairly sure the people I don't like already know who they are.
It could be the same for others, so don't assume.
What about the ones that are still quite active?
Oops, I didn't see this ^^;
I can't speak for people who are really active honestly. All I can say is, you know...sometimes people are jerks for their own reasons. It's not always going to have anything to do with you though. So for the people that take the time to know you, that's great and be grateful for them. And the ones that don't, as I said before, fuck em'.
I see plenty of people around here that support you and encourage you when you are being down on yourself. So don't take those people for granted, and just be grateful you have anyone at all that cares about you. Don't focus so much on the ones that don't like you or don't give you enough attention.
And also remember that the coin is double-sided. If you're not making an effort to know people, don't be surprised if they don't make an effort to get to know you either.
KanadeTenshi-XIII wrote...
Circe wrote...
Ehhhh, how come you're taking a hiatus, Tenshi?Just a little bored with it atm. I'm gonna finish some games and start getting into Persona 4 Arena and around mid May i'll start doing it full time again. ATM i'm part time now.
I thought it was more just a chat thread than a role-playing thread anyway. Whatever happened with the art contest?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
You don't need fake friends, so fuck em'. If people don't want to talk to you, seriously, fuck em'.I just wanna know why they suddenly no longer want to know me.
I talk to about 2-3 people a day now, gets boring here most of the time just watching others chat.
Did they say, specifically, that they no longer want to know you? Or are you just assuming that because they haven't spoken to you in a while?
Well, they haven't spoken to me in months now despite posting in the same threads on some occasions.
Message clear. I thought that about you actually.
That doesn't mean people no longer want to know you. Which is the same for me. I just haven't been as active on Fakku as I used to be and I have been nowhere near as social in any realm. It doesn't mean I like any people any less. I'm fairly sure the people I don't like already know who they are.
It could be the same for others, so don't assume.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Circe wrote...
You don't need fake friends, so fuck em'. If people don't want to talk to you, seriously, fuck em'.I just wanna know why they suddenly no longer want to know me.
I talk to about 2-3 people a day now, gets boring here most of the time just watching others chat.
Did they say, specifically, that they no longer want to know you? Or are you just assuming that because they haven't spoken to you in a while?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
I think being myself is why barely anyone talks to me any more though.You don't need fake friends, so fuck em'. If people don't want to talk to you, seriously, fuck em'.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Not acting the way I do.I haven't really seen how you've been acting lately, but as long as you're being yourself, it shouldn't be a problem : D
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Well I haven't exactly been worth talking to lately have I?What makes someone "worth talking to"?
YES. Though strangely it's not associated with breasts.
There is just something about partially pulled down panties that just drives me insane. Idfk what it is, but it is just so hot for me.
There is just something about partially pulled down panties that just drives me insane. Idfk what it is, but it is just so hot for me.
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mibuchiha wrote...
Hm... that didn't cross my mind. I admit that whenever I consulted you, to me it felt like consulting a big sister or something like that. Conversely, I was always under the impression that you saw me as no more than a little boy learning the ropes on this game called life.Which is why I wonder why would you entertain even the thought of dating such a boy.
mibu, it's just a game, lol. I was just answering the question and saying it would be an interesting experience. You always drive everything so deeply ^^;
I am very nuturing towards others, especially when giving advice or trying to help so...the big sister thing is quite common for me around here, I think. But I have always thought fondly of you, I feel like I've even come to your defense before, whether you knew or not. I don't look down on you or think of you as a "little boy" anyway.
