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Kitten_nyan
15 years ago
ashcrimson wrote...
There is nothing wrong with having one, as long as both parties are aware of each other's intetions and expectations. This I mean the business between the two, their relationships outside is a different matter obviously


but people are human and no matter how business like you are about it one person will end up hurt. Think about it you don't just become fuck buddies with anyone right, there has to be something there in the first place and sooner or later one person will want more or one person will start a relationship and the other just gets hurt. I know that they probably don't mean to and on paper its sound but you really cant account for the human nature element in this type of thing.
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shinji_ikari Mustn't Run Away...
15 years ago
In all honesty a sex friend is neither a good nor bad idea...while its nice to be able to have a person to release a bit of sexual frustration upon , kts also an easy way to get an STD ,or someones feeling hurt..I assume if both parties are trustworthy ,responsible ,and mature individuals who can keep themselves from looking for deeper meaning in the sex you end up having...then great fantastic you have a wonderful situation , sadly this rarely happens ,and this things usually end badly for any number of reasons...so long story short..give it a shoot if you think you can handle it..just try and keep yourself on solid footing should it all cave in on you
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Blade4Dead
15 years ago
As long as u don't go this far.

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animefreak_usa Child of Samael
15 years ago
Have one. she was my first girlfriend and best friend. Sounds nice but we broke up because she likes girls now but my flapping stick is the first and last one in her. That and we live together so the show is awesome.
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Nashrakh Little White Butterflies Staff
15 years ago
Iam1vs100xp wrote...
7stars wrote...
SLAYER NEXUS wrote...
I want one. It would be the best thing that could happen to me.


If that's the best thing you think could happen to you, that's pretty sad actually.
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Harontiar
15 years ago
Nashrakh wrote...
Iam1vs100xp wrote...
7stars wrote...
SLAYER NEXUS wrote...
I want one. It would be the best thing that could happen to me.


If that's the best thing you think could happen to you, that's pretty sad actually.


Just let them. It's their greatest dream in life.
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Brittany Director of Production
15 years ago
strangegreycat wrote...
They sound all fine and dandy, until you realize it's essentially just two people being selfish and using the other for their own ends.


I'd have to agree.

Spoil long story:
Spoiler:

When I lived in Pennsylvania my one good friend was married, and also a swinger. She kept getting on my case about how I'm too up tight and that it's been 2 years since I've had sex, and should have a one night stand just to get some stuff off my shoulders.

A guy had seen me via webcam (I was at her house and she was talking to him via webcam and he thought I was cute. He was pretty good looking, and she told me she could hook me up with him. I did refuse the first day, I had never done a one night stand before, and he was quite older than I was, albeit not appearing all that older, but older regardless.

She kept bugging me about it, and my sex drive was starting to fight against my head and she had finally convinced me to do it (the first and last time I let peer pressure get the better of me)

She had taken me to his house and told me to call her whenever I was ready to leave (I didn't drive at the time) and I literally just came in, sat on his couch - talked briefly until he got tired of talking (didn't take long) and undressed me, and took me to his bedroom.

I ended up having terrible sex, it truly was all about him and him being selfish with the pleasure - he couldn't even please me in my most favorite position because he kept pushing my hips down on the bed making the angles suck.

He was too rough, and he was one of those guys that came fast, but recovered quickly. So we went 4 times, I hadn't reached my peak once, and bleh.

He was a nipple pincher too, why is it that girls with large nipples get sucked on, and girls with small nipples get pinched?

He ended up making my left nipple bleed and scab up later, I don't know if it was psychological or actual damage done, but it had been an extremely long time until I felt anything/pleasure on that nipple again.

The whole experience was not worth it, and in the end I just felt dirty.
It's just a selfish act, and I was dumb thinking I'd get anything out of it.

I wore him out and I had to pretend to be out of breath so he'd think I was finished ;|

I guess it takes a lot out of you when you're being a selfish pig.


Though we weren't exactly buddies, we were essentially doing the same thing anybody else would do if they're just hooking up to have sex.
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KG989
15 years ago
Had a few never really ended badly. Trick is to keep them as fuck BUDDIES not fuck LOVE INTERESTS.
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Anonymous
15 years ago
Ziggy wrote...
strangegreycat wrote...
They sound all fine and dandy, until you realize it's essentially just two people being selfish and using the other for their own ends.


I'd have to agree.

Spoil long story:
Spoiler:

When I lived in Pennsylvania my one good friend was married, and also a swinger. She kept getting on my case about how I'm too up tight and that it's been 2 years since I've had sex, and should have a one night stand just to get some stuff off my shoulders.

A guy had seen me via webcam (I was at her house and she was talking to him via webcam and he thought I was cute. He was pretty good looking, and she told me she could hook me up with him. I did refuse the first day, I had never done a one night stand before, and he was quite older than I was, albeit not appearing all that older, but older regardless.

She kept bugging me about it, and my sex drive was starting to fight against my head and she had finally convinced me to do it (the first and last time I let peer pressure get the better of me)

She had taken me to his house and told me to call her whenever I was ready to leave (I didn't drive at the time) and I literally just came in, sat on his couch - talked briefly until he got tired of talking (didn't take long) and undressed me, and took me to his bedroom.

I ended up having terrible sex, it truly was all about him and him being selfish with the pleasure - he couldn't even please me in my most favorite position because he kept pushing my hips down on the bed making the angles suck.

He was too rough, and he was one of those guys that came fast, but recovered quickly. So we went 4 times, I hadn't reached my peak once, and bleh.

He was a nipple pincher too, why is it that girls with large nipples get sucked on, and girls with small nipples get pinched?

He ended up making my left nipple bleed and scab up later, I don't know if it was psychological or actual damage done, but it had been an extremely long time until I felt anything/pleasure on that nipple again.

The whole experience was not worth it, and in the end I just felt dirty.
It's just a selfish act, and I was dumb thinking I'd get anything out of it.

I wore him out and I had to pretend to be out of breath so he'd think I was finished ;|

I guess it takes a lot out of you when you're being a selfish pig.


Though we weren't exactly buddies, we were essentially doing the same thing anybody else would do if they're just hooking up to have sex.


What is this? I don't want to be tricked into reading this. Stop that. I stopped half way through.

I really do think it is a guilty, selfish thing. No matter how long it goes on for, it's going to suck afterwards most of the time.
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Anomalouse
15 years ago
Nashrakh wrote...
Iam1vs100xp wrote...
7stars wrote...
SLAYER NEXUS wrote...
I want one. It would be the best thing that could happen to me.


If that's the best thing you think could happen to you, that's pretty sad actually.


Took the words out of my mouth.

I don't understand people's fascination with fuck-buddies. Wouldn't it be easier to just pick up a complete stranger at a bar, who knows nothing about you, and thus have a clean slate to start with? Isn't it more exciting to be with a new person every single or few times you have sex, rather than be with the same person over and over?
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Brittany Director of Production
15 years ago
Maurice wrote...
Ziggy wrote...
strangegreycat wrote...
They sound all fine and dandy, until you realize it's essentially just two people being selfish and using the other for their own ends.


I'd have to agree.

Spoil long story:
Spoiler:

When I lived in Pennsylvania my one good friend was married, and also a swinger. She kept getting on my case about how I'm too up tight and that it's been 2 years since I've had sex, and should have a one night stand just to get some stuff off my shoulders.

A guy had seen me via webcam (I was at her house and she was talking to him via webcam and he thought I was cute. He was pretty good looking, and she told me she could hook me up with him. I did refuse the first day, I had never done a one night stand before, and he was quite older than I was, albeit not appearing all that older, but older regardless.

She kept bugging me about it, and my sex drive was starting to fight against my head and she had finally convinced me to do it (the first and last time I let peer pressure get the better of me)

She had taken me to his house and told me to call her whenever I was ready to leave (I didn't drive at the time) and I literally just came in, sat on his couch - talked briefly until he got tired of talking (didn't take long) and undressed me, and took me to his bedroom.

I ended up having terrible sex, it truly was all about him and him being selfish with the pleasure - he couldn't even please me in my most favorite position because he kept pushing my hips down on the bed making the angles suck.

He was too rough, and he was one of those guys that came fast, but recovered quickly. So we went 4 times, I hadn't reached my peak once, and bleh.

He was a nipple pincher too, why is it that girls with large nipples get sucked on, and girls with small nipples get pinched?

He ended up making my left nipple bleed and scab up later, I don't know if it was psychological or actual damage done, but it had been an extremely long time until I felt anything/pleasure on that nipple again.

The whole experience was not worth it, and in the end I just felt dirty.
It's just a selfish act, and I was dumb thinking I'd get anything out of it.

I wore him out and I had to pretend to be out of breath so he'd think I was finished ;|

I guess it takes a lot out of you when you're being a selfish pig.


Though we weren't exactly buddies, we were essentially doing the same thing anybody else would do if they're just hooking up to have sex.


What is this? I don't want to be tricked into reading this. Stop that. I stopped half way through.

I really do think it is a guilty, selfish thing. No matter how long it goes on for, it's going to suck afterwards most of the time.


What? ;|
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