@ KuoCross "Let THEM choose which ones to watch" Hell of a good idea, kinda figured Id select some of the best options then predetermine which to show who... while I think I could nail the right choices it will be better to present the options to them with a synopsis and let them decide. And you are right on with the "Cartoons = Kids", this is unfortunately close to the attitudes I'm trying to change, but here's hoping.
@ Firstbornnyc "If the people are "anti anime" then nothing you show them will convince them" I still have hope for these ppl, but as you say, they might be too far gone to be saved :)
@ Nachbar "New people do not want to read subs." Absolutely!
@ neko-chan "Trust me I am a professional" And indeed I shall. How can I not listen to someone named "neko-chan"? It is unthinkable :) "No matter how much of a great anime something is, make sure the first episode makes them want to watch a second. " Deffinately a good call, if not a movie then I gotta make the series options ones which will make them want more...
I had my leanings toward Princess Mononoke, Sword of the Stranger, Death Note, and Ghost in the Shell. Gotta cover some basics: Sword combat, creepy mind f*ck, future sci-fi, and of course Hayao Miyazaki.
Got some good ideas to consider now, adding maybe Cowboy Bebop (the movie probably), Samurai Champloo, and Akira.
Hadn't thought of using Hajime no Ippo, might be a good option (though only 1 I seek to convert might be interested).
FMA, a fav of mine but gonna hold it in reserve as a next step.
FLCL... I was really unsure if this should be an option, I liked it but seems a bit out there, maybe a next step.
Thanks all for the advice!! I'm still open to more of course but getting close to laying the gauntlet down.
And, it of course helps that I already own nearly all the options people have brought up... guess I have decent taste in Anime :)