How do you feel if the girl ask you out?

I totally agree with this.
In addition if a girl would ask me, I would give it a try. Definitely.

I would most definitely say yes. That might just be because I have never had a girl ask me out. I find that If they ask the guy It shows that she really likes him and is willing to take the initiative to ask him.

Pretty much.

Ugh, piss me off too lol. He says im beautiful and all but feels like he want something more of a deeper meaningful relationship? iono. I feel the same, he barely gives any crap back...he says he's not the type to like text first or something and im like wth seriously? He rarely say sweet stuff like he wants me to come over and take a nap with him, he also says it feels complacent without me and what not. Although he says some of these stuff i feel like it doesnt mean anything. I like actions better than words..then he goes and say i dont understand him. I do, but i think what he is doing is dumb and make things so complicated. He keeps emphasizing that he's not sure about a lot of things....indecisive guys are so annoying...

My first girlfriend asked me out first. I dont understand how that would hurt any mans pride, i mean have you ever seen a hunter complain about the duck placing him self in the cooking pot? lol

well i'm a girl and i have asked a guy out before. in my mind if i ask a guy out it's because i'm tired of waiting for him to ask..

I'd give it a try..Perhaps this date would allow me to get to know her better.

A girl? That asks a guy out?
1. Can be really hot or cute.
2. She's got guts, like any guy has to have to ask them out.

If you have an interest in a guy, go for it. Just be sure to avoid desperate people and indecisive people. I have made this mistake before, and I can tell you from experience that it is certainly a learning experience.

Many times, desperate people want a relationship. It doesn't matter who the relationship is with, as long as they have "a relationship". Unfortunately some people are attention starved and the whole idea of someone being interested in them is so exciting that many (but not all) desperate people can handle it. I dated a guy who I didn't realize was desperate until right after I started going out with him. To cut to the chase we broke up because a girl who he had been talking to for two weeks on e-harmony before he met me had contacted him again. She had blown him off for their date because she got a boyfriend and decided to ignore him. She and the boyfriend had just broken up and she contacted him, hoping that they could get together. He told me he felt like he was missing out on other opportunities while dating me (we had been going out for a month and a half) and that he was already planning to meet her for coffee. Of course she didn't end up liking him so of course he came back, saying that maybe the break up was a bad idea.

And don't stick around for indecisive people. They maybe be confused but honestly maybe it is better to give them time and let them come to you if they make up their minds to do so. There is no sense in wasting your time on someone who doesn't know what they want. I have an acquaintance who decided his type was any girl who would give him some attention and lots physical affection. Luckily his wish was granted, but he's not so thrilled with the results. She wants a relationship with him and she showers him with affection, she's fairly cute but he's not so sure it is what he wanted. While he still will waver back and forth and lead her on, hook up with her but then will avoid her.

Spare yourself the headache and spend your time on someone who is worth it. Good luck ^^

Suspicious, she must be out to make me look like a fool some how.

I think it's amazingly cute(and very exciting) when a girl asks the guy out. I've only every had one girl ask me out, and it was just that. Amazing!

*sigh* To be lovestruck is nice.

Yes, I would go out with her cause shes got balls for asking me out. This type of thing happens so rarely and even if I'm not that attracted to her, I would still go out with her just to see what it feels like and get to know her better.

You are right on. He is indecisive. I did the best i could as any girl could've done. Be nice to his families, went out of my ways to take his little brother to go trick-or-treating while he was at a party, be there to morally support him, gave him the best physical attention, etc. In the end he was still confuse and whatnot. It was a really hard decision but i've decided to let him go for it was only hurting me. He still wants me to be a part of his life but im only going to treat him JUST as a FRIEND as he desired. Hmm, his lost.

That's how I ended up dating an awesome girl back in my Army days, although she kinda told me instead of asking.

Her: You're taking me to a movie dinner and shopping this weekend
Me: Is that a date?
Her: Yeah, you got a problem with that?
Me: Uhhh.. No? I'm not sure what to do now...
Her: Don't spend money this week, you're paying.
Me: Oh... Kay? So it's a date then, a real date?
Her: Yeah.
Four months later best relationship I've ever had, a week after 4 months she gets stationed elsewhere and breaks it off saying "it was fun"

I personally wouldn't care. But that's just a rash and general answer. I guess it depends on the circumstances. I'd prefer to be the one doing the asking-of-the-outing, but there's nothing wrong if the girl feels ready before the guy says anything.

Well, depends on the girl really.

But I would probably accept and use it as a chance to get to know her better.



A real-life tsundere.

We don't really date in Sweden but if a girl actually dares to show that she likes me she gets a lot of plus points.

I don't want to sound overly ignorant, but this is news to me. So what do you do?

We dress up in silly hats and get drunk.

Nah but just to get this straight, with dating i mean basically two people spending time together or doing some activity to see if they could be a couple. This rarely ever happens with the exception of dating sites and some big city people who wanna act international. I don't really know how to explain what really goes on here but you have this really effective but, to quote wikipedia on what the germans say, "unspontaneous", "ridiculous" and "rigid", way of getting to know someone you like. Stuff just happen here a bit more slowly and when something happens it mostly quickly turns into a serious relationship.

I find the concept of going out to dinner or to the movies with a girl that I hardly know but who seem a bit interesting completely mind blowing. To put it simply i guess you can say that we just hang out here, often in groups and if stuff happens, stuff happens. But the reason for hanging out is cause it's fun and not for "mate searching".

Hope I didn't made you too confused xD

Y'know I live in the US, and even I don't understand as you put it "going out to dinner or to the movies with a girl that I hardly know".

I guess it works for some people, but to me it sounds like you're setting yourself up for failure by doing it that way. Especially if you don't know how well the two of you will get along. Because of that most people I know normally get to know the person for either a couple weeks or months before asking to go with anywhere with them alone.