Remilia wrote...
One of my life goals is to get rid of the old fashioned idea that guys have to ask girls out and girls just have to sit there and do nothing, hoping to attract guys.
Both genders should be equally active in their pursuit of love. It shouldn't matter who asks out who.
This! And who has to call who first. It really shouldn't matter: genitals don't factor into the process of asking someone out or making a phone call or most aspects of dating, so why make the process gender-specific?