Yandere Club - You will only look at me, RIGHT~? â¤
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
Harontiar wrote...
We can't have everything. That's what makes this world wonderful.It's just as hard to get rid of things we don't want >.<
We call that as 'hoarding', sweety. It can be associated with obsessive-compulsive disorders, either OCD or OCPD. Well, I know you don't really have that disorder, since you are referring to social relationships, not objects.
I know it is hard for you, but for goodness sake, please just do it. You are making things complicated for you, sweety. There is nothing wrong with telling what you don't like about a person, with respect to the circumstances, of course.
Okay. I will try it first.
I have the feeling that you are too self-conscious and sensitive on social relationships. Well, you can also be insensitive sometimes which make people misunderstand you. I think it is more of like being 'frank' than being cold. You easily get depressed, frustrated, or whatsoever. Emotionally unstable? There is a low possibility that it is schizoid or schizotypal. It could either be BPD or AvPD. This is only my opinion about you, sweety.
I used to have AvPD, but I'm now able to open up with others, and it is still improving as days go by, unlike before which I always prefer to be alone and do things myself. It was not easy to cope with it, since I really need to adjust my personality to be able to do it. I did it one step at a time.
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You know, some of that is just related to Fakku because I know everything I say here is being judged.
I can't help being frank and speaking my mind about things because that's what my parents are like.
The depression is mostly because I'm always alone irl. Honestly if you met me you'd see a much better side to me.
I only get frustrated by certain people here and the fact I'm labelled as something before said person bothers to get to know me.
I'm not a mean person, I just take time to get close to.
I can't help being frank and speaking my mind about things because that's what my parents are like.
The depression is mostly because I'm always alone irl. Honestly if you met me you'd see a much better side to me.
I only get frustrated by certain people here and the fact I'm labelled as something before said person bothers to get to know me.
I'm not a mean person, I just take time to get close to.
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Hurrrrrg. Yandere construction...Hmm..this place is same with my bookclub. If it had an objective once in awhile maybe it would pull more people in...hmm. Like for my bookclub maybe I could take a passage from a certain book and tell people they have a 3 days to read this and in that time frame come back and discuss it~ o3o And/Or keep posting and researching good books xD But I dont have that kinda time or drive atm >.<;
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
You know, some of that is just related to Fakku because I know everything I say here is being judged.I can't help being frank and speaking my mind about things because that's what my parents are like.
The depression is mostly because I'm always alone irl. Honestly if you met me you'd see a much better side to me.
I only get frustrated by certain people here and the fact I'm labelled as something before said person bothers to get to know me.
I'm not a mean person, I just take time to get close to.
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~
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HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
I'll keep that in mind Shanie~
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HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
I'll keep that in mind Shanie~
I don't want to upset you, but you'll have to accept I'm not like the others is all.
*hugs*
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
I'll keep that in mind Shanie~
I don't want to upset you, but you'll have to accept I'm not like the others is all.
*hugs*
Shanie, the different people are the best people~!
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HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
I'll keep that in mind Shanie~
I don't want to upset you, but you'll have to accept I'm not like the others is all.
*hugs*
Shanie, the different people are the best people~!
Doesn't feel that way...
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HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Shanie, the different people are the best people~!
*Stalks*

@Shane
Hey shane, how are yea? ^_^
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
Dr Shaneman wrote...
HurrDurrpingson wrote...
I never labelled you Shane, i just want to see who you are... That and i have to get close to one of my own brothers~It wasn't aimed at you entirely at more, but a little bit of my point might apply to you if you copy a certain other persons habits.
I'll keep that in mind Shanie~
I don't want to upset you, but you'll have to accept I'm not like the others is all.
*hugs*
Shanie, the different people are the best people~!
Doesn't feel that way...
Doesn't have to feel that way to be true~
*Hides* Suzu-nii! That isn't funny!
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
Asuzu wrote...
@ShaneHey shane, how are yea? ^_^
mmm okay, you?
Well... folks kept me busy...
O good, im glad you here. Now we can have that conversation I wanted. Talk about anything you want. ^_^
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
You know, some of that is just related to Fakku because I know everything I say here is being judged.I can't help being frank and speaking my mind about things because that's what my parents are like.
The depression is mostly because I'm always alone irl. Honestly if you met me you'd see a much better side to me.
I only get frustrated by certain people here and the fact I'm labelled as something before said person bothers to get to know me.
I'm not a mean person, I just take time to get close to.
Okay. I understand now. Anyway, it is not like you are the only who is always at fault. In order to have a fruitful social relationship, both sides (you and a third party) should be willing to open up and understand each other without prejudice in order to compromise with any matter involving unpleasing personalities.
You don't need to force yourself on someone or a group of people just to be recognized or to gain friends. A true friend is one who fully accepts you as to who you really are. We don't need to wear a mask just to be accepted, really. It will eventually lead to depression and anxiety because of our regrets for doing so.
In any case, I already know what people hate about you. Even so, they also have their own problems which they keep on denying due to whatever reason that is. Instead of doing something about it, they would rather choose to blame people and harass them. It is only a form of escapism. The problem is still at hand. I don't want to be like that, and I also want you to realize it. Not all people are meant for us.
Koko7 wrote...
Hurrrrrg. Yandere construction...Hmm..this place is same with my bookclub. If it had an objective once in awhile maybe it would pull more people in...hmm. Like for my bookclub maybe I could take a passage from a certain book and tell people they have a 3 days to read this and in that time frame come back and discuss it~ o3o And/Or keep posting and researching good books xD But I dont have that kinda time or drive atm >.<;I already have a lot of plans for this thread, but my laziness keeps on hindering me on doing so. I really don't mind if there are only a few people posting here. I just like to share my passion, the same goes for the other people in this thread. On the bright side, it is still alive up until now, and I'm thankful for that.
I rarely read novels or pocketbooks. I usually read textbooks or political books, so I think I'm not suit on that kind of thing. Shame on me. > >
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Harontiar wrote...
I already know what people hate about you.I'm still clueless on that, no matter how quiet I am even.
I just wanna post casually in and out now and that's it.
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Dr Shaneman wrote...
Harontiar wrote...
I already know what people hate about you.I'm still clueless on that, no matter how quiet I am even.
I just wanna post casually in and out now and that's it.
Of course. Just do your stuffs as always, sweety.