Do you want kids
Do you want kids?
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I totally want kids at some point, but SHIT! I aint there yet, not at all. I didnt finish university, dont have a girlfriend, dont have a house...
but my kid will totally play video games. With the amount of games im piling up right now, ill be playing games after my retirement for sure lol, so my kid better help me with those :)
but my kid will totally play video games. With the amount of games im piling up right now, ill be playing games after my retirement for sure lol, so my kid better help me with those :)
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Room101
Waifu Collector
No, and nowhere in the immediate future.
For one, I simply don't think I would be a good parent - and as long as I'm convinced of that, my attitude towards this won't change. I'd probably be too harsh to kids and a bit insensitive, mostly because of the next point:
-I simply dislike kids...not hate them, but I feel very uncomfortable with them little critter running around my legs.
Maybe when I'm much older...but then it might be too late...I don't know. I have never had any of those "wife, two kids and a house" dreams (except the wife part) and I don't really care about my family's lineage, if there are people still interested in that.
For one, I simply don't think I would be a good parent - and as long as I'm convinced of that, my attitude towards this won't change. I'd probably be too harsh to kids and a bit insensitive, mostly because of the next point:
-I simply dislike kids...not hate them, but I feel very uncomfortable with them little critter running around my legs.
Maybe when I'm much older...but then it might be too late...I don't know. I have never had any of those "wife, two kids and a house" dreams (except the wife part) and I don't really care about my family's lineage, if there are people still interested in that.
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Oh HELL no.
I'd make a really horrible parent, anyway. My parents keep saying I'll turn into a horrible-tempered, lonely, pathetic, old, cat lady when I grow up, but is that such a terrible thing? My kitties (and maybe a dog) will love me unconditionally and will stay with me as long as I keep feeding them. Pets are more loyal and cheaper than kids too. I think it's better than having kids whose lives you screwed up and who blame you for it and will now have nothing to do with you. I'm just saying.
I'd make a really horrible parent, anyway. My parents keep saying I'll turn into a horrible-tempered, lonely, pathetic, old, cat lady when I grow up, but is that such a terrible thing? My kitties (and maybe a dog) will love me unconditionally and will stay with me as long as I keep feeding them. Pets are more loyal and cheaper than kids too. I think it's better than having kids whose lives you screwed up and who blame you for it and will now have nothing to do with you. I'm just saying.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
meh not really , but who knows in 20 years my opinion on the entire thing may change so who's to say.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
do i want kids no, do i have kids yes... i don't think people want them, they just feel they have to have them, because of religious and cultural reasons.
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I voted no. Why? several reasons.
First and foremost I will be 71 in 38 days (assuming I make it)
Second and of a more personal nature, Any child I would have now I would not even see graduate middle school(well maybe) and high school and college let alone see get married.
More to the point I already have 3 boys ages 40 (one grandson one grand daughter)
38 (one grand daughter) and 31 who is married delightful young lady who is a virtual child and as he says "One child is all I can handle" LOL
Truth be told all 3 have turned out to be outstanding, productive citizens. There were stages in their lives where I was certain they would either be dead by 20 or in prison. Luckily my Ex and I must have done something right.
I don't believe in an afterlife (heaven or hell) but I was taught that children are your immortality. I think I am a lucky person knowing what we had produced
First and foremost I will be 71 in 38 days (assuming I make it)
Second and of a more personal nature, Any child I would have now I would not even see graduate middle school(well maybe) and high school and college let alone see get married.
More to the point I already have 3 boys ages 40 (one grandson one grand daughter)
38 (one grand daughter) and 31 who is married delightful young lady who is a virtual child and as he says "One child is all I can handle" LOL
Truth be told all 3 have turned out to be outstanding, productive citizens. There were stages in their lives where I was certain they would either be dead by 20 or in prison. Luckily my Ex and I must have done something right.
I don't believe in an afterlife (heaven or hell) but I was taught that children are your immortality. I think I am a lucky person knowing what we had produced
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Room101 wrote...
No, and nowhere in the immediate future. For one, I simply don't think I would be a good parent - and as long as I'm convinced of that, my attitude towards this won't change. I'd probably be too harsh to kids and a bit insensitive, mostly because of the next point:
-I simply dislike kids...not hate them, but I feel very uncomfortable with them little critter running around my legs.
Maybe when I'm much older...but then it might be too late...I don't know. I have never had any of those "wife, two kids and a house" dreams (except the wife part) and I don't really care about my family's lineage, if there are people still interested in that.
IT'S LIKE YOU READ MY MIND.
I think I'd be a decent parent, I just have no desire to be one.
Plus I only love babies, they're cute. Once they can talk then it's just awkward and uncomfortable...or just very annoying lol
Besides, if I ever decide I want a kid, only one, I'll adopt.
The world is already over-populated enough as is, I'm not going to add to the problem.
And I reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally don't want to ruin my vagina, I happen to enjoy it. lol
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Knew lots of girls who were having kids in high school because no one heard of a condom. I didn't have a boyfriend... My brother was always watching over me and I didn't want to risk it. Also some other reasons... But... I would love to have kids. I like to watch over young kids. My my cousins and such. I hope when I give birth it doesnt hurt too much >_<;
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Half of me does, and the other half doesn't. :-L It's annoying.
Oh and dude, if you don't get mad at your kid when s/he's yet only a toddler or a child (below 10), then she wouldn't rebel to you. Just from experience 'cause my sister-in-law (Who, by the way, is kinda hot hihihi. Nevermind I said that) raised her daughter without getting mad at her. Maybe once or twice, but yeah. Now she's like, 7 and she performs pretty well. Obedient too. :>
(MY GOSH MY POST IS SO LONG HAHAHAH.)
Oh and dude, if you don't get mad at your kid when s/he's yet only a toddler or a child (below 10), then she wouldn't rebel to you. Just from experience 'cause my sister-in-law (Who, by the way, is kinda hot hihihi. Nevermind I said that) raised her daughter without getting mad at her. Maybe once or twice, but yeah. Now she's like, 7 and she performs pretty well. Obedient too. :>
(MY GOSH MY POST IS SO LONG HAHAHAH.)
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i want kids. It'll be so sad to live through your life without any junior (insert surname here)
Sure they may be a pain-in-the-ass
But we all were, and thats part and parcel of life i guess.
Sure they may be a pain-in-the-ass
But we all were, and thats part and parcel of life i guess.
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deftera_mirage wrote...
No but you don't know what will happen in the future.Agreed. Right now I don't because I have given my parents a lot of trouble and I don't want that trouble (as wrong as that sounds) and for financial reasons (raising kids is so damn expensive) and it'll interrupt the sex life as well.
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I hate kids!
I also hate the idea of getting married.
I think its fucking impossible for me to be with the same person the rest of my life.
So, yup! I'm gonna die alone. Yay!!! =D
I also hate the idea of getting married.
I think its fucking impossible for me to be with the same person the rest of my life.
So, yup! I'm gonna die alone. Yay!!! =D
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I'd love to have a warm family, a wife and kids that truly love me. However, that doesn't actually happen too often in real life, but nonetheless, it's one of my biggest dreams.
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yes, i want a son who i can make my accomplice in every way, apart from banging his hot mum. oh..
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Perhaps. It would depend on a future Mrs. kgods being in the picture; which as of now doesn't look so good.
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It will all depend on wht im like in 10 years. I know my mindset will probably change as I change girlfirneds, values, jobs, experiences etc. But right now, right now this very second, that is a definate negative. Not only am I still studying for a career (and thus a child would remove me fron said study) but in my customer service line of work, all you see are the negatives of having a child. They come in, scream, poop, throw up 35 feet onto a stack of merchandise, destroy the stock presentation...and you should see what the child does!
Personally speaking, having a child would change me, if I had one I would agree they were a miracle and a breath of life into my stale repetativeness. But until that happens, im just going to keep seeing the negatives and that will give me a negative outlook on the whole senario.
That and I dont have a partner at the moment...
Personally speaking, having a child would change me, if I had one I would agree they were a miracle and a breath of life into my stale repetativeness. But until that happens, im just going to keep seeing the negatives and that will give me a negative outlook on the whole senario.
That and I dont have a partner at the moment...
