Ever had a prenancy scare?
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yeeah i kno that feeling, i had a daughter when i was 20 and it was tough
i had very little money, i thought of having an abortion because i wouldnt
be able to give her a good life, but my bro and i started a company when we turned
21 and now i have money for her collage education but i gues not many are as lucky as me
i had very little money, i thought of having an abortion because i wouldnt
be able to give her a good life, but my bro and i started a company when we turned
21 and now i have money for her collage education but i gues not many are as lucky as me
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tsukiyomi2021 wrote...
Lixbonna wrote...
Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
You anti-abortion folks should start getting real. Waar's side on this matter is a wise one to follow: If you're willing to have sex, then you're willing to risk and accept the consequences of a possible accident. If not, then stay out of it. This feeling of dread you speak of could be avoided altogether if only you abided by that.Never had sex before myself, but this anti-abortion gibberish really doesn't click with me. So I don't think I'd dwell too hard on this situation, were it to happen.
^You're pro-abortion, right? But when you say " you wouldn't have to dwell too hard", you do realize it wouldn't be your decision only,what if she decided she would want to have the baby?
Also, even though it's pretty rational that if you don't have intercourse, you wont get ( anyone ) preagnant, you know that sometimes in a relationship, you reach a "level" in which you start to get intimate. Sexual attraction is pretty much unavoidable( and the best you can do is be mature about it, get protection and talk about things)
Still, I agree with the 1st part:
Sex isn't something to be taken light-headedly. You shouldn't start having sex unless you are mature enough to man up and deal with it if something were to happend.
Even though you're protected, sex isn't all just about having fun.
tsukiyomi, have you thought about what if she actually were preagnant?
Actually we discussed it. I, for one, know that we could not have a child and give it a life it deserves. I told my girlfriend my feelings in this matter, and made it clear that I would much rather put the child up for adoption as that's what happened to me and live a happy life, again like I did. However, if destiny so chose that it was not my time and to warn me if I tempted fate too much it would bite me in the ass, I welcome it and learned from it. I'm 22, and about to graduate next week, however I want to pursue my law degree, and need 3 years till that JD, and my girlfriend still has 6 years left till she graduates from Dental school. It's not that I'm not mature enough to take care of a child, as I am and willing if it happened, it's that I would be ill-prepared.
Very well spoken : ) (y)
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Lixbonna wrote...
tsukiyomi2021 wrote...
Lixbonna wrote...
Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
You anti-abortion folks should start getting real. Waar's side on this matter is a wise one to follow: If you're willing to have sex, then you're willing to risk and accept the consequences of a possible accident. If not, then stay out of it. This feeling of dread you speak of could be avoided altogether if only you abided by that.Never had sex before myself, but this anti-abortion gibberish really doesn't click with me. So I don't think I'd dwell too hard on this situation, were it to happen.
^You're pro-abortion, right? But when you say " you wouldn't have to dwell too hard", you do realize it wouldn't be your decision only,what if she decided she would want to have the baby?
Also, even though it's pretty rational that if you don't have intercourse, you wont get ( anyone ) preagnant, you know that sometimes in a relationship, you reach a "level" in which you start to get intimate. Sexual attraction is pretty much unavoidable( and the best you can do is be mature about it, get protection and talk about things)
Still, I agree with the 1st part:
Sex isn't something to be taken light-headedly. You shouldn't start having sex unless you are mature enough to man up and deal with it if something were to happend.
Even though you're protected, sex isn't all just about having fun.
tsukiyomi, have you thought about what if she actually were preagnant?
Actually we discussed it. I, for one, know that we could not have a child and give it a life it deserves. I told my girlfriend my feelings in this matter, and made it clear that I would much rather put the child up for adoption as that's what happened to me and live a happy life, again like I did. However, if destiny so chose that it was not my time and to warn me if I tempted fate too much it would bite me in the ass, I welcome it and learned from it. I'm 22, and about to graduate next week, however I want to pursue my law degree, and need 3 years till that JD, and my girlfriend still has 6 years left till she graduates from Dental school. It's not that I'm not mature enough to take care of a child, as I am and willing if it happened, it's that I would be ill-prepared.
Very well spoken : ) (y)
Agreed.
I've had a scare once, but she was only a few days late. Which can be normal I guess. As clockwork as the female cycle is, it can go out of wack sometimes.
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FinalBoss
#levelupyourgrind
I laugh about this kind of stuff on the Maury show, but I'll be damned if it ever happens to me.
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tsukiyomi2021 wrote...
Has anyone else had the dreaded "Fuck, I'm gonna be a dad" scare?
Nope, i already swore to myself that i will only do it after marriage.
And it serves me well until today.
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Kinda-sorta.
Short Version:
I had sex with this girl, unprotected, pulled out[Not the safest way to go about it, but, whatever.]. Same girl has sex with another guy 2-3 days later. He, according to her, was wearing protection but somehow came in her all ninja-like.* About a week or so later, she starts getting the symptoms of pregnancy.
Now, I don't know a damn thing when it comes to determining the exact point of insemination, but it seemed to be a close call. My friends were all like, "The kid's totally yours, dude! Hahaha!", trying to scare me and make me believe that it was mine, but later on I find out that it's the other guy's.
*[size=10]Now, I know this was complete bullshit. I'm not a girl, but I'd like to think that you'd be able to tell the difference between a dick with a condom on it, and a bare dick.[/h]
Short Version:
I had sex with this girl, unprotected, pulled out[Not the safest way to go about it, but, whatever.]. Same girl has sex with another guy 2-3 days later. He, according to her, was wearing protection but somehow came in her all ninja-like.* About a week or so later, she starts getting the symptoms of pregnancy.
Now, I don't know a damn thing when it comes to determining the exact point of insemination, but it seemed to be a close call. My friends were all like, "The kid's totally yours, dude! Hahaha!", trying to scare me and make me believe that it was mine, but later on I find out that it's the other guy's.
*[size=10]Now, I know this was complete bullshit. I'm not a girl, but I'd like to think that you'd be able to tell the difference between a dick with a condom on it, and a bare dick.[/h]
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gizgal wrote...
Kuroneko1/2 wrote...
You anti-abortion folks should start getting real. Waar's side on this matter is a wise one to follow: If you're willing to have sex, then you're willing to risk and accept the consequences of a possible accident. If not, then stay out of it. This feeling of dread you speak of could be avoided altogether if only you abided by that.Never had sex before myself, but this anti-abortion gibberish really doesn't click with me. So I don't think I'd dwell too hard on this situation, were it to happen.
seconding completely.
Also, the reason why I still haven't gone all the way D;
Yeah I agree kuroneko. Like I said before. On a thread about abortion somewhere. I just didnt state it as so eloquently as you~
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Yup, a my ex-girlfriend had a pregnancy scare a few months ago. She called me one day after she was a bit late for her period, and told me she was getting a pregnancy test. She got a kit with to testing sticks and the first one came up positive so she got really paranoid. I told her to calm down and try the next one to make sure it wasn't a false positive. Ends up, thats exactly what it was. After the 2nd test came up negative, she went to the doc to get it checked out and she wasn't pregnant. The doctor said false positives are actually rather uncommon, as most home pregnancy tests are 95%(?) accurate.
It wasn't really a scare for me, I was rather confident in my ability to handle school and parenthood, but she was mortified. I can understand why, though, its quite an imposing prospect, birthing a child.
Also, I'm pro-abortion, and I believe she was as well. Having sex has consequences, and accidental pregnancies are definitely one of them. I'm against late-term abortions, however. Any abortion after 6-7 months is murder.
It wasn't really a scare for me, I was rather confident in my ability to handle school and parenthood, but she was mortified. I can understand why, though, its quite an imposing prospect, birthing a child.
Also, I'm pro-abortion, and I believe she was as well. Having sex has consequences, and accidental pregnancies are definitely one of them. I'm against late-term abortions, however. Any abortion after 6-7 months is murder.
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2 weeks after we broke up, my ex-girlfriend called me and told me she was pregnant -_- Turned out later that while there was an egg, there was no child (i dunno exactly what the case was), so even if we hadn't decided on it from the start (which we did), she had to have an abortion.
When she told me over the phone, I was pretty damn shocked, froze in the middle of a street and almost got run over.
When she told me over the phone, I was pretty damn shocked, froze in the middle of a street and almost got run over.
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yea i have with this one girl barely meet we did it with out a condom and a couple weeks later she told one of my friends that she hadnt had her period and all of my friends were telling that got her pregnat and i was scared out of my mind i didnt know what to do but it turned out that they were just all messing around with me
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Captain Badass! wrote...
Yup, a my ex-girlfriend had a pregnancy scare a few months ago. She called me one day after she was a bit late for her period, and told me she was getting a pregnancy test. She got a kit with to testing sticks and the first one came up positive so she got really paranoid. I told her to calm down and try the next one to make sure it wasn't a false positive. Ends up, thats exactly what it was. After the 2nd test came up negative, she went to the doc to get it checked out and she wasn't pregnant. The doctor said false positives are actually rather uncommon, as most home pregnancy tests are 95%(?) accurate.Yeah, I must say that's pretty uncommon. The pregnancy test detects human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) in the urine, the special hormone that only secreted by the newly developed fetus in the womb. The false negative result, as far as I know, can only result from your ex-gf taking medication to treat infertility. Or maybe she's using the medication to scare you? Either way, the false negative results are very uncommon, because the pregnancy test is not 95% accurate, it's 99% accurate because like I said before, the hCG is a very unique hormone.
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neyapuckachinha wrote...
Punch her real hard in the stomach. Problem solved. thats not funny
Nope, i already swore to myself that i will only do it after marriage.
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I support safe sex. I'm to young to be a parent. All of my past gfs was on pills, and we used condoms every time. I know that raw is the best, but I don't want to become a dad any time sooner. Maybe arround 27-30. That's a good age to become a parent, I think.
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bfg10k17 wrote...
I support safe sex. I'm to young to be a parent. All of my past gfs was on pills, and we used condoms every time. I know that raw is the best, but I don't want to become a dad any time sooner. Maybe arround 27-30. That's a good age to become a parent, I think.^ Pills and condoms is still the best for me :')
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Yes...When i was 16...My Girlfriend kept on vomiting...even during class hours she excuses herself and goes out...I didnt know what to do...for a few days, so i asked her to come with me to the hospital and have a check up...Didnt know what to do lol...good thing it was a false alarm...But either way I think ill still support her when it does happen XD
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luinthoron
High Priest of Loli
tsukiyomi2021 wrote...
Has anyone else had the dreaded "Fuck, I'm gonna be a dad" scare? If so, what's your story.
Sadly, no. Virgin here...
