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Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
umnut wrote...
such as men being more logical and strong, and women being more sensitive and caring.I see now. That makes more sense.
Still, this
umnut wrote...
such as men being more logical and strong, and women being more sensitive and caring.Feminist groups get all pissy from those kind of thoughts and stereotypes. And I agree with it to some extent. I mean, you can be logical, strong, caring and sensitive all at the same time. And what is wrong with men being sensitive and caring? Stereotypes, stereotypes.
ps: Sorry for sounding so hostile on my last post.
Notice that I said more which means both men and women share these characteristics, but generally (though not always) each gender has some of these qualities more developed than the other.
And of course, there's nothing wrong with men being sensitive and caring, it's actually a big plus :D
I myself am a big romantic, dreamy and sensitive guy :D
And don't worry about sounding hostile, I apreciate people who say their thoughts and opinions freely, even if they may be harsh...it's always better to be sincere. So, as long as it wasn't meant as an insult, it's no problem. :P
Here's a small list of what girls/women generally want in a guy:
-confident
-protective
-social
-funny/good humour
-clean and pleasant appearance (not neccesarilly well-made/muscular)
-loving and caring, but not too jelous/possesive
AND one of the most important: -good in bed
If you know how to push her buttons, you have that much more of a chance to make her fall in love with you.
-confident
-protective
-social
-funny/good humour
-clean and pleasant appearance (not neccesarilly well-made/muscular)
-loving and caring, but not too jelous/possesive
AND one of the most important: -good in bed
If you know how to push her buttons, you have that much more of a chance to make her fall in love with you.
Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
umnut wrote...
Lesbians are just like any other normal women and just prefer other women as sex partners, while gays practically TRY to be women in everything they do, from the way they talk to the way they behave...which just sucks.umnut wrote...
Men should be men, and women should be women.You contradict yourself and make yourself look like a fool. You should've just said you're attracted to lesbos but disgusted by homos.
I meant that men should be men, women should be women in terms of behaviour and thought... not in sexual preferance.
And I'm talking about all those gays and trannies who actually think they're "a woman's soul in a man's body", and parade and cross-dress and make complete idiots of themselves... you dont see that many lesbos doing that.
So, in short what I meant was that men and women should retain their native characteristics, such as men being more logical and strong, and women being more sensitive and caring.
I'm a guy, and of course I find lesbians OMFG UBER HAWT SAUCE!!!
But as for gays, I'm simply disgusted by most of them... First of all, in my opinion, 2 guys making out is simply one of the most disgusting, if not THE most disgusting thing I can imagine, next to scat (arousal with shit. That's just my personal opinion on the matter.
Secondly, from the social point of view, how many lesbians do you see protesting, parading and cross-dressing in public, as most gays and trannies do?... I mean it's disturbing to see men dressing and acting like women to the scale that they practically disgrace the opposite sex.
Lesbians are just like any other normal women and just prefer other women as sex partners, while gays practically TRY to be women in everything they do, from the way they talk to the way they behave...which just sucks. Men should be men, and women should be women.
In a nutshell, as a personal taste I find lesbians hawt, gays outrageously disturbing and disgusting, while socially I have nothing against the gays that just prefer to fuck other men, while maintaining a normal mental pattern.
But as for gays, I'm simply disgusted by most of them... First of all, in my opinion, 2 guys making out is simply one of the most disgusting, if not THE most disgusting thing I can imagine, next to scat (arousal with shit. That's just my personal opinion on the matter.
Secondly, from the social point of view, how many lesbians do you see protesting, parading and cross-dressing in public, as most gays and trannies do?... I mean it's disturbing to see men dressing and acting like women to the scale that they practically disgrace the opposite sex.
Lesbians are just like any other normal women and just prefer other women as sex partners, while gays practically TRY to be women in everything they do, from the way they talk to the way they behave...which just sucks. Men should be men, and women should be women.
In a nutshell, as a personal taste I find lesbians hawt, gays outrageously disturbing and disgusting, while socially I have nothing against the gays that just prefer to fuck other men, while maintaining a normal mental pattern.
The most beautiful and touching anime series I've seen are Clannad and Clannad -After Story... there were some episodes at which I cried like a fountain, both from sadness and happiness or sometimes a mix of feelings... and everytime I watch it again, it gives me a feeling of awe and surprise, to see that something man-made can still be so inexplicably beautiful, both in art/animation and especially in the message and idea is transmits.
Forgot to mention I've cried laughing too, it's incredibly funny at times :D.
My opinion, if you haven't seen Clannad you're missing out on possibly the best anime you'll ever see in your life.
Forgot to mention I've cried laughing too, it's incredibly funny at times :D.
My opinion, if you haven't seen Clannad you're missing out on possibly the best anime you'll ever see in your life.
I personally love doing it, and the girls like it too, no question about it >:)
But as others said above, she has to be clean, otherwise no way.
But as others said above, she has to be clean, otherwise no way.
Not a virgin, had sex with 5 girls, BUT I only made love with one of them... and let me tell you it's a HUUUUGE difference between having sex and making love, at least in my opinion.
First time a rock pub, in the toilet with a slutty girl that had sex with most of the people there... not particularry proud of that, but not dissapointed either.
At the moment I can stay without sex for awhile, and am eagerly waiting to find a special someone with whom I can make LOVE with. Sex is great, but truly wonderfull when you do it with someone you love.
In my opinion, who cares if you're a virgin or not, it doesn't define if you're a good or bad person and besides it's everyone's choice when, how and with who to have sex.
First time a rock pub, in the toilet with a slutty girl that had sex with most of the people there... not particularry proud of that, but not dissapointed either.
At the moment I can stay without sex for awhile, and am eagerly waiting to find a special someone with whom I can make LOVE with. Sex is great, but truly wonderfull when you do it with someone you love.
In my opinion, who cares if you're a virgin or not, it doesn't define if you're a good or bad person and besides it's everyone's choice when, how and with who to have sex.
Honestly, my opinion is no, and I'll give you a few reasons why you shouldn't.
First of all, from your story it seems she's the kind of girl that like to switch alot of boyfriends. All the "she still loves him, but likes me and possibly some other guy" is pure BULLSHIT. Sure, she might have some left-over feelings for the guy, but they're just superficial and they'll vanish once she's found someone else to please her, sexually or emotionally (or both, but unlikely).
Secondly, if your buddy says he now hates her, that's because through his hate he focuses more about the her flaws and what went wrong, in order to "let it go"(it's one of the more efficient ways of recovering from a relationship)... So I suggest you don't date her, unless you want to your friend to be upset with you. Even if he's over it, I still suggest you don't.
Besides, every girl you come across is an opportunity to have a girlfriend, don't be shy :P. Women like it when they see a confident man.
First of all, from your story it seems she's the kind of girl that like to switch alot of boyfriends. All the "she still loves him, but likes me and possibly some other guy" is pure BULLSHIT. Sure, she might have some left-over feelings for the guy, but they're just superficial and they'll vanish once she's found someone else to please her, sexually or emotionally (or both, but unlikely).
Secondly, if your buddy says he now hates her, that's because through his hate he focuses more about the her flaws and what went wrong, in order to "let it go"(it's one of the more efficient ways of recovering from a relationship)... So I suggest you don't date her, unless you want to your friend to be upset with you. Even if he's over it, I still suggest you don't.
Besides, every girl you come across is an opportunity to have a girlfriend, don't be shy :P. Women like it when they see a confident man.
Age wrote...
It probally is a rareity the majority of people I know of that are in a relationship before they got a boyfriend or girlfriend always went on about how they wanted to go out with a really hot guy or girl.They rarely mentioned any thing about their personality they would have and some of them arent very nice to be around.
and the ones that tend to care more about some ones personality aren't in a relitionship cause they would rather stay friends that fuck it all up with a relitionship.
Yeah, unfortunately people (mostly teenagers) tend to wanna go out with "the hottest, mightiest and sexiest", which is really an infantility in my opinion.
Of course, if you just want a one-night-stand, then it's not a problem, but in a relationship the importance of :beauty of the body" is shifted. I mean, looks matter less than personality, the most valuable thing in a healthy, happy relationship being the love you share... And if there's love, the trust, respect, lust and tolerance all come naturally.
At least those are my 2 cents.
xxxholic18 wrote...
For me no. It's just a bunch of hormones. Love is just a human concept. Well, this is just my opinion though. But, for me the reason "love" fades is just that the effects of this bunch are gone.Your post really amused me :)
You seem to be confusing love with lust... Sure they go hand-in-hand ina couple, but between the two there's a BIG difference. Why do you think some people (rare cases, true) choose to remain with their lover even after a terrible accident that disfigured or rendered them incapable of sex?... yes the lust is probably gone then, but love (the emotion) is still there, possibly stronger than before when you realize just how much that person means to you, because you almost lost him/her... and we all know that you tend to apreciate something the most, when you lose or come close to losing it.