Condom or No Condom

When having sex, do you prefer to use a condom, or not to use a condom?
I know it will probably depend on whether it's a one night stand, long relationship, etc...
I've always heard it feels better to guys without one so yeah, if you could decide, without worrying what the chick thought, what would you do?

Condom. My girlfriend and I aren't together enough to make getting on the pill worth it, and the last thing I need is for her to get pregnant. But would I prefer to do it without? Of course...

No Condom, I like the sensuality of it. We, as partners develop a deeper connection through it. Using a condom just makes me feel like I'm doing it for the carnal pleasure, which in some cases I don't mind.

Also ladies, think about it, it's a film of thin rubber lining the inner walls of your vagina, doesn't that seem sorta awkward. I know it doesn't feel that way, but come on, think about that.

If we're talking about fantasy, of course it's going to be no condom. But if we're talking about reality, it's going to be condom, definitely.

I'm not about to risk knocking up a girl just so sex will feel a little better. Also, there are diseases floating around that could really ruin your day, and a lot of people have them.

Finally, let's say the woman says she's on the pill and is a virgin. Condom or no condom? Of course, it's going to be - condom. Because she could be lying about being on the pill.

Really? I would have thought no condom would have for carnal pleasure. With a condom I'd think you were trying to protect the girl as well.
It's true I've never tried a female condom (I've always thought it was easier for a guy, especially since there's the chance of the female one kinda getting lost in there) XD

I was talking in the sense that when I wear a condom I feel like I'm having sex for the sake of sex, not for the physical intimacy of another person. Although you're right in thinking no condom feels more pleasurable.

No condom, it feels so much better without one. I'm usually on the pill (I still have to get back on it) But when I'm sexually active I was on the pill and it just felt totally better without a condom. There was more friction and so forth.

Good to hear a female advocate.
No condom, if reasonable. I mean, I don't want to knock a girl up or get the VD, so for various sexual indiscretion, a condom would be a good idea. But if you are in a relationship and know neither has any STD, and the chick is on the pill or other contraceptive, then no condom. It's better that way. You know, the way nature intended and all.

and i'd still go for 'no condoms' on some occasions. :wink:

second, only if i know that my partner is HIV-free.

if i have no idea whether my partner is HIV-free or no, i'm using one.no exception,unless i know that my partner is safe.

die suffering from AIDS? pass.

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I have only used condoms on a few occasions when it was smart to do so (though it's always a smart decision).

One night stand: (as in someone I'll never see again). Condom
Relationship: No condom

I have a perfect track record when it comes to not using a condom. I've had several partners over the years and I know for damn sure that I don't have any kids running around. Honestly, would you people REALLY want a mini F_pod running around? Didn't think so. Anyways, all this will be moot if I find out down the road that I'm infertile.

Yes

fixed. :3

Unless he can show me recent authentic documentation stating that he is in fact disease free across the board, then no sex without a rubber. I don't care if he's the richest man on the planet or the son of god, he's wearing a condom.

If he's got a problem with it, then that's cool. I don't need a man to get off; my toys will do just fine and they don't whine about how I'd let them go bareback if I really, truly loved them. Bitch please.

Sure, why not. :)

Guess I can't say much since I've never been in a relationship, but yeah, like the others said, it's gotta be condom.

If you've never been in a relationship before I think it's safe to say you're a virgin. Either way, I felt the same way when losing my virginity, but after having sex for a while with my ex wearing a condom, we tried it without once, and we had a hard time going back to the condom.

You'll find out for yourself.

I suppose I will. But even so, unwanted pregnancy isn't fun business.

That's what I'm talking about!!!