For all you troubled guys (and gals)..

First, I'd like to say hi to all members of Fakku! This thread was made out of pure, good intentions to simply help people with their dating/social troubles. Anyway, the other thread "Why can't we ever get the girls?" or something of that sort, made me start to think about how simple it is to get a girlfriend (or in my case boyfriend).

I am the advice giver for my friends when it concerns dating or any problem that concerns social situations because I've been around the block, I have fairly high EQ, or Emotional Intelligence, and I'm trustworthy (meaning I don't blab to anyone about the problems that person is having). Also, I'm straight forward, but nice when giving advice. It's easy for me (and probably most people) to look at someone else's situation and see the obvious solution, but it's hard to see it when you're the one in the situation.

So, for those of you guys (and gals) having dating problems or just need help in general with it, you can PM me. If you are okay with your problems being public, you can just reply to the thread. Either way is completely fine.

Those of you who do PM me, please be patient for me to respond. I'm juggling school work, a social life, volunteering, physical therapy, and personal alone time. :]

Hope you all have a good night!

They grow up so fast...*tear*

thank you for being good and good to you.

Thanks for the offer, might need some advice in the future.

You're too kind, your making me so proud.

Lol anyway I'd love somebody to exchange thoughts with on such subjects (since I don't always want to pester the same person with those sort of problems, though my blabbering probably wouldn't interest you that much.

Guess I'll ask first. I'm really shy (when i talk to people) but when i can type something i have no problem with it can anyone think of a way to help me? thanks in advance.

Okay then, so what is that actually attracts the average cute girl?

Guys, you know what they say, you ask a general question, and you get a general answer.
But then again am not the OP so i wouldn't know.

And, uh, I know what my problem is, so I i've got half of the road covereddont really need help, but thanks for the offer.

Ok, well, what is this EQ you speak of, and where do I find out what mine is?

Here for example I guess: http://quiz.ivillage.co.uk/uk_work/tests/eqtest.htm

Wow. I wasn't expecting reps for that. Haha. Thanks! I really do just want to help you guys if you need it. It's really nice to have someone to talk to about your problems knowing that they won't be judgmental, even if you are talking to that person over the internet. :] So don't be shy if you need advice! I really won't bite.

@dr roxo
Who grows up so fast? Lol.

@kikimon689
That's nice of you to say! Thank you? :]

@orpheus
You're welcome! PM or post on the thread when that time in the future comes!

@Granth
I'm not too kind, but thanks. Haha. I just believe that people should have a person to talk to. You can exchange thoughts with me! You won't be pestering me. I love blabbering so we can blabber together. I really won't mind! I like talking to people.

@icyevilchief
Not much information you gave me, but I could come up with a hypothesis or two about why that may be.

Talking on the internet is having the freedom to say anything you want because they do not know what you look like. It's like hiding behind a mask, but times ten. You don't have to worry about what you're saying because it doesn't matter if anyone doesn't like what you posted. They don't know you and you don't have to see or deal with that person who doesn't like what you're saying. It's just easier that way. Hope that made sense to you. :]

Another reason could be that when typing, you can backspace and delete anything you thought might've sounded embarrassing or wrong. You can edit what you're saying, then post. In real life, what you say (most of the time) just comes out without a chance of being revised. So, you can't revise what you just said and make it sound 'cooler'. You can't delete it, backspace, or anything of the sort.

@shansleven
First of all, there is no average cute girl. Therefore, I could not tell you how to attract one. I could help you in situations on what to do to have the highest probability of success with the girl, but every girl is different. Every girl has her own list of characteristics that she finds attractive in a man. Being confident, collective, and cool is usually the best approach. But some girls like the shy type. Some girls like the loud type. See what I mean? Every girl is different.

@Maxiart
Very true. It's hard to come up with a specific and detailed answer when I'm getting such vague questions.

Okay! :] That's fine! Some people can just handle things on their own. If you ever change your mind or feel that you are suddenly in need of advice, you can ask me! And you're welcome!

@Quadratic
Granth posted something as a reply to your question, but you probably already noticed that. Haha.

@Granth
Thanks for posting a website about it. It saved me 30 seconds to a minute of time trying to search for a site about EQ. :]

Secret mocking is secret.

QUARTET-SAMA IS SO COOL! >///< *bows* i will look forawrd to your advice giving in the future! :3

+rep for being a compassionate human being

I second that notion.

I'm sorry! Did it sound like I was mocking any of you? D: I really didn't mean for it to sound like that!



Aww! Thank you so much! I'll try my best to give as honest, accurate, and helpful advice as possible! :D



Thanks guys! That's really sweet! :]

Btw, although I really appreciate the +reps, please don't give me anymore! I don't want some troll or really anyone accusing me of just wanting +reps. I really did just make this for advice. Sorry if that sounds weird!

I don't recall ever saying I was a guy D:<

But compassion is far rarer than it should be.

Haha. I didn't mean to call you a guy. I say 'guys' even when I'm talking to my friends who are girls. Sorry! :D

That is very true, but that's what makes me strive to be a better person. One person can change the world. And even one tiny gesture can brighten someone's day.

It's okay, I am a guy. I just don't recall ever saying that. :P

Hahaha. Oh, okay! Then, nevermind. :]