Do you want kids

If just your mother thought the same way...

I hate it when people misunderstand the jokes of Monty Python. Monty Python is sacred, dont do it! :<

Also, no I dont want kids. And the reasons:

1. I dont want to get pregnant for these reasons:
- I'm not really into vomiting and I have such a bad phobia that I would NEVER do ANYTHING that would cause vomiting.
- No sex for months. Both of us, me and my bf think that having sex while the woman is pregnant is dusgusting shit.
- Giving birth, the pain and the possibility of tearing perineum all the way to the asshole and from that all the infections, do not want [size=10](Sexperience UK is a tv show with lots of information about sex, and one episode about pregnancy, and thats where I heard how badly you can break down there when giving birth)[/h]

2. Mental and physical illnesses that run in my and in my bfs family. We have quite much depression, some narcissism panic disorder, diabetes, all kinds of heart and blood pressure illnesses. They are all hereditary illnesses that run in my family. And because of them, I think it would be really selfish for me to get a child one day. So, if I ever for some odd reason decide that I want a baby, adoption is my option [size=10](that way I wouldnt have to think about the pregnancy issues either)[/h]

3. Babies can be cute, but only when they sleep or play without crying, pooping or puking. I'm not very child loving person. Children of age 5-18 are especially annoying.

4. and then the basic reasons:
- I'm poor
- I dont have a profession yet, cause I dont know what I want to be when I'm big D:
- I like weed and if a parent gets caught smoking/growing, there's a possibility of losing the child
- I like to live my life the way I want, without having to think about a child who needs me like 24/7
- Dogs are just way better "babies"
- We dont really need any more people on this planet.

At the moment i don't want kids but i do in time. I know as of now i wont make enough money to support them, but when i get married, have a better more well paying job and my own place. I know i will want a little piece of living hell to have looking up to me and have the slight chance the will grow up to be able to change the world.

I don't even plan to get married, so no.

I would like to have kids, one day, definitely.

at least one, preferably two, maaaybe three.
three is my limit.
I even have ideas for names.
;~;

Not at the moment but I'd like to have children when I settle down. As to how many, I have yet to discuss it with my future husband. XD But if you ask me, I'd like to have two children, dizygotic twins preferably.

i think your thinking of this too negatively...we were all children.

i have a friend with similar views of yours but it's always and i mean ALWAYS the couples decision to have or not have children together.your viewpoint on children is clear but your partner may think the opposite.and as a couple it's important to have a child when you're both ready to and hear each other out and work things out.

Just two is enough. You see, too many kids can bring you harm...

I'd like to have at least 2 kids.

But before I can even worry about that, I should look into getting a girlfriend first =\

Oh you're right...But I still want to enjoy the world of hentai a little bit longer ;)

Who says you can't enjoy it if you have a girlfriend?

But yeah, I get where you're coming from.

No, I rather spend 250,000 dollars (excluding college) on other things. That’s for one kid! Imagine how much you could do for yourself and other people with that money. I would be a terrible parent anyway; my kid would become a serial killer for sure.

I do! because thats every girls dream to have a family! but ofcourse it should be someone I really love and ofcourse i've finished graduating. wedding dress~ :D

Of course i do ^____^

i still have alot of things i need to work on personally before i'm truly ready. My partner is up and ready to get some kids haha.

I'm only 20 now so all this stuff is probably going to come decades later but in the end it is my duty to get married and have children, it may be alright for people who've grown up in liberal countries to shirk their duties, but for us theres a whole other aspect to it. Imagine if your own parents had decided not to have kids you wouldn't exist - also as the eldest male I carry on the bloodline of our clan/tribe/family and it is my duty to propogate it. Not having children would be akin to urinating on your ancestors graves - this is especially true if you've received any sort of inheritance, (our society dictates that inheritance such as ancestral land and ownership shares in the family business must stay within the tribe).

I understand if people don't want to have children because they can't financially support them. Having said that not wanting to put in the effort or being scared of pregnancy is no real excuse in my opinion. Then there's adoption, which is probably a good thing to do if you feel the world is overpopulated already and you just want to do a good deed, but In a society like mine it would be impossible.

so to summarise
A) YOU WERE BORN (you owe it to those who gave birth to you and those who gave birth to them to have children)
B) Even if you don't want to have your own children you can always adopt and do the world a favour
C) The only excuse not to would be if for some reason or another you are rendered unable to raise children (could be because of money could be anything)

Anti-bug post.

Yes, one day. Whether they're biological or adopted, it would be nice to raise some children who you can teach and help get to know the world. And frankly because just by giving even the tiniest of effort I could be a better parent than the surprising number of horrific parents out there.

I actually just finished having this conversation with someone in the real world, and for now, I opt for no. I am way too selfish (with my time), way too self absorbed (with the things I do during the day), way too in love with my job (it sometimes has ridiculous time requirements), and frankly I just don't feel I have the makings for being a good father at this point in my life. When I actually feel like I can fairly give a child the proper time, care and support they would need to be raised proper, I will change my vote. For now both marriage and children are absolutely out of the question ~ it simply would not be fair to them.

I would like to have children later on, but not right now.



@apatch3 I can understand your personal belief in continuing the blood line. IMO I believe a lot of people feel, that if they fall in love with someone else and both want kids they'll have children.

I don't believe that not having kids is like "urinating on your ancestor's graves"(Blown out of proportion). I am grateful I was born but that doesn't mean I owe anyone a child. Adopting a child just to say you have one is ridiculous.
You should put IMO in front of that post, otherwise it sounds pushy...just saying.

Maby when i get older(now 21). Right now i have my problems and in my situation being a parent feels impossibe. That is because i would like to be a good father. My own father was always distant and most of the time only criticized or ignored his children. It affected me and my sister and caused many problems later. I just don`t wanna do the same mistakes, my father did.

I don't like bratty boys because they are just too annoying for me >.> For a little girl maybe because I want to cherish and hold them close to me.