So, my girlfriend just caught me looking at vanilla
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Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
wrong section rly? Huh, thought this qualified as incoherent babbling xDNope, has to do with relationship issues.
Relationships/Love section.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
If your partner gets mad at you for looking at straight porn, especially because they think it'll make you leave them, you might want to reconsider your relationship.
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It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.
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Lollikittie wrote...
opanihuya wrote...
Lollikittie wrote...
Nobody gets serious answers in IB.subjective.
should've "helped" anyway.
I fail to the see point in rewarding illiteracy. Also known as 'It would've taken you a whole of 10 seconds to find a more appropriate section.'
Why are you even bothered by what section it was posted in? You feel like a psychiatrist in that section but not here? Cause someone might interfere with your seance of help? don't make me laugh. contributing to the topic only after it was moved somewhere appropriate - are you a machine? are you TEGUMI *blip**blip*
Lollikittie wrote...
I find it amusing that you people think I'm actually, legitimately trying to harass the OP, when in fact, I'm trying to help them. It never helps a person to coddle them.Who's coddling?
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Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.Thought girls is supposed to know that girls lie. xD
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.Time to do the following:
a) Start a new thread in LRR and get some actually helpful responses
b) Sit down and have a biiiig talk with your missus/ girlfriend.
To expand on B; Time to tell her the truth, tell her you lied about not finding men attractive, but you aren't cheating on her, and you're faithful to her.
That is, assuming you aren't cheating, and you are faithful.
I haven't read any other posts besides the op... I'm lazy.
Semi-goodguy Drifter
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Drifter995 wrote...
Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.Time to do the following:
a) Start a new thread in LRR and get some actually helpful responses
b) Sit down and have a biiiig talk with your missus/ girlfriend.
To expand on B; Time to tell her the truth, tell her you lied about not finding men attractive, but you aren't cheating on her, and you're faithful to her.
That is, assuming you aren't cheating, and you are faithful.
I haven't read any other posts besides the op... I'm lazy.
Semi-goodguy Drifter
Yeah, guess I better go with option B :/
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Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
Lonelystreetofsorrow wrote...
It isn't the fact that I was looking at porn but rather that most/all of the argument I used to get her to believe I wasn't cheating on her was that I didn't find guys attractive (sort of a lie). And then she finds me looking at a vanilla; (which more or less proves I lied) So, its not really that I like straight porn but that I blatantly lied to her.Time to do the following:
a) Start a new thread in LRR and get some actually helpful responses
b) Sit down and have a biiiig talk with your missus/ girlfriend.
To expand on B; Time to tell her the truth, tell her you lied about not finding men attractive, but you aren't cheating on her, and you're faithful to her.
That is, assuming you aren't cheating, and you are faithful.
I haven't read any other posts besides the op... I'm lazy.
Semi-goodguy Drifter
Yeah, guess I better go with option B :/
"You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you."
Walt Disney (the person).
It will be awkward, and something might happen, but it will be for the best. Make sure to be honest.
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animefreak_usa wrote...
Can we expand on the lesbian aspect of op op?workisboring.nig
I agree, we should explore this part of the topic more.
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Is it time for yuri hñññg really i pressed something weird to give me ñs again, ññññ ñññ ñññ ññ ñ ñ ñ ñ ññ damned i wanted to put in a question mark but nope, my fingers did a butterfinger slip and did some kind of unknown command that I hate, I think this is the 6th time in four years i´ve had this laptop when that happened, QQs. Imma poast a random gurl pic and be done with qqing.
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opanihuya wrote...
Why are you even bothered by what section it was posted in? You feel like a psychiatrist in that section but not here? Cause someone might interfere with your seance of help? don't make me laugh. contributing to the topic only after it was moved somewhere appropriate - are you a machine? are you TEGUMI *blip**blip*
Who's coddling?
I'm bothered because it literally takes a whole of 10 seconds to realize precisely where to open a serious discussion about personal matters. I fail to see what is so astoundingly horrendous about my simply pointing it out.
If by machine you simply mean 'Gosh, your intellect is so threatening and I feel compelled to call you a tyrant for mentioning a written rule, one that is linked on every single post!'... then sure.
Coddling is when you remove a person's responsibility for themselves. We're all [presumed] adults here, reading is one of the most basic fundamental skills. This is the internet - everything is text. Surely you're catching my drift.
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
gizgal wrote...
is vanilla a person?otherwise I don't see the problem here.
As a recent post showed, the SO of OP got paranoid and though OP looking at hentai that involves male and female means they're still attracted to males, hence thinking of cheating.
Like I said. Seriously need to reconsider this relationship.
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Lollikittie wrote...
I'm bothered because it literally takes a whole of 10 seconds to realize precisely where to open a serious discussion about personal matters. I fail to see what is so astoundingly horrendous about my simply pointing it out.If by machine you simply mean 'Gosh, your intellect is so threatening and I feel compelled to call you a tyrant for mentioning a written rule, one that is linked on every single post!'... then sure.
Coddling is when you remove a person's responsibility for themselves. We're all [presumed] adults here, reading is one of the most basic fundamental skills. This is the internet - everything is text. Surely you're catching my drift.

If you're so fixated on rules - k. But don't think that forum sectionalization is ruling our lives. Why be a mod about it when you can say what you would've said in lr&r in the end. I thought the inner psychiatrist in you shouldn't be bothered by such insignificant details. Or was my previous post correct and you're just a victim of the forum system?
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623
FAKKU QA
opanihuya wrote...

If you're so fixated on rules - k. But don't think that forum sectionalization is ruling our lives. Why be a mod about it when you can say what you would've said in lr&r in the end. I thought the inner psychiatrist in you shouldn't be bothered by such insignificant details. Or was my previous post correct and you're just a victim of the forum system?
Kneesocks is better. Just saiyan.
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opanihuya wrote...

If you're so fixated on rules - k. But don't think that forum sectionalization is ruling our lives. Why be a mod about it when you can say what you would've said in lr&r in the end. I thought the inner psychiatrist in you shouldn't be bothered by such insignificant details. Or was my previous post correct and you're just a victim of the forum system?
Gosh, you've really opened my eyes on what a follower I am! I'll start walking into each forum and just talk about random shit that's inapplicable because rules and common sense are stupid, anyway!
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623 wrote...
Kneesocks is better. Just saiyan.Haven't considered. Just googled ruru for the sake of argument.
Lollikittie wrote...
Gosh, you've really opened my eyes on what a follower I am! I'll start walking into each forum and just talk about random shit that's inapplicable because rules and common sense are stupid, anyway!Somehow your exaggeration does not reconnect with what it all started with.
Just let me sum it up:
Ib is as good place as any to respond with what you had in mind. Consider the notion
biatch.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
opanihuya wrote...
Lollikittie wrote...
I'm bothered because it literally takes a whole of 10 seconds to realize precisely where to open a serious discussion about personal matters. I fail to see what is so astoundingly horrendous about my simply pointing it out.If by machine you simply mean 'Gosh, your intellect is so threatening and I feel compelled to call you a tyrant for mentioning a written rule, one that is linked on every single post!'... then sure.
Coddling is when you remove a person's responsibility for themselves. We're all [presumed] adults here, reading is one of the most basic fundamental skills. This is the internet - everything is text. Surely you're catching my drift.

If you're so fixated on rules - k. But don't think that forum sectionalization is ruling our lives. Why be a mod about it when you can say what you would've said in lr&r in the end. I thought the inner psychiatrist in you shouldn't be bothered by such insignificant details. Or was my previous post correct and you're just a victim of the forum system?
She's doing what we normally do. But it's probably the fact op is a girl with another girl that everyone has gotten all sweaty and spaghetti about it...
Seriously, she's not doing anything different to the norm, stop trying to call her out on it, she is right. Ib won't get you many serious and good responses. It was lucky a few of us actually responded with serious responses